Table of Contents
Introduction 1
1 - Setting the scene 7
2 - Calling it what it is 11
3 - Our focus is on men’s violence 15
4 - Men’s violence takes many forms 21
5 - You are still reading 27
6 - What’s it all about? 31
7 - Stop thinking about causes 37
8 - It’s about control 43
9 - More about control 47
10 - Beliefs about being a man 53
11 - Boys will be boys 57
12 - Glass ceilings and other things 63
13 - Male privilege 69
14 - Masculinity and violence 77
15 - Masculinity and sex 85
16 - A summary: where have we explored so far? 91
17 - Seeing another side to men 93
18 - What goes on inside 101
19 - The hidden emotion 105
20 - Breaking the Cycle 113
21 - On track 119
22 - A path of courage 123
23 - Facing up 127
24 - What harm have I caused? 135
25 - Repairing the harm 143
26 - Safety, Safety, Safety 149
27 - Watching our words 153
28 - Re-building trust 161
29 - Finding support 167
30 - Raising your sons to be kind men, strong men 175
31 - Staying in touch 181