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A Love That Multiplies: An Up-Close View of How They Make it Work

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18 out of 20 people found this review helpful.

A great read!

The Duggar family is one of those families that everyone seems to have an opinion on. Either people think they are crazy for having so many children or they think that how they run their family is borderline child abuse (older kids taking care of younger kids) or they s...
The Duggar family is one of those families that everyone seems to have an opinion on. Either people think they are crazy for having so many children or they think that how they run their family is borderline child abuse (older kids taking care of younger kids) or they say "more power to them". A Love That Multiplies has cemented my decision on which bench I sit.

I firmly say more power to them.

The "tone" I get from the book is that they are loving parents trying to raise their children in a loving, Godly way. They seem like a united couple with a common goal of raising their family to be kindly, godly people. Admirable, wouldn't you say? The book is very heavily based in scripture, but I would not call it Bible thumping. They are just telling their story and their story is very Faith based. I enjoyed their book immensely and will probably set the DVR to catch more of their show. Overall a great book.

posted by charlottesweb93 on June 5, 2011

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8 out of 11 people found this review helpful.

Not Much New Information

I have to admit, I watch the Duggars' TV show. So I was pretty interested to read this book. I tend to find the Duggars' religious beliefs a bit extreme, and there is certainly a lot of preaching in this book. It does make sense though, as their religion is their whole ...
I have to admit, I watch the Duggars' TV show. So I was pretty interested to read this book. I tend to find the Duggars' religious beliefs a bit extreme, and there is certainly a lot of preaching in this book. It does make sense though, as their religion is their whole life. The first section of this book covers Michelle's pre-eclampsia and Josie's emergency delivery. There's not really anything new there if you have seen their TV show.

The rest of the book covers their philosophies for parenting and life in general. These are heavily influenced by Bill Gothard and his IBLP. Their beliefs fall under what I would label as (in the words of my nephew) "super mega extreme" conservatism. Once again, there is very little in here that you don't already know if you watch their TV show. A few interesting notes for me was that Michelle and Jim Bob both readily admit that they do get upset and have (in the past anyway) even raised their voices. Shocking, I know. However, it does make them seem a little more human. Perhaps the most compelling thing in the book is Michelle describing what it was like to learn her father was dying while Josie was also fighting for her life. This part was actually a very beautiful example of how her life and beliefs helped to bolster her in a very low point of her life.

There is some useful advice. For example, Michelle discusses taking care of needs and/or bad behavior when it first appears instead of letting it go and potentially become a bigger problem. However, for every useful idea, there are several things that appear not as good to me. Blanket training was a concept I took issue with. I have a 17 month old, and I find it vastly unrealistic to think that he should be able to sit on a blanket and not move for an hour or so. No way am I going to torture both of us by trying this. There's also a strange bit where they talk about training their children (even very small ones) that they have to look everyone directly in the eye, lest they come across as disrespectful. What if the child is naturally shy? Or going through a clingy stage? It seems odd to me.

The writing was just OK. It's written in the first person, but the narrator switches between Michelle and Jim Bob a lot. It got kind of annoying to find out who was talking half-way through the section. I wish that had flowed a bit better. There were also some things that seemed thrown in to quiet critics. For example, there were several recipes in the book, and almost all of them included lots of fresh veggies and fruits. Maybe that is how they really do eat, but I know they have gotten some criticism for how their diet appears on the show. They also have a section about how their daughters would be allowed to live out there dreams and even go to college (even though Bill Gothard seems anti anything that takes women out of the house and authority of a male). Whether this is true or not remains to be seen.

Overall, this book is pretty good. If you watch their show, there is not much new to be gleaned from this book (unless you want to memorize Duggar approved Bible verses). It is a fairly quick read. Be prepared to get products (especially those from places like IBLP and Vision Forum) heavily endorsed. There is quite a bit of that in the book. If you really love the Duggars, then you will probably enjoy this book. Otherwise, most the book will probably leave you shaking your head.

Galley provided by publisher for review.

posted by l_manning on June 7, 2011

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  • Anonymous

    Posted November 19, 2011

    Great

    The duggers are a great example of how i would love to raise my family,when i have one.

    2 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted September 9, 2011

    Great book about what family life should be!!

    This book is written in simple words however with much faith! It has great tips for raising kids God's way. Reading it has greatly increased my faith!
    thank you Jim Bob and Michelle :)

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Posted July 7, 2011

    Wonderful!

    Lovely family. Great book. Must read!

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted October 29, 2014

    I &hearts the duggar

    I &hearts the duggars!!! I really &hearts that they &hearts god as much as i do!!! And that Jill and derik r going to have a baby boy!!!!!! YAY!!!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted September 22, 2014

    5+ stars!!!!!

    I love this book!!!! I feel I know them and hurt with the premature birth of Josie(she is so cute!) and with the loss of Jubilee

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  • Anonymous

    Posted September 15, 2014

    Did u here?

    Jill and derrick are expecting and jessa is engaged!!!!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 8, 2014

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 19, 2014

    I love you Duggars!!!!

    Wow the duggrs sre amazung and so Gid like i just admire them and wish i was a kid in that family

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  • Anonymous

    Posted March 3, 2014

    Duggars Duggars Duggars!!!!!!!

    Please duggars!!!!! If you need me to pray for you please let me know i have sent you a letter in 2009 i think ( the year) i am10 years old Elizabeth Delp( i will give you my address once we get in conntact)

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 20, 2014

    Love them

    I love the dugger family all of their kids are so well behaved. I know what it feels like to have a lot of kids in the house i am child 3 of 7 being one of the oldest i have to try hard to help my parents. But enough talk about me and more talk about this wonderful family. I think i can name all of thier kids and i am going to try here it goes ..... Josh Jana John David Jill Jesa Jinger Joseph Josiha Joy Anna Jedadiah.....Jason James Justin Jackson Johannah Jeniffer Jordan Josie. Josh is married to Anna and they have three children Makenzie
    Michel and i heard they had a third but i do not know its name or gender

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 15, 2014

    Love

    The the show cannot wait to see the next season of nineteen kids and counting maybe 20 kids in countinf

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 3, 2014

    More Duggar news!!!!!

    Anna Duggar is expecting her fourth child!!!! She is about 9 weeks along.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted September 23, 2013

    Wonderful book!

    Great book. The duggars are really great. But I think they've gone a little over the edge since they got on tv. Im pretty young also and I read. It. its was ok

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 4, 2013

    Love them but

    I havent read their book yet i would love to but idk if mom would let me im sixteen btw and love them so many people have nothing but negative things to say about them it makes me mad but i love them and their kids are so well behaved and sweet

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  • Anonymous

    Posted June 30, 2013

    Congraulations

    Josh, Anna, and family Congraulations on your 3rd baby!!
    It wasn't your 1st child or he wasn't born in the bathroom!!
    He was born under water!! He is a under water baby!!
    This book is very usefull.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 8, 2012

    Great read!

    I really enjoyed this book. Having 4 children of my own, having tips on making everyday life a little easier in any way helps. This book also included some great recipes. Overall great read.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 24, 2012

    Love the Duggars!!!

    This was such an amazing book. It goes through some of the things that go on behind the scenes, Michelle talks intimately about what she went through with Josie, there's parenting and marriage tips...it's awesome. My husband and I really looked at how we were parenting our children and made some changes after reading this book. Love you Duggar's!!!!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 5, 2012

    Great!

    The Duggars are a wonderful family and I greatly enjoyed this book. I am the oldest of eight children so coming from a large (and home schooling) family I can assure you, it is a blessing to have lots of siblings!

    I would suggest rrading their first book before you read this if you haven't already, as they make a few references to it.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted March 25, 2012

    great read

    great read

    0 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 1, 2012

    Great book

    Really good book

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