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Remembrance of Things I Forgot: A Novel

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  • Posted June 24, 2011


    Bob Smith's first science fiction novel is a stellar debut. Bob Smith's first novel of political satire is a stellar debut. Bob Smith's first novel about family love and dysfunction is a stellar debut. Bob Smith's first novel about the complexities of longtime relationships is a stellar debut. Bob Smith's first novel of gay romance is a stellar debut.

    Get the picture? This is a fantastic book that succeeds on many, many levels, with something for everyone (except maybe Dick Cheney fans...)

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Posted June 13, 2011

    "Remembrance" combines wit and wisdom. GREAT READ!

    "A comic book dealer travels back in time to stop George Bush from becoming President...." sounds like the beginning of a joke from one of Bob Smith's monologues. In fact, it is the plot of his new novel - "Remembrance of Things I Forgot."Bob Smith is a clever writer. That will come as no surprise to anyone who has heard his comedy. But layered beneath the witty observations and creative word play is book with a lot of heart. After John, the narrator, is transported back to 1986, he is faced with the "timeless" question - what parts of his past should he change? Should he make a fortune buying Microsoft stock or save someone he loves from an early death? Smith is never heavy-handed with his message, even when it comes to his pointed political and historical critiques. The story line is fun and unpredictable with a colorful cast of characters that add depth and perspective along the way. The emotional dynamic between John and the younger version of himself - "Junior" - is especially interesting and endearing. After a roller-coaster ride of misadventures, John returns to the present with a richer appreciation for the people who have shaped his life. While we don't all have boyfriends who invent time machines, some might still be able to make time stand still - at least for a little while. "Remembrance" is a wonderful novel that reminds us how, in the words of George Eliot, "It is never too late to be what you might have been."

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  • Posted March 15, 2012

    Mark Twain once said, “The secret source of humor is not j

    Mark Twain once said, “The secret source of humor is not joy but sorrow.” I can’t think of a contemporary piece of fiction that illustrates this observation more than Bob Smith’s Remembrances of Things I Forgot. Many reviewers have called the Lambda Award-winner’s latest book a “comic” novel, but that adjective doesn’t begin to cover the breadth of emotions it evokes in the reader. It’s equally inaccurate to label the book as “touching,” or even “gay,” “political,” or “sci-fi.” Remembrance is all of those things – but also so much more – which makes the work hard to define, but brilliant to read.

    The book had me reaching for the Kleenex box one minute and throwing my head back in laughter the next. As a skilled writer and a professional comic, Smith possesses a keen sense of timing. Right after a heart wrenching passage, he’ll toss in a bon mot. The overall result is a tone which implies that life is hard, but there is hope.

    For example, see how Smith describes what happens as protagonist John Sherkston runs into his alcoholic father:

    When my father came in the back door carrying a twelve-pack of beer, I thought it was grossly unfair that I had to deal with two suicides. It made me feel we should change our family name to the Lemmings.

    Smith’s genius is also evident in the way he, much like Mark Twain, manages to write damning social commentary with enough humor to avoid offense:

    In some ways New Yorkers are all Mad King Ludvigs who recognize other royal families – protocol requires Londoners and Parisians to be treated as equals – only we ludicrously maintain our sense of grandeur as we give must-be-obeyed Chinese take-out orders from tiny studio or one-bedroom palaces while sneering at commoners in Terre Haute hovelling in their three bedroom, two bath ranch houses.

    The “net net”? Smith has written a book full of round characters – flawed, yet funny. Even the depiction of Dick Chaney, villain of Smith’s tale, has been handled so adroitly that the former Vice-President comes across as – yes, evil -- but also complex and even, gulp, human.

    Another quote by Twain defines a “’classic" as "a book which people praise and don’t read.” As an Amazon Best Books of 2011, a finalist for the 2011 Green Carnation Award, and a (just-announced) nomination for Triangle Publishing’s 2012 Ferro-Grumley Award for LGBT Fiction, the accolades keep rolling in for Smith's latest book. Since its July 2011 release, however, InsightOut Books has consistently ranked Remembrance of Things I Forgot among its list of top-tier best-sellers. So in this case, Twain was wrong. Instant classics can be widely read.

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