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It's Okay to Sleep With Him on the First Date: And Every Other Rule of Dating, Debunked

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  • Posted June 27, 2013

    I haven't read the book, nor am I going to read the book. It is

    I haven't read the book, nor am I going to read the book. It is not okay to sleep with a guy on a first date. I have no respect for a woman if she comes close to letting me go there too fast. I don't have any respect for friends who brag about their conquests either. Nor do most guys when the conversation comes up.

    The question comes down to how you want to be viewed in your relationship. Do you want to be loved and thought about because of you or because of the physical pleasure you provide? Maybe you feel you need to go there because you can't keep a guy or girl interested otherwise. Well, this is a bigger problem with how you handle the date. Are you showing interest in him/her? Are you talking about topics which interest the person? Are you complaining about anything? Sharing too much info? Most of my dates fail because either I or the person I'm out with complain or share too much information.

    Sorry, but you are not going to get a second date telling me about your doctor being too aggressive cleaning up your uterus. We are not going out again if you tell me how you've been in and out of the doctor for a year. I don't want to know you have daddy issues on date one. I don't want you planning your life with me, even a month out, if we just met. I don't want to know you have problems with your family. Or you don't really have any friends. I want to leave the first date and most of them smiling because I'm lucky enough to meet you and to continue seeing you. Good luck!

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