A Journey to Softness

by Mark Rashid, Skip Ewing (Foreword by)

Overview

Mark Rashid shares personal stories about events in his life that helped him on his journey to softness,as well as the stumbling blocks along the way. The narrative includes a section in which Mark passes on the experiences of other from a wide variety of walks of life and occupations, all sharing their views on how feel, connection and softness apply to their respective professions. Those interviewed for this special section include a musician who has written and performed several number one country music hits, a highly decorated helicopter pilot, a movie actor, a college professor, a master carpenter, an artist, and numerous others.

What the reader learns by example is how to develop feel, relaxation, connection, and softness in both horses and riders. The methods and techniques Mark demonstrated have been gleaned from decades of work with horses and horse people, as well as while he trained with world-class aikido masters and martial artists whose lives have been dedicated to developing softness and connection with a partner through feel.

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781570767586
Publisher:	Trafalgar Square
Publication date:	02/02/2016
Pages:	184
Product dimensions:	5.70(w) x 8.40(h) x 1.20(d)

About the Author

Mark Rashid (pronounced RASH-id) is an internationally acclaimed horse trainer known for his ability to understand the horse’s point of view and solve difficult problems with communication rather than force. He began working with horses at age ten, when he met the “old man,” who taught him to work with horses, not against them, and to listen to what the horse is trying to say. Mark’s clinics center on one-on-one work with horse and rider and are immensely popular with people around the world.

When Mark decided to study the martial art of aikido as a way to improve his horsemanship, he brought the same quiet determination to it that he exhibits in his work with horses. After years of practice, he has earned a second degree black belt in Yoshinkan aikido and now teaches the “way of harmony” in the local dojo.

Mark worked full time on ranches for many years gathering herds, managing stock, and training horses. When time permits, he still enjoys working on ranches near his home in Estes Park, Colorado.

Mark has been a guest on NPR’s The Horse Show and was featured on the Nature series on PBS. He is the author of nine books - Considering the Horse, A Good Horse is Never a Bad Color; Horses Never Lie; Life Lessons from a Ranch Horse; Horsemanship Through Life; Big Horses, Good Dogs, & Straight Fences; A Life With Horses; Whole Heart, Whole Horse; and his latest, a novel, Out of the Wild. He also has a solo music CD Song of the Prairie and enjoys singing and playing guitar with a local band The Elktones.

Table of Contents

Foreword Skip Ewing ix

Preface xi

1 Powerful Softness 1

Softness from the Inside Out Angela Ewing 11

2 The Pull 13

Offering the Inside of Ourselves to Our Horses Shannon Brown 25

3 Internal Softness 33

Thoughts on Connection, Feel, and Softness Michelle Scully 53

4 Initial Contact 59

The Difference Between "Make" and "Help" Walter Josey 73

5 Friction 77

The More You Listen, the More You Hear Lee Cranney 93

6 Working the Edge 101

Cultivating Softness Lasell Jaretzki Bartlett 119

7 Simplicity 121

"Feel" Is a Verb Tim Harvey 131

8 Feel 139

Opening to Softness Crissi McDonald 149

9 Softness 155

Afterword: An Exercise in Softness 167