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101 Conversation Starters for Families

One of the signs of a healthy family is open and meaningful communication. But how do you find something the whole family can talk about . . . together? Marriage and family experts Gary Chapman, author of The 5 Love Languages, and Ramon Presson bring you 101 questions to facilitate this process.

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Overview

101 Conversation Starters for Families

One of the signs of a healthy family is open and meaningful communication. But how do you find something the whole family can talk about . . . together? Marriage and family experts Gary Chapman, author of The 5 Love Languages, and Ramon Presson bring you 101 questions to facilitate this process.

  • If you could ask God a question, what would you ask?
  • Complete this sentence: "I feel especially close to you when . . ."
  • About trading places:
    • Children: I think the best part about being a grown-up would be . . .
    • Parents: I think the best part about being a kid would be . . .
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  • ISBN-13: 9780802483577
  • Publisher: Moody Publishers
  • Publication date: 3/21/2012
  • Sold by: Barnes & Noble
  • Format: eBook
  • Edition description: New Edition
  • Pages: 112
  • Sales rank: 1,315,399
  • File size: 3 MB

Meet the Author

GARY CHAPMAN--author, speaker, counselor--has a passion for people and for helping them form lasting relationships. He is the #1 bestselling author of The 5 Love Languages series and director of Marriage and Family Life Consultants, Inc. Gary travels the world presenting seminars, and his radio programs air on more than 400 stations. For more information visit his website at www.5lovelanguages.com.

RAMON PRESSON, a clinically certified marriage and family therapist, is the founder of LifeChange Counseling Services and the Marriage Center of Franklin www.LifeChangeCS.org. A newspaper columnist and author of numerous books, Ramon makes his home outside of Nashville with his wife, Dorrie, and two sons. For more information visit www.ramonpresson.
RAMON PRESSON, a clinically certified marriage and family therapist, is the founder of LifeChange Counseling Services and the Marriage Center of Franklin www.LifeChangeCS.org. A newspaper columnist and author of numerous books, Ramon makes his home outside of Nashville with his wife, Dorrie, and two sons. For more information visit www.ramonpresson.
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101 Conversation Starters for Families


By Gary Chapman, Ramon Presson

Northfield Publishing

Copyright © 2012 Gary Chapman and Ramon Presson
All rights reserved.
ISBN: 978-0-8024-8357-7


CHAPTER 1

question 1

Give each member of the family an imaginary award for an achievement or something special they did recently.


question 2

Name one talent you wish you had.


question 3

If you had to give up sight, hearing, the ability to speak, or the ability to walk, which would you choose?


question 4

If you had a magic wand and could change anything in your life right now, what would it be?


question 5

If you could be on any magazine cover, which one would you select?


question 6

If you could go on a vacation to another country, which one would you select?


question 7

What is one of your favorite stories that your parent(s) tell about you?


question 8

If we had to move from our home to another city, what would you miss the most about our home?

Our neighborhood? Our city?

Who would you miss the most?


question 9

If you could have any kind of unconventional pet, what would you choose?


question 10

What is the best reason you can think of not to use alcohol or drugs?


question 11

Bestow a "Fruit of the Spirit Award" (Galatians 5:22-23) upon each family member. From the following, affirm the quality you observed recently.

[] love

[] joy

[] peace

[] patience

[] goodness

[] faithfulness

[] gentleness

[] kindness

[] self-control


question 12

What dessert do you think you could eat for a lifetime?


question 13

In Acts 12 young Rhoda told the people in the house that Peter was knocking on the door, but they didn't believe her. Can you recall a time that you were telling the truth but someone didn't believe you?


question 14

If you could ask God any question, what would you ask?


question 15

Talk about a time when it felt good to help someone.


question 16

If I could be any kind of animal for a day, I'd like to be a ...


question 17

Which of the following would you like to have in your backyard?

[] go-cart track

[] swimming pool

[] greenhouse

[] miniature golf course

[] tennis court

[] clubhouse

[] treehouse

[] underground headquarters

[] 20 pieces of playground equipment

[] other _________________


question 18

In the Chronicles of Narnia, four children walked through a wardrobe (clothes closet) and into the magical land of Narnia. If you had a magic door in the back of your closet that could take you to one special place anytime you want to go, where would it be?


question 19

What is something that would be hard for you to share?


question 20

As a surprise for your birthday party we've arranged for a famous person of your choice to attend. Who will you choose?


question 21

I wish I had a personal coach, tutor, or mentor for ...


question 22

What is one of the most uninteresting things you have to do on a regular basis?


question 23

Using the first letter of your first name, the family must come up with a positive word that begins with the same letter to describe you. For example: Talented Trevor or Generous Ginny.


question 24

What were the best and worst moments from this past week?


question 25

In what Olympic sports event would you like to win a gold medal?


question 26

Everyone has five minutes to scout the house for objects that positively describe members of the family, then use the object in a sentence to describe the person. For example: "I have a light-bulb for Cameron because he brings light into our house"; or "I have a paper clip for Mom because she holds our family together."


question 27

This week my internal weather could be described as:


[] partly cloudy

[] partly sunny

[] hot and dry

[] unpredictable

[] thunderstorms

[] cold and rainy

[] early fog, then clearing

[] frost warning

[] other __________


question 28

If at the end of every day you were granted an extra hour to do anything you wanted, how would you regularly spend that hour?


question 29

Tell family members about a compliment or affirmation that you've received recently from someone outside the family.


question 30

Who is someone in our extended family (grandparent, aunt, uncle, cousin, in-law) that you wish you could spend more time with?


question 31

Give each member of the family an imaginary gift certificate to a favorite store, for a favorite or wished-for product, or special event.


question 32

Who is someone in our extended family, neighborhood, school, church, or workplace for whom we could do something helpful? What could we do?


question 33

About bullies

CHILDREN: Who is the biggest bully at your school?

PARENTS: Recall a bully at your school.

BOTH: Why do you think some kids become mean?


question 34

About trading places

CHILDREN: I think the best part about being a grown-up would be ...

PARENTS: I think the best part about being a kid again would be ...


question 35


The early years

PARENTS: Recall and describe some special detail or feeling you remember about the day each child was born or came into the family.

CHILDREN: What is your earliest childhood memory (one of the first that comes to mind)?


question 36

If you were President of the United States for a day, who is someone that you would honor with a special award?


question 37

What is your favorite television commercial?


question 38

If you could change anything about your appearance, what would you change?


question 39

What is your favorite time of the day? Favorite day of the week? Favorite month of the year?


question 40

Recall a family outing or vacation that went badly but you're able to laugh about now.


question 41

Complete this sentence: "I feel especially close to you when ..."


question 42

What was your best day this past week?


question 43

What animal best illustrates how you deal with conflict?

[] lion—attack first

[] turtle—turn inward and silent

[] bird—fly away

[] skunk—fight dirty

[] snake—attack if provoked

[] puppy—whimper and cry

[] peacock—make a scene

[] other ___________


question 44

PARENTS: A rule that I wish we had in my family growing up is ...

CHILDREN: A rule in our family I wish I could change is ...


question 45

Talk about a time you were scared.


question 46

Conflict is pretty normal in all families. Forgiveness is a gift regularly offered in healthy families. Complete the following sentence: "(Name), I'm glad you're not still angry at me for ..."


question 47

Recall a time when someone (not a family member) hurt your feelings.


question 48

Recall a time when you were nervous about having to do something in front of a lot of people (recitation, give a report or speech, sing, play an instrument, play a sport, etc.).


question 49

Recall a time that you were really embarrassed.


question 50

Complete this sentence: "I wish I had the (courage, time, or money) to try ..."


question 51

Recently I didn't feel very pleased with myself when I ...


question 52

Each person comes up with a separate answer for every family member: "I know that something that drives you nuts is ..."


question 53

How much influence do you think your friends have on you?


question 54

If the Fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23) grew on trees, which one would you most want to plant in our yard for yourself?

[] love

[] joy

[] peace

[] patience

[] goodness

[] faithfulness

[] gentleness

[] kindness

[] self-control


question 55

What is something that you are worried about these days (or typically worry about)?


question 56

Tell about a time you felt very sad.


question 57

Each person has a love language, a way in which they feel truly loved. What do you think is the love language of each person in our family?

[] Physical touch (hugs, kisses, cuddling)

[] Words of affirmation ("I love you," "I missed you today," "You look great")

[] Acts of service (doing something special to help or surprise)

[] Quality time (spending time together in a way that is meaningful for the other)

[] Receiving gifts (tokens of love; items the person likes or enjoys)


question 58

One of the things that I like most about our church (or community) is ...


question 59

Recall a family experience involving one of the following: fishing, hunting, biking, hiking, or camping.


question 60

The lion, beaver, otter, and golden retriever are animals used to describe four personality types. Which one do you think best describes you?

[] I'm a lion: strong, confident, a leader; I like to make sure things get done.

[] I'm a beaver: detail-oriented and organized. I follow instructions and am good with projects.

[] I'm an otter: very outgoing, humorous, creative. I enjoy people.

[] I'm a golden retriever: loyal, sensitive, caring.


question 61

Recall a family memory involving one of the following:

[] zoo

[] theme park

[] sporting event

[] playground

[] carnival

[] circus


question 62

Recall a funny family time involving one of the following:

[] fresh snow

[] slick ice

[] beach sand

[] fall leaves

[] gloppy mud


question 63

Describe two things that happened today and how you felt about each of them.


question 64

Recall a family moment at one of the following:

[] ocean

[] lake

[] pond

[] river

[] creek

[] mountain stream

[] waterfall


question 65

I think the best job in the world would be ...


question 66

CHILDREN: What is your favorite toy? What is your favorite candy?

PARENTS: What were some of your favorite toys? Some of your favorite candy?


question 67

You remind me of Jesus the Healer Jesus the Servant Jesus the Preacher Jesus the Storyteller Jesus the Revolutionary


question 68

Our family has been invited to join the Ringling Brothers, Barnum & Bailey Circus. What role will you perform? Which would you least like to do?


question 69

Recall a family experience involving one of the following:

[] a bike ride

[] a boat ride

[] a plane ride

[] a train ride

[] a carnival ride


question 70

When have you felt like an outsider—like you weren't part of the group?


question 71

One of television's most popular game shows was Let's Make a Deal, offering the risk of gain and loss. If Monty Hall, the host, were to say to you, "You can keep the $3,000 or trade it for what's behind the curtain," what would you do?


question 72

What is something in nature (plants, animals, fish, geography, weather, space, etc.) that truly fascinates you?


question 73

Of whom would you like to have an autographed photo?


question 74

Each person is to flip a coin and answer the appropriate question below.

HEADS: What was something encouraging or positive that happened today?

TAILS: What was something disappointing or difficult that happened today?


question 75

For this conversation starter, each person will need a paper or Styrofoam cup. Each person is to craft (that is, draw, color, cut, tear, poke holes, or attach objects to) his or her cup in order to illustrate one of the following:

[] How I feel today or this week

[] My spiritual life right now


question 76

Pick one aroma that makes you say "Aaahhhh."

[] fresh brewed coffee

[] fresh baked brownies

[] new leather

[] steaks broiling on a charcoal grill

[] new car interior

[] fresh baked bread

[] honeysuckle in the breeze

[] newly cut Christmas tree

Now come up with an additional favorite scent on your own.


question 77

Complete this sentence: "I know you've heard me say it before, but I just want to tell you again: ..." (Be original; say something other than "I love you.")


question 78

If our house were on fire and everyone (including pets) was safe outside and you could safely retrieve one personal item, what would it be?


question 79

Congratulations! You just foiled a robbery at one of your favorite stores. To say thanks, the manager has promised you a lifetime 50 percent discount. In what store will you be enjoying this savings?


question 80

Who is one of your favorite fictional characters? (This character may be from a book, short story, movie, video, television show, Saturday cartoon, comic book, or comic strip.)


question 81

What is one of your favorite sounds?

[] a steady rain at night when I am in bed

[] the bell signaling school is dismissed

[] crickets chirping

[] my favorite music

[] an ice cream truck chiming on the street

[] ocean waves through the open window

[] children laughing

[] coffee brewing in the morning

[] a ringing phone, knowing it's for me

[] other ___________


question 82

Your family is burying a time capsule that will be opened one hundred years from now. What two items will each of you place in the capsule that illustrate something about your life right now?


question 83

If you could travel in the future to any time in your life to find out what happens or just to enjoy the moment, what period or moment in your life would you want to observe and why?


question 84

In the National Hockey League, the team that wins the championship receives a large trophy called the Stanley Cup. It is tradition that each member of the championship team enjoy personal possession of the Stanley Cup for a day. If you could take possession of anything in the world for one day, what would you choose?


question 85

If you were a country, which would you be?

[] Australia—mysterious and wild

[] Israel—small but mighty

[] Bahamas—warm and friendly

[] United States—proud and ambitious

[] Italy—inspiring

[] Canada—big but gentle

[] Japan—small but resourceful

[] England—traditional

[] Russia—dealing with changes and challenges

[] France—elegant


question 86

The U.S. Postal Service has said that if you'll agree to be a mail carrier for the summer while some of their workers take vacation, they will provide you with the vehicle of your choice for your postal route. What's your choice of vehicle?


question 87

Which of the Seven Dwarfs are you today—Bashful, Dopey, Sleepy, Sneezy, Grumpy, Happy, or Doc?


question 88

CHILDREN: What toy or activity most engages your imagination or concentration?

PARENTS: As a child or teen, what toy or activity most engaged your imagination or concentration? What pleasant activity most engages it now?


question 89

What product, service, place, or event are you so enthusiastic about that you'd make a good salesperson or spokesperson for it?


question 90

Something I'm looking forward to in the next few weeks or months is ...


question 91

What do you think you would have said if Jesus had chosen you to be one of His twelve disciples? Recall a time that it felt good to be chosen by a person, group, team, or committee.


question 92

Recall a time when you were either not chosen for something or by someone. When was it? How did you feel?


question 93

In Luke 17 ten lepers were healed of their disease, but only one returned to thank Jesus. Think of something that each family member has done for you recently. Then express your thanks by saying, "I really appreciated it when you ..." or "Thank you for ..."


question 94

If you could ask Jesus to further explain something He said or did as recorded in the New Testament, what would you ask Him about?


question 95

Who is perhaps the best teacher you've ever had? Explain your choice.


question 96

CHILDREN: What is something you remember about a time you were very sick or injured?

PARENTS: What is something you remember about your children's illnesses or injuries?


(Continues...)

Excerpted from 101 Conversation Starters for Families by Gary Chapman, Ramon Presson. Copyright © 2012 Gary Chapman and Ramon Presson. Excerpted by permission of Northfield Publishing.
All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.
Excerpts are provided by Dial-A-Book Inc. solely for the personal use of visitors to this web site.

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