101 Secrets For Your Twenties [NOOK Book]

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What do you do when you hit your twenties and realize the life you knew for the last two decades has been changed, twisted, or hash-tagged into something you weren't expecting?

Secret #12: Your twenties will produce more failure than you'll choose to remember. The key is: when you fail, don't begin calling yourself a failure.

Secret #35: Obsessive Comparison Disorder is the smallpox of our ...

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Overview

What do you do when you hit your twenties and realize the life you knew for the last two decades has been changed, twisted, or hash-tagged into something you weren't expecting?

Secret #12: Your twenties will produce more failure than you'll choose to remember. The key is: when you fail, don't begin calling yourself a failure.

Secret #35: Obsessive Comparison Disorder is the smallpox of our generation. Remember that everyone is too busy putting a PR spin on their Facebook profile to care much about yours.

Secret #44The Freshman-Fifteen is nothing compared to the Cubicle-Cincuenta. Don't sit at your computer perched like a Roman gargoyle letting office birthday cake be forced upon you.

Discover ninety-eight other secrets for rocking your post-college, grown-up life in this book!

"This book is a must-read for twenty-somethings and beyond who are struggling with how to navigate in today's hyper-connected, chaotic world-and the book itself is formatted as a fun, engaging page-turner."
-Jenny Blake,author of Life After College: The Complete Guide to Getting What You Want

"I always tell people that I'm enjoying my 30s way more than my 20s and now I know why: I didn't have this book! Secrets #21 and #36 alone would have helped me through so many situations. I can't tell you how happy I am that this book exists for the next generation!"
-Bryan Allain, author, creator of Killer Tribes

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Like advice from a wiser, funnier, older brother . . . Paul's been there, done that, and wants to save you some pain and some trouble.
Seth Godin, New York Times bestseller and author of The Icarus Deception

You can be frustrated, fearful, and stressed out about your twenties or you can read this book, get a wake-up call and put yourself on the right path. Paul's advice on how to be successful in your twenties is timely, important, and will help you feel more confident in your own skin.
Dan Schawbel, bestselling author of Me 2.0 and Promote Yourself

Life will never feel like it's supposed to. That's just one of the many motivating gems in Paul Angone's 101 Secrets for Your Twenties, which is the mid-to-late Millennials' answer to the Quarterlife Crisis.  As a companion to Paul's successful website, AllGroanUp.com, the book gets to the heart of the worries on every twentysomething's mind and addresses them with straight-talk and humor.
Alexandra Levit, author of Blind Spots: The 10 Business Myths You Can't Afford to Believe On Your New Path to Success

This book is funny, heartfelt, and important. Your twenties are a time of life that most people tend to glamorize or dismiss. Paul does neither. I especially liked #6.
Jeff Goins, author of Wrecked: When a Broken World Slams into Your Comfortable Life

I love this book. 101 Secrets for Your Twenties is like a concentrated blender-shot of fluorescent green, ice crystally advice, insight, and wisdom. Toss your head back and enjoy the cold jolt.
Neil Pasricha, author of the New York Times bestseller The Book of Awesome

101 Secrets is a masterpiece. Full of brilliant advice wrapped in belly-laughing hilarity, Paul Angone has a true gift for troubleshooting the trials and tribulations of post-grad adulthood. This book is a must-read for twentysomethings and beyond who are struggling with how to navigate in today's hyper-connected, chaotic world-and the book itself is formatted as a fun, engaging page-turner. Paul promises "wheelbarrows full of wisdom-stuffed pearls, laced with humor and vulnerability," and that's exactly what you're going to get. Just don't ask him to whip you up a Venti half-caf 2.5-shot sugar-free-vanilla no-foam upside-down latte.
Jenny Blake, author of Life after College: The Complete Guide to Getting What You Want

Paul gives humorously wise insights that will give twentysomethings a sneak peak of what's to come, perspective that will help them breathe and the reality that they aren't alone. My top three . . . er . . . sixteen were: #2, #3, #7, #9, #18, #21, #24, #38, #47, #77, #80, #84, #87, #95, #100 and #10's nineteenth sign made me say, "TRUTH!" out-loud. Being the ripe 30-year-old that I am, you can trust me.
Joy Eggerichs, director of Love and Respect Now

Paul is an emerging voice for this generation. He understands the unique struggle of those going through the rocky, ambiguous, thrilling decade of their twenties and has a gift for delivering rock-solid truth packaged in laugh-out-loud humor.
Christine Hassler, author of 20 Something Manifesto, speaker, life coach

Paul knows twentysomethings. He shares secrets that are really gold, even to non-twentysomethings. Gold to understanding twentysomethings. Gold to understanding today. Understanding this generation. Understanding your kids. The book helps me be a better father . . . a better pastor. I feel more prepared. Don't tell my boys-or the young people at my church. It's supposed to be a secret.
Ron Edmondson, pastor, organizational leadership consultant

101 Secrets is the perfect mix of humor and wisdom. I read it in a single sitting, but the insights will stick with me for a long time. My favorites are #2, #5, #33, #71, #81 and #97 (plus several more but I was only allowed to pick a few). Where was this book when I graduated from college?
Allison Vesterfelt, author of Packing Light

What Paul Angone has done in 101 Secrets for Your Twenties may well be the definitive field manual for post-graduates. He's a gifted writer, blending humor, stories, truth, and advice in a way that makes anyone the wiser for picking this up. Best of all, he helps young people lay a foundation for success later in life. If you don't believe me, then read #7, #19, or #61.
Sam Davidson, author, college speaker, social entrepreneur

I always tell people that I'm enjoying my 30s way more than my 20s and now I know why: I didn't have this book! Secrets #21 and #36 alone would have helped me through so many situations. I can't tell you how happy I am that this book exists for the next generation!
Bryan Allain, author of This is NOT a Treasure Map and Actually, Clams Are Miserable

As a recent escapee of my twenties, I wish I had been given a book like this when I graduated from college.  In an age when we are led to believe that a college diploma is a winning lottery ticket for a dream job, and uber-success is as easy as writing the perfect status update on Facebook, Paul's book is a fantastic, fun, and above all true guide for the often frustrated, fearful, or just flat broke twentysomething.  Keep a special lookout for secret #8, #21, and #76. Secret #76 has been pretty much the last ten years for me.
Matt Appling, teacher, pastor, and author of Life After Art: What You Forgot About Life and Faith Since You Left the Art Room

101 Secrets for Your Twenties is a refreshingly honest compilation of life truths. Paul Angone has cleverly put into words our twentysomething experience, yet with a passionate andpurposeful goal of helping young adults navigate this unique stage in life without regret. If you're like me, you'll laugh (especially at secrets #5, #17, and #44), ponder (secrets #29 and #43), and say a lot of "Amens!" along the way (secrets #1, #21, and #53).
Adam York, editor, Collegiate magazine

A subtitle for this book might well be "How do you face the realities of life in your twenties?"  Paul treats the issues one faces whether they are career-related, personal relationships, or individual hang-ups in addition to a host of other issues with amazing honesty, creativity, and wisdom beyond his years.  I wish his 101 Secrets had been in print when I was entering my late and post-teen years.  Whether it be secret #7, #27 or #77, or any of his 101 secrets, Paul provides incredible insight in helping a young person cope with a wide variety of life issues. This is a great read at any age, but especially valuable for young adults and I highly recommend it!
David C. Bicker, PhD, professor emeritus and Founding Chair of the Department of Communication Studies at Azusa Pacific University

Introducing Paul Angone.  A raw human being.  A fellow human struggler.  A creative, gifted writer who is good at making fun of himself. 

Paul sort of splats out his frustrations in delineated fashion and then tidies them up into a comedy act and finalizes the show with some serious good advice that applies to people well beyond their twenties. If you're looking for your destiny and can't find it, then steal away somewhere and read this book. It's a punchy non-preachy pep talk that will help you persevere and not settle for something less like mediocrity.
Sarah Sumner, author of Men and Women in the Church

This is the kind of book that I wish I had read when I was in my twenties.  It would have saved me from some unnecessary trial and errorexperiences including the anxiety that came with some of my ill-informed choices.  Paul's humorous approach to some of life's early challenges will help the reader maintain a healthy perspective as some common assumptions are challenged.  My favorite secret is #62, which I believe to be the key to lifelong healthy living.
Ray Rood, founder of The Genysys Group 

When I read Paul Angone's second secret, I was hooked: "The possibility for greatness and embarrassment both exist in the same space. If you're not willing to be embarrassed, you're probably not willing to be great." Paul's capacity for embarrassment makes his book a very, very funny one. It's worth reading if for no other reason that it will make you laugh out loud as it did me. But it is much more: it is wise. I've worked with so-called twentysomethings for twenty years, and I have stopped reading the boring dissertations social scientists write to explain these folks. Paul's collection of zany epigrams beats them all, hands down.
Ben Patterson, campus pastor, Westmont College

A wry, witty confection of insights about life in the twenties, for emerging adults from one who knows them well and is still one of them at heart.
Jeffrey Jensen Arnett, author (with Elizabeth Fishel) of When Will My Grown Up Kid Grow Up? and Emerging Adulthood

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780802487711
  • Publisher: Moody Publishers
  • Publication date: 6/24/2013
  • Sold by: Barnes & Noble
  • Format: eBook
  • Edition description: New Edition
  • Pages: 208
  • Sales rank: 65,500
  • File size: 10 MB

Meet the Author

PAUL ANGONE is an author, speaker, humorist, storyteller, and founder of www.AllGroanUp.com - a place for those asking "what now?" Paul received his Bachelor's in Communication Studies at Westmont College and his Master's in Organizational Leadership at Azusa Pacific University. He lives in Los Angeles with his wife, and their two beautiful girls.
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Table of Contents

Introduction
"The Secrets"
The Secret to Applying the 101 Secrets
Acknowledgments  

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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 20, 2014

    A must read for every 20 something

    Words of wisdom filled with witty humor. A must read for every 20 something struggling to make sense of this thing we call life...

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  • Posted August 1, 2013

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    The Book as a Whole and the Author I must say, Paul Angone kno

    The Book as a Whole and the Author
    I must say, Paul Angone knows how to grab a reader and keep them intrigued. Angone starts the book with a kick and giggle. He covers just about every topic that a 20-something person could possibly conceive. I wish I would have found this book in my early twenties, instead of after I have been through it all. I suspect that is why MANY of the tips made me burst out laughing. Many tips were great, accompanied with witty remarks that kept me giggling and wanting to keep reading. Throughout the book, there are also WONDERFUL LIFE TIPS that are more serious and well worth reading!! From faith to work to realtionships, Angone knows what he is talking about.

    My Favorite Parts
    My favorite tip in the whole book discusses finding "The ONE", you know.....the ONE that you are supposed to meet and marry. I find that even though I am mostly through my twenties, I still needed this tip. Angone talks about what you really need to find and that THE ONE may just be as big a myth as a unicorn. Instead we should be looking for someone that is THE FOUR: best friend, lover, business partner, and wartime ally. I won't disclose everything in depth; I did find this tip the most fascinating and relevant.

    What I Got From The Book
    I absolutely LOVED this book. Everything about the wittiest and smarty-pants -ness of the whole book deeply enthralls me. I love sarcasm and Angone tickles that sweet spot with this book. The tips are so hilarious because they are so true. If you are a beginning "twenty to lifer" (LOL) GET THIS BOOK!!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 9, 2013

    So good! I think every twenty-something should read this book at

    So good! I think every twenty-something should read this book at least once, if not once every year. It's insightful, funny, and encouraging. There's no way you can go wrong with this book--it's worth it!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 4, 2013

    If you're on the fence about whether to buy "101 Secrets fo

    If you're on the fence about whether to buy "101 Secrets for Your Twenties," hop off immediately. This book is not only a personal companion through the treacherous waters of the the defining decade, making you feel less alone and overwhelmed, it's also full of sage words that help you make your way to the other side. While it is definitely not a "self-help" book (which I think is one of its strengths), there is certainly plenty of advice and thoughts in here to make it practical and useful.

    Until 101 Secrets, there hasn't been a book for twentysomethings that comes anywhere near this one in terms of level of sustained reader engagement (Paul Angone is wicked funny!), sound insights, and depth of understanding of what this decade is all about. I've been wanting to see a book like this for ages and am so glad it's finally here. I'll be giving it as gifts for many years to come.

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  • Posted July 3, 2013

    I absolutely loved this book. Angone is an extremely talented wr

    I absolutely loved this book. Angone is an extremely talented writer; he's funny, and frank, and he makes you think. 101 Secrets reminds you that you're not alone, and shows you how amazing it can be to be in your twenties. I am so glad that Paul published this book; I've only had access to it for about a week, and it has changed my life. Well done, sir.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 3, 2013

    This book will be my Christmas present this year to everyone in

    This book will be my Christmas present this year to everyone in my family, and
     all my friends! Everyone needs to read this book. 

    If you've ever been 20, or will be someday, this is for you. It's light, quirky and full
    of great advice on all the challenges that each of us face. 

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 2, 2013

    This book contains so much awesomeness that I almost. cannot. ha

    This book contains so much awesomeness that I almost. cannot. handle. it. And it's not the empty, fluff that you'll hear elsewhere -- instead, it's real, relatable, and chock filled with seriously good advice. The world needs more books like this (and more voices like Paul's) out there.

    If you're feeling lost, frustrated, or alone in your twenties, then I thoroughly recommend that you buy it. Now.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 2, 2013

    Firstly I love the way this book is laid out. There are 101 snip

    Firstly I love the way this book is laid out. There are 101 snippets of advice, and they are clearly numbered and kept fairly brief. This makes it really easy to read, and also really easy to refer back to. I have dog-eared some of the pages for things I want to remember and come back to later on. You don't have to read the whole book in one go, it's easy to pick up and snatch a few snippets of advice in short blocks of time.

    The content of the book is also really relevant to me - I am 29 now, almost the same age as the author, and I wish I had known some of this stuff when I was 19. This type of self-help book should be mandatory reading for young-uns embarking on their adulthood, as well as their parents. Sometimes the hardest part of your 20s is explaining yourself to your parents, and Paul recognises this. 

    This is the type of book I would share with my friends, because I think that they would really benefit from it too. Couldn't recommend it highly enough.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 2, 2013

    I¿m normally not a fan of non-fiction, self-help books. Yes, the

    I’m normally not a fan of non-fiction, self-help books. Yes, they can contain helpful information, but I prefer getting lost in the world of fiction. However, when I do happen to stumble across a book that resonates with me, I know it’s special for one of two reasons: 1) I’m encountering something I wish I had read about 10 years ago, or 2) I feel like I could be great friends with the author. 101 Secrets for Your Twenties, the debut book from author/speaker Paul Angone, fits both bills.

    Paul covers everything from faith and family to career and calling, and he delivers every chapter with doses of humor, honesty and personality. Some chapters made me laugh; some made me pause and reflect; others nearly moved me to tears. Some chapters are only a page long and others are multiple pages; every length is completely justified given the subject matter and/or the respective story. These bite-size chapters make the book incredibly readable and easy to digest while still giving lots to chew on.




    What I loved most was the balance of insight/instruction and Paul’s story. It’s in these stories that I made me reflect on my own experiences – both past and present, as well as fears of the future.




    If you’re in your teens, this book will give a great glimpse of what’s to come. If you’re in your twenties, this book will meet you where you’re at [and make you feel less alone]. If you’re past your twenties, this book will let you look back on that decade of your life and smile. Wherever you’re at, you’ll find a friend in Paul. I know I did.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 2, 2013

    I'm not even kidding. Every 20-something needs this book! So if

    I'm not even kidding. Every 20-something needs this book! So if you know someone who's in their twenties, buy it for them. If you have no money or don't like them enough to spend money on them, just tell them about it. Because it's going to make a difference in their life! When we're in our twenties, we kind of have no clue what we're doing. THIS WILL HELP! Paul is a great writer who offers down-to-earth, no BS advice for anyone who's feeling a little lost during this greatly confusing time of adulthood . Buy it, or I'm going to have to smack you a little.

    :)

    Kayla

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 2, 2013

    Where's My Flux Capacitor? Wish This Book Existed a Decade Ago!

    Where's My Flux Capacitor? Wish This Book Existed a Decade Ago!

    I laughed so hard I made a "squeeeeeeee" noise at one point. My eyes welled up a time or two. Or three. Or nine. Reading Angone's heartfelt, transparent (and too often hilariously relatable) recollection of 20-something reality had me roaring and reeling page after page. My only wish is that this book existed a decade ago when my 20s were tough and I felt like I was all alone in a big bad grown up world, without a clue or a road map.

    This is going to be my go-to gift for new grands and 20-something birthdays. Paul, you nailed it... 101 times!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 2, 2013

    I've always been really skeptical of articles or books that hav


    I've always been really skeptical of articles or books that have titles that include the word "secrets" and
    a number afterwards. Articles like: "10 secrets of Super-Happy Couples" Or "10 secrets to flawless
    skin" or "10 secrets to success" or "20 secrets for the perfect wedding". Most of these articles are full
    of bull crap that is fluffed up by so-called professionals and "experts" that just want to get read or
    published or rich.

    But even with my cynicism of "secrets" and articles and books of lists that I always thought existed
    for the sole purpose of stealing your money and being used as really awesome kindling, I somehow
    got this book "101 Secrets for Your Twenties" and read the whole thing, did not burn it, and actually
    want to give it to every friend I have.

    I've been reading Paul's blog "All Groan Up" for about a year now (I recommend this greatly if you've
    never stopped by) and I guess knowing Paul and his writing before made me trust that this wasn't like
    all those other books and articles full of the "secrets" to life. Paul's article "21 Secrets for Your 20′s"
    started the yearning for more words of wisdom with the perfect amount of humor. This guy wasn't
    writing to get rich. He is writing because he's been there and he wants others to learn from what he
    learned.

    101 Secrets for Your Twenties will now be my new go-to gift for high school graduates,
    college graduates, and all my twenty-something friends who have birthdays coming up.

    Buy it. Read it. Be blessed.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 2, 2013

    Paul has done a really excellent job here. Not only is this book

    Paul has done a really excellent job here. Not only is this book full of timeless advice, it is also a fun read. The best part of the book is that it is written in a way that will be easily understood for generations to come. The personal style of Paul's writing makes it feel like you are discussing life's greatest questions with one of your buddies. Even in today's Twitter world (i.e. a world emphasizing streamlined messages) you won't be bored reading this book. I highly recommend this book for anyone searching for greater self-understanding, not just 20Somethings.

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  • Posted July 2, 2013

    101 Secrets is my new favourite book! Seriously! No book¿bar the

    101 Secrets is my new favourite book! Seriously! No book—bar the Bible—has been more timely, more relatable, more motivational, and more hopeful than this book. I HIGHLY recommend it to any and everyone who is in their teens, in their twenties, in their thirties…basically to everyone.

    If you have books you give family, friends, colleagues, etc. for birthdays and other special occasions, make this book that book!

    If you’re not quite in your teens yet, 101 Secrets will appropriately prepare you for your twenties.

    If you’re out of your twenties, there may yet be some lessons that need learning. 101 Secrets can shed light on them.

    If you are a parent, minister, or educator who deals with twentysomethings, this book can help you understand (or remember) what this demographic is up against. The twenties to day ain’t what they were twenty years ago. Heck they’re not even what they were ten years ago.

    If it wasn’t for all the times I laughed out loud reading this book, the overwhelming times of emotion evoked by when something hit too close to home would have caused me to cry.

    You will LOVE this book!

    I kid you not!

    Buy it today!!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 1, 2013

    Excellent book! If you're in your twenties and you're looking fo

    Excellent book! If you're in your twenties and you're looking for some answers - finding passion, getting a job, not giving up even though everything just SUCKS: this book's for you. It's awesome! 

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  • Posted July 1, 2013

    Paul's '101 Secrets for Your Twenties' is a beautiful mix of hum

    Paul's '101 Secrets for Your Twenties' is a beautiful mix of humor, passion, vulnerability, and gratitude that
     will inspire, educate, and entertain. Pick it up when you turn 20, scoff at the advice, believing you'll never
     become THAT person. Then read it again at 25, and be thankful for the honest advice. Then read it again when
    you're 29, and laugh your a$$ off at how absolutely true it all is and how you totally have become THAT person.

    Pick up a copy for a recent grad and one for yourself -- no matter how old you are -- and enjoy the candid advice
     and unapologetic humor about this rollercoaster decade or our lives.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 1, 2013

    This is my new standard high school and college graduation gift.

    This is my new standard high school and college graduation gift. Every graduate, every twenty-something needs to read this book. As a new twenty-something, I would have LOVED to get such an amazing treasure, overflowing with gems of wisdom. 101 Secrets for your Twenties is a great tool to help twenty-somethings not feel so alone or lost on their journey through this decade. The secrets offer hope in knowing that you aren't alone and this isn't the end of the road. They serve as landmarks helping to guide you from growing to grown.

    Paul's writing is witty and funny. You will literally laugh out loud. He is right on target with his messages, and so personable that you'll want to be his new best friend. I also appreciate that the book is laid out for easy reading. You'll love all 101 secrets in Paul's book. Each secret is either self-explanatory, or accompanied by a short anecdote or story to further illustrate his point. But, don't be fooled by its simple readability; it's pure genius, kindly laid out for us to make the hard lessons a little easier.

    Don't brave your quarter-life crisis alone; bring along 101 Secrets for your Twenties.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 1, 2013

    I love the the feeling of "this person totally gets me"

    I love the the feeling of "this person totally gets me" this this book offered that 101 times over. As twenty-somethings, we often feel as if we're fumbling through uncharted territory, completely alone in our thoughts and experiences. This book debunks that myth. Pairing brilliantly concise bits of wisdom with honest and relatable humor, Paul drives home the point: your twenties are a time for exploration and growth, so don't waste them watching reruns of "Friends." 

    This book encapsulates all the wisdom and advice I would hope to pass on to my sister as she embarks on her next big journey through college in the fall, minus the awkward silences, plus more clever one-liners than I could ever hope to spit out in one sitting.

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  • Posted July 1, 2013

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    The best thing about this book is when I realized that I¿m not a

    The best thing about this book is when I realized that I’m not alone (Secret 32). I’m not alone in my lousy job, frustration, disappointment, confusion and insecurity. I’m not alone feeling as if my dream is so far from coming true. But this book didn’t gloss over or skirt around the truth. It’s real and relatable, and proclaims truths which may be hard to swallow (like 73). However it’s what I need. It’s what most twenty-somethings need. Oh so desperately.
    If you’re a twenty-something, this book has something for you. It addresses work, love, dating, marriage, relationships, friendships, faith, passion, emotional, financial, and physical health, goals, etc. The advice is concise, and comes from someone who (you can just tell) has been there, done that. Paul’s voice is clear and friendly, as if he’s sitting next to me at a bar, telling me how it is in a straight forward yet encouraging tone. There were so many connections and ah-ha moments for me, including but not limited to secrets 19, 29, 68, 69, 73, 86, 87. And as I read, I found secrets to share with my boyfriend (43, 96), my brothers (55, 87), high school friends (10, 66), co-workers (11, 45) cousins (15) and on and on.
    Out of 101 secrets, there was only one that I’m in denial about (52) and that’s just because I’m not a fan of wine. (I’m a mixed drinks kind of girl.) But even so that’s a great percentage of relatablility. I can imagine that not every twenty-something could connect with every secret, but I’d bet everyone could find at least one (if not a dozen) that speak to their situation. There were even secrets that relate to writers like me. Secrets 4 and 21 had writer-specific inspiration, if not directly then in metaphor. Paul says “Don’t cram your plotline into someone else’s story!” (pg53) when urging twenty-somethings not to compare themselves to other possibly more successful (on the outside Facebook) friends.
    This book isn’t just a list of secrets that you chuckle at then set aside. It is an affirmation. It is a call to action. It’s a reminder not to dismiss your 20s, but not to put them on a pedestal either. So many of the secrets aren’t just oh-that-makes-sense moments, but they require contemplation. And so many beg to be applied to real life.
    101 Secrets for your Twenties is a connection and a community. It makes life less lonely (as well as a great college graduation gift). It’s something not to keep secret, but to share. To yell about from the top of a mountain (or here in Indiana, the top of a barely-there hill). It’s something to tweet about, blog about and is worthy of a status update… or seven. It’s just that good!

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