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The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse: Recognizing and Escaping Spiritual Manipulation and False Spiritual Authority Within the Church

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  • Anonymous

    Posted September 14, 2008

    This book changed my life!

    I went to a church like the ones this book describes. I became a target (the one who sees a problem gets singled out AS the problem) of leaders I loved, and to whom I had been unflinchingly loyal. I was shattered. Someone had recommended this book at a conference I had attended years before this happened. I got a copy of it and couldn't believe what I was reading. It was like these guys had been flies on the wall of my church! It was both comforting an appalling to realize how common these things are. The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse was a very literal Godsend. It walked me through understanding what was happening to me, what the Bible REALLY had to say about it, and what I should do. I couldn't recommend it more highly!

    3 out of 3 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted March 26, 2012

    Great book

    This book really helped me work through questions I had and provided valuable insight.

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Posted June 30, 2009

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    Much needed reference

    This book on spiritual or religious abuse is very informative and is a great tool for counseling those who have been subjected to abusive churches or beliefs. It is written from a Christian perspective and deals with abuses within the Christian tradition. It is very well balanced and addresses many tough subjects.

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  • Posted April 25, 2009

    "Dedicated to the weary and heavy laden, deeply loved by God, but because of spiritual abuse, find that the Good News has somehow become the bad news." David Johnson and Jeff VanVonderen

    Content: Spiritual abuse, its victims, abusive leaders and post-abuse recovery.
    My Reactions: One of the most important non-fiction books of my life, which list includes The Wounded Heart by Dr. Dan B. Allendar, People of the Lie by M. Scott Peck and Disappointment with God by Philip Yancey. Interesting and instructive. Filled with the message of true grace that is rarely spoken among the believers and, even rarely, heard from the pulpit. Coupled with my own personal, no-outside-commentary search of the Scriptures, I now have a built-in debunker - instant discernment, if you will - to keep me grounded in the Truth ... so I know the Truth when I hear it and am able to speak Truth in the presence of spiritual abusers. Up until I read this book, I had never spent any length of time, if any, in "that joyful freedom in Christ" these guys are talking about. I had often looked joyful but never really experienced it.
    Favorite Quotes: "What we have noticed is that wounded people get healed and religious people get angry." "It takes only a superficial reading of the New Testament to see that Jesus was not at odds with 'sinners' - the prostitutes, lepers and the demonized - but with the religious system of that day." "It's not wrong to notice legalism, legalistic families and churches, and to protect yourself from being abused. Noticing a problem does not make you the problem."
    The authors' insights into forgiveness are worthy of applause. Upon reading, victims will be joyful and abusers will, likely, say that what the authors have gleened from the Scriptures is, somehow, theologically unsound. It is a beautiful thing.
    And their attack on false peace is a wholesome meal for a hungry soul.
    This is a lovely, easily readable letter to those who have lost their sense of blessing. It includes maps of how to escape a spiritual trap and guidance to renew your mind, so that you are able to be appropriately vulnerable where grace is in abundance and appropriately girded with knowledge and light in the presence of wolves.

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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