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101 conversation starters for couples
By GARY CHAPMAN RAMON PRESSON
Northfield PublishingCopyright © 2012 Gary Chapman & Ramon Presson
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Chapter Onequestion 1
What are two things that happened today, and how did you feel about them?
What were some of your favorite toys as a child? What was your favorite candy?
Describe the home of one or both sets of your grandparents.
What was something you really wanted but were not allowed to own as a child or teen?
Describe one of your favorite elementary school teachers. Then describe a favorite high school teacher or college professor.
As you were growing up, what was unique about your family as compared to other families in your neighborhood or the families of your friends?
What was your most serious physical injury as a child or teen?
What do you remember about learning to drive?
Can you recall visiting your parents' workplace? If so, describe it and how you felt when you went there.
Complete this sentence: "I'm sure my mom and dad wish I would...."
What is perhaps the worst movie you have ever seen?
What tragic news story in the last few years made you particularly sad?
What was one of the most memorable weddings (other than your own) that you have attended?
What is something you collected as a child or teen?
What is a question that you wish you had the courage to ask your mother and/or father?
If you were given five acres of land, where would you want it to be and what would you want to do with it?
If you could own and operate your own business (and be guaranteed of its success), what would it be?
If you do not play a musical instrument, what one do you wish you could play? If you do/ did play a musical instrument, do you recall how you chose that particular one?
What would you say are two of the best concerts you have seen, either in person or on video or film?
What are two of your all-time favorite movies (or books)?
My mother/father clearly did not understand what was considered cool when she/he bought me ...
What famous person (deceased) would you like to have met?
Which of the following would you find most gratifying?
earning a PhD
publishing a bestselling book
recording an original chart-topping song
winning an Olympic gold medal
If money and/or child care were no object, what would be your idea of the perfect New Year's Eve?
Who is one of the most genuinely spiritual persons you know?
How do you think the world has changed since September 11, 2001?
Which of the following rides would be your first choice?
a gondola in Venice
a cab in London
a Ferrari on the autobahn
a hot air balloon in Switzerland
an airboat in the Everglades
a raft down the Colorado River
a carriage in Paris
What is one of your favorite memories that includes snow?
Who was your favorite superhero or cartoon character?
If someone could bless you and pass on to you a special ability, who would you choose to bless you and with what ability?
Who is the most joyful person you know?
Who is someone you wish you could infect with a more positive attitude?
Complete this sentence: "It would make me a better person if I were more like you in the way you ..."
When in your life would you say your self-esteem was the lowest?
Recall a time when you were given constructive criticism that proved beneficial
The lion, beaver, otter, and golden retriever are used to describe four personality types. Which one do you think best describes you?
Lion: strong, confident, leader, likes to make sure things get done
Beaver: detail oriented, organized, follows instructions, good with projects
Otter: very outgoing, enjoys people, humorous, creative
Golden Retriever: loyal, sensitive, encouraging
If you could hire Martha Stewart for a day, what would you have her do?
Regardless of how long I live, I hope I will always ...
"It is more blessed to give than to receive." Recall a gift that gave you considerable satisfaction in presenting it.
Describe the location and three features of your dream home.
Who would you most like to hear one of the following from?
"I love you."
"I support you."
"I respect you."
"I miss you."
"I trust you."
In retrospect, what is something that your parents were wise in doing in raising you?
What was your most/least favorite subject in school?
If you could take a course in any subject. right now at your local college, what type of course would it be?
In what way are you most/least like your mother? How are you most/least like your father?
In Matthew 6:34, Jesus encourages us to live with faith in the present. Which is the greater obstacle for you?
dwelling on the past
worrying about the future
Who was your best friend in junior high school? What did you do together?
As I was growing up, my father was most like
If you inherited $200,000 (after taxes), what would you do with the money?
Name three jobs or careers you are definitely not suited for.
Describe your pediatrician when you were growing up. What do you remember about those doctor visits?
Concerning what biblical topic or Bible passage (or verse) do you wish you had a better understanding?
What do you think that you will want to do in your retirement years?
Acts 2:42-47 describes a close, caring community. In what setting have you had the greatest experience of genuine fellowship?
friends at school
job where I worked
What item of clothing in my wardrobe do you really like to see me wear?
What is a song of piece of music that moves or inspires you?
What quality or skill that you possess would you find most gratifying to have your child imitate as an adult?
If you could win any competition in the world, what would it be?
What nonbiblical historical event would you like to have witnessed?
Name the Old Testament event that you wish you could have witnessed. Name the New Testament event (in addition to the resurrection) that you wish you could have witnessed.
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