The 30-Day Sex Solution: How to Build Intimacy, Enhance Your Sex Life, and Strengthen Your Relationship in One Month's Time

by Victoria Zdrok Wilson, John Wilson

Overview

Have Sex for 30 Days--and Transform Your Marriage!

Let's face it: Sex is the barometer of your relationship. When the sex is great, odds are your relationship is great, too. But when the sex is not so great--or nonexistent!--your relationship suffers as well.

Time for The 30-Day Sex Solution! This sensibly sexy handbook is the brainchild of Playboy Playmate and sex psychologist Dr. Victoria Zdrock Wilson and her therapist husband John Wilson. This happily married expert couple shows you and your partner now to reclaim intimacy, one day--and night!--at a time:

• Days 1-6: Renew your vows, reduce distractions, focus on just you two
• Days 7-12: Recapture romance and rekindle your passion
• Days 13-18: Rediscover each other--and reinvent yourselves as a couple
• Days 19-24: Embrace the power of play
• Days 25-30: Become sexual and spiritual soul mates

Together, the Wilsons give you a sensual roadmap back to the affection, commitment, and passion you once shared. Because love--and sex--really is better the second time around!

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781440525599
Publisher:	Adams Media
Publication date:	05/18/2011
Sold by:	SIMON & SCHUSTER
Format:	eBook
Pages:	256
File size:	2 MB

About the Author

An Adams Media author.

Table of Contents

Introduction vii

Part 1 The Priority Factor: Days 1-6 1

Chapter 1 Committing to the Program 2

Chapter 2 Releasing Your Libido 16

Chapter 3 Reducing Distractions 33

Part 2 The Intimacy Factor: Days 7-12 49

Chapter 4 Removing Emotional Barriers 50

Chapter 5 Enhancing Intimate Communication 63

Chapter 6 Revealing Sexual Vulnerability 76

Part 3 The Novelty Factor: Days 13-18 93

Chapter 7 Reinventing Yourself 94

Chapter 8 Rediscovering Each Other 108

Chapter 9 Revamping Your Sexual Script 121

Part 4 The Naughtiness Factor: Days 19-24 149

Chapter 10 Adding Playfulness to Sex 150

Chapter 11 Using Erotica to Enhance Arousal 166

Chapter 12 Expanding Sexual Horizons 178

Part 5 The Loftiness Factor: Days 25-30 193

Chapter 13 Delaying Gratification 194

Chapter 14 Becoming Sexual Soulmates 202

Chapter 15 Transcending the Physical 218

Afterword 228

Appendix: Sex Resources 230

Index 237

About the Authors 242

Editorial Reviews

Real-life couple and practicing sex therapists come up with a plan to put readers' tired old sex lives on the well-lubed track to paradise.

Wilson and Zdrok Wilson, a former Playboy Playmate, Penthouse sex columnist and host of the weekly Sirius show "The Sex Connection," offer a 30-day solution to remedy bedroom woes. While the authors acknowledge that most folks don't have enough time or room in the budget to shop for role-playing gear and sex toys, their aim is to provide easily implemented suggestions to result in more heat between the sheets. They encourage readers to begin by signing the "Contract of Enhancement of Erotic Union," proving their commitment to one another. They also suggest the likely uncomfortable task of informing friends and relatives of the month-long project they're about to undertake, as a means of explaining why they'll be harder to reach than usual for the next month. When the authors get around to outlining their program, there's not much revolutionary material here: Post-coital cuddling is strongly encouraged, and readers are gently reminded, "Making out doesn't have to lead to sex." One of their more provocative suggestions: If readers find their libido heightened during a long car ride, the automobile's hood is the perfect height to execute "The Stallion" position. Most memorable, unfortunately, might be the authors' description of "armpit sex," a bit of frottage suggested as an ideal way to break up the repetitiveness of oral sex: "By clasping her arms to her sides, a woman can create a moderately tight space in her armpits through which a man can thrust his erection." Readers might well be cautioned to save that for day 31.

A roundabout way of saying: Pay more attention to each other, lose the inhibitions and get it on already.

Kirkus Reviews