Online dating services will also offer services such as online chat, webcasts, message boards and telephone chat (VOIP).

Online or internet dating services charge a monthly fee to become a member. You can check out online dating services without actually becoming a paid member, but you won't have access to all their services. For instance, you may be able to see a picture of someone but won't have access to information about him or her.

It's important to check out the sites before actually joining so you know they're the type of site you're looking for, as there are different kinds. While some may be strictly for those looking for a relationship, another site may be just for those seeking friendships.

Another thing to remember is that, like in all areas of our lives, nothing will happen overnight. Finding the person of your dreams is not going to happen overnight either, even with the help of an online dating service. The online dating service may be able to help you get started and show you the ropes, so to speak.