Table of Contents
List of Abbreviations and Glossary of Terms ix
Prelude. A Family Vacation 1
1 Coming Out of the Constitutional Closet 5
2 Opening Pandora's Box 34
3 Trojan Horses 56
4 Aloha, Same-Sex Marriage 81
5 Defense of Marriage 113
6 A Place at the Table 145
7 Equality Practice 171
8 The Cinderella Moment 199
9 Cinderella Under Siege 227
10 The New Maginot Line 248
11 The Winter of Love 282
12 Latter-day Constitutionalists 311
13 Love Makes a Family 336
14 "Restore Marriage" 368
15 8, the Trial 396
36 Three Men in a Room 430
17 Obama's Team Gay 454
18 Behind the Glass 482
19 The Perfect Wife 514
20 Hijacking Science 552
21 Seif-Determination 580
22 From Outlaws to In-Laws 622
23 The Golden Rule 660
24 Families We Choose 702
Postscript. And It Ends with Family 748
Appendices 755
Notes 779
Acknowledgments 913
Index of Names 920
Index of Subjects 968