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35 out of 41 people found this review helpful.
Sets the stage for 2010 summer reads.
I appreciated the detailed medical procedures, sports matches and elementary schools application process scenes that I possibly would not have understood otherwise without the author being so descriptive in her writing. The author also has an aptitude for understanding the human experience, especially the experience of living amongst the judgment, rivalry, loneliness, need to feel completed and to be continually happy that many women face today as well as men. Many love her earlier books but I will have to go out on a possibly blasphemous limb and say that Heart of the Matter is her best, should they ever be compared. The content of the book is true literary escapism and so true to life. Single, married, old, young and women from any walk of life can relate to this book. Please do not dismiss this book as a narrative lacking substance. There is so much to this story. Well done Emily Giffin, five stars well deserved!
posted by Jeanelle_C on May 15, 2010Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Most Helpful Critical Review
13 out of 22 people found this review helpful.
Could have been better.
posted by LaBrujaBuena on May 21, 2010Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted September 16, 2011
good book... but i had mix feelings about it
I had so many mix emotions about this book. I don' t know if its because I'm married i didn't see Valerie's point of view. She knew he was married from the beginning and she chose to do the wrong thing. As for him, even though i started to hate him i have to say that he manned up and did what he was suppose to (tell his wife about the affair). Tessa, my heart goes out to her. She did nothing wrong, worry about her family and her marriage. She was very supportive of her husband career.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted September 11, 2011
Posted August 15, 2011
Great fast read!
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Posted August 12, 2011
Posted August 10, 2011
Ends up being a great book
I give this 4 stars because it was very slow in the beginning. I put the back down several times and sometimes it remained down. It is when i finally realized the connection between Tessa and Val that made the book more interesting.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted August 3, 2011
I love every book by this author
I had originally read "Something Borrowed" when the movie was coming out, as I figure the book is probably pretty good if they make a movie of it. I was hooked immediately. I have since purchsed every book she has written, and have read all but one. This is the most recent one I have finished. She so perfectly captures and describes the feelings of the different characters that it is impossible not to empathize with everyone involved, even the characters who would traditionally be considered the villains. In her stories there are no villains, just people dealing with difficult situations. I have experienced one of the situations described in one of her books firsthand, and reading her story made me realize what the other person is likely feeling, and made me more sympathetic to that person. She is an excellent writer, with an excellent grasp of describing the exact emotions a person feels in the situations of the characters. I will read anything she writes. Hands down one of my new favorite authors, and for someone as fussy as me that is saying a lot. I recommend all of her books.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted August 1, 2011
Couldn't put it down...
Realized at some point that this is an extension of the "Something Borrowed" and "Something Blue" series...I LOVED IT!!!!Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
I was kind of hoping it ended a little differently, but hey...it was still a GREAT book!
Posted July 20, 2011
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Posted May 6, 2011
Maybe it hit to close to home
This was a very good story. I guess going thru something close to this I understood where it was coming from. Everyone handles these situations different. I truly enjoyed it.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted May 1, 2011
Posted March 24, 2011
Thoughtful and bittersweet
Having waited impatiently for this to come out in paperback, I bought it for a flight on the first day it was available and wasn't disappointed. To those who say it is too similar to Something Borrowed and Love the One You're With, I respectfully disagree. Does anyone really think that Dex should NOT have called off his wedding to Darcy and married Rachel instead? No one committed adultery, despite the messy situation. Dex, in fact, made the ethical choice. And in Love the One You're With (my favorite Giffin since Something Borrowed), Ellen does make the right decision - though she shouldn't have played with fire or had to agonize so much over remaining faithful to her adorable husband. The real conflict in Love the One You're With is not choosing between two potential partners - as it is in Something Borrowed and Heart of the Matter - but Ellen's need to support Andy in his career and family choices while remaining true to her own dreams. Ultimately, they arrive at a solution (one that, as a transplanted Southerner in New York, I applaud and relate to quite well). In Heart of the Matter, Giffin takes this conflict a step further, and we end up with a successful surgeon who can't decide whether it's more important to be faithful to his wife and children or to give succor to a single mom and her badly injured little boy, his patient. Giffin is a skillful writer, and she spins a finely crafted story that lets us see how this man gets to the point of no return without, I think, ever condoning his behavior. As I read, I could see no excuse for what happened and thought at numerous points along the way that Nick or Valerie could and should have ended the situation before it became an affair. Valerie is not unsympathetic, but there's no way her excessive dependency on her son's surgeon - and worse yet, allowing her sweet, fatherless little boy to install him as a surrogate daddy - can be excused; nor can Nick's frustration with his home life (which is pretty cushy) justify his actions. Tessa is completely sympathetic; she's better than the spoiled 'desperate housewives' around her, but she and her children have to function in the social milieu where their husband and father's profession places them, even if he can withdraw to the hospital to escape it. The bright spots in this novel were seeing Dex and Rachel as a (very!) happily married couple - nice touch, making Tessa Dex's sister - and the poignant scene between Tessa and her divorced parents in the restaurant after her family learns of Nick's betrayal. Good parents always come through, and Tessa's do for her. The book concludes as it should - I would have been horrified had Nick and Tessa actually split up - but, as Tessa says, it is not a perfect resolution. The overarching takeaway for me is that Tessa's mother is right: If you have earned a Ph.D. and a tenure-track position, don't give up your career to be a full-time suburban mom - just be the best mom with a great job. Good advice - and a good (if sobering) read.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted January 20, 2011
This book definitely can hit home; gossip, be trail, heartache, love, friendships and relationships. It makes you step back and really try and understand what you take for granted and what you can do to liven it up once in a while. Routine is definitely good but chance ever so often can make a difference! The suspense makes you want to continue on and finish, read it you wont put it down.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted January 16, 2011
Posted December 25, 2010
Our book club just finished this and loved it! I am a huge Giffin fan and she has done it again with this novel. This book is perfectly written and so poignant. The story is delivered in a way that we are able to see both sides of these character's well defined lives. This is one of my favorite Giffin pieces and I highly recommend it!Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted August 4, 2010
A good look at life through fiction
This book touches on many things that women go through on a daily basis. It is a work of fiction, but could easely be someones life. Touching and worth reading.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted July 18, 2010
Posted July 1, 2010