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A Queer and Pleasant Danger: The True Story of a Nice Jewish Boy Who Joins the Church of Scientology and Leaves Twelve Years Later to Become the Lovely Lady She Is Today

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 4, 2014

    Brutal Honesty at its very best

    I was well familiar with Kate's gender outlawery (I'm a fan) and her S&M interests (I saw her theater show with her wife on this), but I was really quite surprised and fascinated at the contents of this book.

    This is an engrossing tale of a lost and vulnerable person, who joins, excels and fails within the most well-known contemporary cult and who manages to pick herself up afterwards. Gender and S&M (as well as lots of heteronormative sex) are included, but not what I'd consider the heart of this tale. Mostly, it is about the intertwining of the rise of Scientology and the personal ambition/striving of Kate's former self. l I found the inside view into Scientology very interesting intellectually, and this was anchored to emotion by the viewpoint of Kate as man/woman, showing such great compassion and vulnerability in sharing the full details.

    I found it both endearing and (at times) heartbreaking, a wonderful read and highly recommended to anyone who has ever tried to be accepted, been outcast, or ever had any interest in cults or social manipulations/marketing.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 14, 2013

    One of those kinds of people (in other words, a MUST READ!)

    Ms. Bornstein's autobiography is so compelling, there are times you might think to yourself, "This is too entertaining to be true." But I think most people have a friend like that in their life; someone who regails you with stories of random adventures and dubious life choices (like, say, Bornstein's decision to become a Scientologist as a way to deal with her gender dysphoria), I mean, even *I* went to Clown College for a semester...anyway, you have one of these friends and you tell them repeatedly, "You should write an autobiography!" Well, Kate Bornstein did.

    There are so many interesting and unexpected twists in her life, from aspiring street performer to advisor to L. Ron Hubbard to transsexual to activism, no matter what your interest, Bornstein has been there, done that, and has the tattoo to prove it.

    This is an amazing, inspiring book that encourages readers to live lives of daring authenticity, and we all could use a reminder of that from time to time. The pages roll by, and I was so entranced I barely noticed I had consumed the whole thing in one sitting, less than four hours (and I'm not a speed reader by far); the prose is just that welcoming and conversational. Kate Bornstein is an amazing woman, an inspiration to generations of freaks, weirdos, genderweirds and queers who can't ever pass as heteronormative (and why would they if they could live such a fascinating life?) She assures them they, too, have a right to be who they are in this world, no matter what that might be, as long as they aren't mean or harmful to others.

    One of my most treasured autobiographical reads, I can't recommend this book highly enough.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted August 1, 2012

    Facinating life

    A monologue in book form of a facinating life. I wish the book had been twice as long.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted June 30, 2012


    This is were the party is....:)

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    Posted May 4, 2012

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