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The 6 Husbands Every Wife Should Have: How Couples Who Change Together Stay Together

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 31, 2012

    This book offers a meandering presentation of how men must chang

    This book offers a meandering presentation of how men must change as a marriage progresses.  The downside for me was that it really offers few clear steps to take. Rather, it suggests  vague solutions to problems. In addition, the examples seem quite contrived and forced to make the point. I wish I had not wasted my time or money. 

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  • Anonymous

    Posted December 30, 2012

    As the title suggests, this book is heavily weighted to the pers

    As the title suggests, this book is heavily weighted to the perspective of the woman, so much so that I believe it makes this of little use to the couple seeking to understand and correct problems in their marriage.  Pg 49 states that for men to be a "good catch" they "They must have outgrown many of their self-centered ways and be willing to share their lives with another person."  The corresponding section about the woman suggests nothing to be outgrown.  The book suggests that continuous change is necessary, but conveys the message that only women are doing this.  Pg 20 "...many women embrace and incorporate changes so well that they risk long themselves in their many roles.  However, as they work tirelessly over the years to change from student to businesswoman, to sex kitten, to wife, to mother, to soccer mom, and then sometimes back to businesswoman, many women devote so much energy to meeting others' needs that they lose focus on who they are and what they want from life."  Men are portrayed as having to have change forced upon them due to inherent lack of insight, ancient cultural norms, etc.  Several of the examples are condescending to men in general.  Pg 108-9 "Most women are culturally conditioned to sacrifice themselves for others and to be considerate and nurturing whenever possible.  ....All first-time fathers, at some point during the first few months of parenthood, are hit with the realization of how desperately in over their heads there are."  

    Basically, I felt that this was a very frustrating and one-sided read that was of little help to me.  If you are a weekend golfing, beer drinking, neglecting the kids, TV watching husband, then this is the perfect book for you.  If you are a husband who shares in taking the kids to school, packing lunches, going to PTA, washing dishes, buying groceries, and more and is looking for solutions to problems at home, this book will be too frustrating for the few morsels of useful material that you might find.  This is more of a "you go girl, whip that man into shape" type of book.  I guess I shouldn't be too put off because the title really sets the stage.  But, seriously, if marriages are to be repaired, the approach has to be even-handed, and the author should have known this.  I would say, better luck with the next edition.  If I could give zero stars for this one, I would.  It is just not worth the time.

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  • Posted May 25, 2012

    I found this book to be one-sided. Although he does go into some

    I found this book to be one-sided. Although he does go into some specifics, he falls short of describing EVENLY what both sides can do to rectify a marriage. He rants about what MEN need to do meanwhile never goes into what is expected and needed from the wife. they go hand in hand. I took his text to be yet another reminder / example of how books and therapists alike simplify the role/mindset of a man and how it can be 'molded' to your liking. May i mold YOU into what I NEED????

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    Posted November 27, 2012

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