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10 Great Dates to Energize Your Marriage
     

10 Great Dates to Energize Your Marriage

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by David Arp, Claudia Arp, Claudia Arp
 

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This curriculum kit is organized around ten dates that couples will go on to learn five basic skills and five advanced skills to revitalize their marriages. The kit, a video curriculum for individual married couples or groups of any size, includes 2 75-minute videos, 1 48-page leader's guide, 1 copy of 10 Great Dates to Revitalize Your Marriage, and 2 videos. The book

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This curriculum kit is organized around ten dates that couples will go on to learn five basic skills and five advanced skills to revitalize their marriages. The kit, a video curriculum for individual married couples or groups of any size, includes 2 75-minute videos, 1 48-page leader's guide, 1 copy of 10 Great Dates to Revitalize Your Marriage, and 2 videos. The book and the leader's guide are available separately. 10 sessions; 150 minutes.

For Groups of any size; Individual couples

Date 1: Choosing a High-Priority Marriage

Date 2: Learning to Talk

Date 3: Resolving Honest Conflict

Date 4: Becoming an Encourager

Date 5: Finding Unity in Diversity

Date 6: Building a Creative Love Life

Date 7: Sharing Responsibility and Working Together

Date 8: Balancing Your Roles as Parents and Partners

Date 9: Developing Spiritual Intimacy

Date 10: Having an Intentional Marriage

From the creators of Marriage Alive Seminars . . .

TEN FUN-FILLED COUPLES' NIGHTS OUT—THAT WILL ENERGIZE MARRIAGES

You're looking at an exciting, proven, and FUN approach to building thriving marriages—through ten great dates. Drawing on the best tips from their popular, worldwide Marriage Alive Seminars, David and Claudia Arp help spark fresh romance through memory-making evenings built on key, marriage-enriching themes.

Here is everything you need to launch your group—or just the two of you—on "alone at last" dates the get couples playing together, working together, and growing together as they explore the full potential of their marriage.

Leading your own Couples' Nights Out group is as easy as making the coffee, plugging in the videotape . . . and letting the Arps take it from there. Get ready to experience marriage enrichment at its best—fun, focused, and fruitful!

The 10 Great Dates to Revitalize Your Marriage curriculum contains: 2 75-minute videos 1 Leader's Guide 1 copy of 10 Great Dates to Revitalize Your Marriage (participant's guide)

Author Biography: David & Claudia Arp are the founders and directors of Marriage Alive International and they conduct seminars across the United States and Europe. They have written numerous books, including 10 Great Dates to Energize Your Marriage, Love Life for Parents, Suddenly They're 13, and The Second Half of Marriage. They have three grown sons and live in Knoxville, TN;David & Claudia Arp are the founders and directors of Marriage Alive International and they conduct seminars across the United States and Europe. They have written numerous books, including 10 Great Dates to Energize Your Marriage, Love Life for Parents, Suddenly They're 13, and The Second Half of Marriage. They have three grown sons and live in Knoxville, TN

Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780310213505
Publisher:
Zondervan
Publication date:
06/01/1997
Product dimensions:
10.06(w) x 12.78(h) x 2.62(d)
Age Range:
18 Years

Read an Excerpt

A Personal Note

from Claudia and Dave

Flying over the glaciers and ice fields of the Alaskan Kenai Peninsula in a small six-seater twin-engine Cessna pushed our limits of exciting dates. Certainly this was one date neither of us ever considered! Some call it "flight-seeing"; Claudia renamed it "fright-seeing."

While dating is a habit we've had for years, we never know where we will end up on a date. Our "flight-seeing" date started when our friend Eileen asked us, "How would you like to experience a great date in Alaska?" Being an adventurous couple, we responded, "Wow! How do we sign up?"

The next thing we knew, we were on a plane headed to Anchorage, Alaska. Of course there was a catch--while in Alaska, we agreed to lead several marriage and family seminars. That's where we met another dating couple, Clint and Sally, who told us their story:

"After a lackluster first ten years of marriage we both agreed we needed to jazz up our marriage, but we weren't sure how to go about it," Clint told us.

"I looked for resources and discovered a book of ten dates," Sally said. "Clint wasn't so sure dating would help us--he was the original 'dragee,' but after some friendly persuasion, he agreed to try."

Clint continued the story. "I was hesitant. Previously, we tried working through other 'marriage manuals' with little success. I'm a teacher, and the last thing I wanted was more assignments and work. But I have to admit, these dates were different--they were fun, and we picked up marital skills that pushed our relationship a couple of notches higher."

"Having regular dates," Sally said with a big smile, "has kept our relationship vital and alive for more than a decade! We gladly recommend dating to every couple! As a matter of fact, we gave at least ten copies of that original dating book to friends."

COME FLY WITH ME!

Are you looking for a little pizzazz? Do you want your marriage to fly high? You don't have to go all the way to Alaska to add excitement, but you do need to find some time. When was the last time you talked to your spouse for thirty uninterrupted minutes? Would you like to have more fun with your spouse? Is dating something you only did before you were married?

We believe that having a healthy, growing marriage relationship requires friendship, fun, and romance. And there's no better way to encourage all of these things than having dates! Great dates are more than going to see a movie and tuning out the world for a while. Great dates involve communicating with one another, reviving the spark that initially ignited your fire, and developing mutual interests and goals that are not focused on your careers or your children. Great dates can revitalize your relationship. We've got the proof!

TEN DATES FOR MATES

For over three decades we have worked hard on our own marriage. Through our own successes and failures and through research and study, we discovered principles that helped us build a strong marriage partnership. Amazingly, we found that one key indicator of an enriched marriage is having a strong "couple" friendship. And what better way to build a great couple friendship than to date your mate?

So, to help couples begin dating and make their relationship a priority, we put together our Marriage Alive seminar and wrote Ten Dates for Mates (this was the book Clint and Sally found), and later we wrote The Marriage Track. For over twenty years we have shared these principles through our books and seminars, and have helped many couples build strong, solid marriage partnerships through dating their mate, couples like Ruth and David and Alicia and Jeff.

"We had been married for nine years," Ruth told us, "when we found your book and started dating. Through our initial ten dates, we learned how to make life smoother and resolve conflicts more easily. Dating jump-started our marriage. Years later, we're still dating, and our dates continue to give us the opportunity to step out of our hectic life and work on improving our marriage. Plus, dating is fun! We've even done some crazy things on our dates like walking in the rain and getting totally soaked, or dancing in the aisle of a supermarket to the music over the speaker system, performing for all the curious and fascinated senior citizens!"

"Dating revolutionized our marriage," Jeff said. "Years ago when I was in medical school, our marriage was foundering. Twenty-hour workdays didn't help. Alicia and I were becoming strangers and were well aware of the divorce statistics in the medical community. We knew we needed to do something to reignite our relationship. About that time we found your book Ten Dates for Mates. The book revitalized our marriage when it was at a low point. Having ten consecutive dates started a habit. Years later we are still dating! We even started our own dating club with our friends and have given away many of your books. Our personal copies have long since been tattered. How can we get more?"

We were happy to tell Jeff that though the original Ten Dates for Mates is history--except for battered copies--we were putting together ten new, improved dates to revitalize marriage relationships.

From our work in marriage enrichment and our interaction with couples over the years, we have crafted ten great dates based on ten skills that will infuse your marriage with new vitality. Each date will focus on a skill needed to have an alive, growing marriage.

The first three dates focus on how to develop your own marriage coping system. Being committed to grow and change together over the years mandates having a workable communication system and having the skills to process anger and resolve conflict in a positive way. Other dates will help you encourage each other, develop a solid partnership based on your individual strengths, and build a creative love life. You'll be challenged to work together and share responsibilities, to enrich your marriage while parenting your children, and to develop spiritual intimacy. Then you'll learn how to have an intentional marriage. As you experience your ten great dates, you can revitalize your relationship--and have fun in the process!

Meet the Author

Claudia Arp and David Arp, MSW, founders of Marriage Alive, are authors of numerous books with more than 1,000,000 in print including the award-winning 10 Great Dates series and The Second Half of Marriage. The Arps have been featured in media like The Washington Post, The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, Time Magazine, and on NBC Today, CBS This Morning, and PBS. When they are not writing or speaking, you’ll probably find them hiking trails in Northern Virginia where they live or in the Austrian Alps where they love to write and hike. Visit them at www.10GreatDates.org.

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