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I Hate You - Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality

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  • Posted June 10, 2011

    Helpful per therapy doctors

    I am ordering this book for my daughter who has BPD the description I just read fits her to a T. However how do other people handle it who have to be around them 24 7? Anyway her therapist recommended she read this and when she is done I may get it on Nook Book.
    So if a therapist requests it reading for a patient then I would suggest it. My daughter is 37 adopted and we have no idea of history of health issues. But she has battled personality disorders for years. She has threatened suicide so many times that I don't know when the real threat will happen, she says these things in front of her 2 boys. Maybe this will testimonial of sorts will help someone else.

    4 out of 5 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 18, 2010

    Highly Recommend... great book!

    This is a great book for anyone who has Borderline Personality Disorder, or for anyone who knows someone who does. I definitely recommend it.

    2 out of 3 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 2, 2011

    Excellent Guide

    I first read I HATE YOU, DON'T LEAVE ME when the first edition was published almost 20 years ago. At the time it was the first book on Borderline Personality and it has since become the classic in the field. This completely updated edition (December 2010) is a major improvement on the first, as it includes all of the new advances in medications, genetics, and therapies available. Yet it is still concise (only 250 pages) and an easy read, with many case stories that illustrate the principles involved. Twenty years ago there was little hope for those afflicted with BPD--and their families, spouses, lovers, close friends--now the prognosis is much more optimistic. This book will save you the purchase price many times over, in navigating the mental health field, finding a therapist, deciding on the right medications, and most of all understanding what it's like to live with this illness.

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted September 6, 2014

    Awesome resource for those with BPD

    My psychiatrist had me read this book while I was in the hospital after being diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. This book gave me a lot of insight into why I behave the way I do and what to expect in my future. My psychiatrist recommends this book for anyone with BPD, and I stand by his recommendation.

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    Posted August 4, 2014

    Hunter/Brady

    Okay okay i did not mean to be an imposter i didnt now a brady existed its just that im trapoing a bounty hunter and im going under this name.

    0 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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    Posted August 3, 2014

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    Posted August 23, 2014

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    Posted September 1, 2014

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    Posted July 24, 2014

    Koda

    Skipped in.

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    Posted September 14, 2014

    Rage

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    Posted July 24, 2014

    Dr. Lethe

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    Posted July 23, 2014

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    Posted July 23, 2014

    Is did da lab rp?

    I wanna be a test subject ~€|iz@b€+h

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    Posted July 23, 2014

    Can i join?

    Umm... is this the lab rp? Cause i want to be a test subject plz

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    Posted August 21, 2014

    Tyler

    So? at pinewood derby i came in 38 out of 40. That year my car sucked.

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    Posted August 4, 2014

    Pat to all

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    Posted July 20, 2014

    Violet to serenity

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    Posted July 15, 2014

    Austin

    He stands and leans against the wall again then walks out.

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