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Getting to I Do

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  • Anonymous

    Posted June 13, 2004


    Patricia Allen is a Brilliant!!! This book gives a viewpoint that may SHOCK many however only those that can't accept the way many things we were taught re: relationships now don't work! 60% divorce rate proves that.Dr. Paticia Allen has lived and learned and this book has changed my life and many of my friends.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 22, 2004

    The Yin-Yang of Relationships

    This book has made a huge difference in my life,and I how I deal with all my relationships, both personal and professional. It's helped me better to understand my male-energy girlfriends and female-energy male co-workers. For me, Pat's overall message is about balance in a relationship - finding the complements and working through the differences.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted November 27, 2001

    If only I had read this 20 years ago!

    This is without a doubt the best - most understandable - book on successful relationships. NOW I know why I've struggled in past relationships. Every female should read this book!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted November 10, 2001

    It Works!

    I read this book about 4 years ago... I did everything it said... and I've been happily married now for two years. After I read the first 4 chapters I bought 10 of these books and gave them to my girlfriends. Unfortunately, most of them laughed at it and today they are still single or now unwed-mothers with no man. I've realized since then that some women will always be victims because they never listen to good advice. For every problem Dr. Patricia Allen gives an answer. I'm very happy.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted March 30, 2001

    I'm getting married this fall!

    This book will definitely help you define the role you wish to play in your relationship. It will help you understand yourself and your partner, including his communication style etc. I highly recommend it.

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