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  • Anonymous

    Posted November 3, 2009

    Courageous and heartbreaking

    I have read in the overseas press that Ms. Myerson is being villified for writing about her son and his addiction. I think she is a hero for her courageous parenting and for writing this tragic book. More people need to wake up and see what drugs are doing to our teens. Even pot, which, until I real the book, I had no idea could cause permanent frontal lobe brain damage in teens. She writes with such emotion and clarity, I can feel her pain searing through each page, and it makes me think of my own 17 year old. If one half of what she said was truth, her son was a danger to not only himself, but her husband, herself and her other two children. WHAT is a parent to do, when a child threatens to stab them in the heart with a knife, tells them to F off on a regular basis, steals, destroys property on purpose, and actually sent her to an emergency room with a damaged eardrum after he hit her? I love my son with my whole heart, but I would have done the exact same things that she did, probably sooner than she did, and I would have wept just as often after kicking him out. Unless you walk in this families shoes, you can't know the pain of having a child under the influence of drugs. It tears at every thread of your family, your finances and your sanity. God Bless you, Julie and thank you from the bottom of my heart for your courage. Your book gave me the courage to continue my own battle with my 17 year old. You see, good parents can have bad kids....and anyone who thinks otherwise is just a roll of the dice away from the hell that Julie and her family have and are continuing to have to live with.

    3 out of 3 people found this review helpful.

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  • Posted August 31, 2009

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    A deeply moving, heart-felt, thoughtful and superbly written non-fiction book.

    Novelist Julie Myerson's new book, "The Lost Child: A Mother's Story", is a deeply moving, heart-felt, thoughtful, and superbly written non-fiction book. The author has woven two independent strands, or merged two disparate stories into one, to produce this sparkling and spell-binding narrative. In the UK, where it was published in March of this year, the book has become highly controversial too.

    The first story is about a remarkable artist named Mary Yelloly, who died of consumption in 1838, at the age of 21, leaving a collection of some 200 watercolor paintings depicting family life in Regency England in early 19th century. The author saw a fat, leather-bound album with the name Mary Yelloly stamped on the front - a collection of paintings which the artist had started when she was only eight years old, and ended by age 12. The author was intrigued and so impressed with the paintings that she decided to gather information about the artist and her family. During this time her eldest son, aged 17, starts smoking a potent variety of cannabis known as Skunk.

    When Ms. Myerson's son gets addicted to smoking cannabis, his descent to hell and the devastation his addiction inflicted on her family forms the second, and much more gripping, strand of this astonishing book. Written in prose so elegant, pristine, lyrical and mesmerizing that I was overcome with awe several times; this book is truly astounding: "He just shrugged. But then his father leaned across to touch his arm and make a little joke, and our boy looked at the ground and smiled his old heartbreaking smile, the one he's had since he was two years old."

    The author states that she showed the manuscript to her son, and he gave her permission to publish it. The controversy arose because her son was not of legal age of consent at the time, and she had him evicted from her home even though he was only 17 years old. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book, even though I found it heart-breaking also.

    2 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 7, 2015

    dear " mean girl"

    I feel the same way that you do. Even worse I share a room with my younger sis so I cant cuss. I made code words so that I am actually not saying the word. Anyway my mom just doesnt seem to understand my feelings so I keep them locked up tight in a journal. Something else that helps is screaming in an isolated place.

    Also do not let the fct tht ur a girl stop you from doing anything. Remember PTTW and PTTL. Power to the women and power to the ladies and also PTTG power to the girls! Hope this helped :)

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  • Posted February 10, 2013

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    Reefer madness!! Shame on Julie Myerson for her lies and propoga

    Reefer madness!! Shame on Julie Myerson for her lies and propoganda. I pity her poor son who was put thru hell by a parent who is ignorant of the facts of marajuana obviously had her own aganda. Do you work for a liquor company b'c the only enemy here is a legal substance called alcohol!
    This book is garbage in a neat package and boring to boot!!

    0 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted October 9, 2012

    Ik im mean but not at all like that an im a girl

    Some ppl wud say i have anger issues but i dont u piss me off ill g at u. Well me an my mom get into it a lot an i prety much always cuss her under my breath. Now think bout it im a girl an i shudnt b doing that right. Well im not as bad as this kid i mean for crying out loud he sent his mom to the emergenci room i wud never think of hitting my mom ik she wud hit back anyone have any advice i want a bttr relationship with my mom an i prety sure it not gona hppn if we r always fighting the way me an her always do

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