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But why stop with the basics? Care to enact a threesome fantasy with two people? Set up the sexiest lighting for a webcam show? Dream of owning a steel cage dining table for captivating dinner parties? From the tried-and-true to the truly spectacular, it’s here in The Adventurous Couple’s Guide.
Some of the tips and tricks you'll learn:
fun and creative ways to bring sex toys into the bedroom
how to enact sexy fantasies with toys
hot strap-on sex tips
vital communication skills
"Smart and choosing toys that are made from safe materials and maintaining them properly. From harnesses to webcams, to nipple clamps and dildos, this guide will serve to introduce you to the world of toys, or expand your knowledge if you already have a drawer full."
—City Book Review
"Are you stuck in a rut or just looking for some extra fun in your love life? THE ADVENTUROUS COUPLE'S GUIDE TO SEX TOYS will help you find something to include in your next adventure. Once again Violet Blue gives readers an educational and entertaining read with this guide."
Fresh Fiction Reviews
"This a book ideal for people new to sex toys and indulging in new fantasies with a partner."
"The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys walks you through the basics of toys, bringing them up to partners and a bit of anatomy too."
—Of Sex and Love
"Useful information about new and upcoming sex toys written in an entertaining, easy-to-read language."
"The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Sex Toys is deftly written and thoroughly 'user friendly'. Highly recommended for gay or straight adults looking to 'spice up' their personal lives as individuals or as a couple."
—Midwestern Book Review
"There’s something for every couple- no matter if you’d like to try a beginner’s toy or something more extreme. This is an easy to understand reference book that I think you’ll enjoy reading. Overall, this is a great book that I highly recommend!"
—Night Owl Reviews
"The book is a goldmine of interesting and unusual toys. Illustrations sprinkled throughout the pages help demonstrate the difference between, say, representational and non-representational dildos, and Blue gives clear, concise instructions on the care, handling, and sharing of toys."
"Which toy offers the turn on we’re looking for? to Should it be made of silicone or jelly rubber? Multi-speed or multi-functional? These, and all sorts of other questions you might be too embarrassed to ask in a shop, are answered—and even the most experienced lovers will find Blue’s advice invaluable."
"More in depth information than any other toy guide I've yet read."
—Rolling in the Hay
"A book that smart sex toy stores should give out for free to first time buyers."
"Violet Blue is brilliant enough to write important health information in a really sexy way."
"This book is fabulous for all levels of experience, but what I love most about the book, aside from the knowledge it provides, is the fact that it busts down myths surrounding the use of sex toys, and portrays them positively and with an open mindedness that allows the reader to think “This isn’t so scary, this is fun and exciting.” It gives them the knowledge and allows them to see sex toys for what they are and the fun they can provide to anyone and everyone."
"This guide is the perfect book to pass on to a curious friend or recommend to an acquaintance who has questions about how to introduce sex toys to the bedroom."
—Airen Wolf Reviews
"In her latest book, Violet Blue helps you navigate the world of sex toys. With everything from how to choose your first sex toy to cleaning, toys for girls or boys, kinky toys for couples and so much more, after reading this book you’ll be able to shop like a pro."
"If you have ever wanted a non-threatening guide to getting your kink on, then this is the resource you need to have. A lot of sexiness crammed into 140 pages."
"For people who want to introduce sex toys, or new sex toys, into their love-life Blue gives some great advice. You don’t just present someone with “a vibrating pink bunny” when you have never broached the topic before. You start slowly. Picking up a copy of The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys could be that starting point."
"Even for someone such as myself who considers herself something of a toy expert, there was some new information and resources to be gleaned from reading this book."
"Sex toys are a great way to bring a little adventure into the bedroom, to experiment with new experiences and to share them with your partner. Plus, having a few around can really expand what’s on the menu - and that means you and your partner are more likely to leave the table feeling satisfied."
"A very useful introduction to the many different types of toys currently available. Packed with practical advice, this should be required reading for new retail staff."
—Erotic Trade Only
"Informative, witty, and easy to read."
—Her Private Island
"No longer are toys solely for solo pleasure. Violet's vast research and expertise in this area can guide both novice and toy-experienced couples."
—Lou Paget, author of The Great Lover Playbook
"It is full of good information and makes a good book to keep on hand for references-especially as you venture into new areas."
"This how-to presents toys as safe and fun options for heterosexual couples. Blue, author of numerous excellent sex guides from Cleis Press, concisely covers all the usual suspects: vibrators, dildos, plugs, "toys for boys," BDSM (bondage & discipline/sadomasochism) gear, how to talk about toys with your partner, and how to use them [...] She surveys the wide variety of products very well, with ample safe-sex and safety reminders."
"The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Sex Toys shows readers successful ways to introduce sex toys into relationships. This new book continues her focus on cultivating and maintaining the magic between lovers. As the editor of best-selling erotica anthologies especially for couples — Sweet Life, Sweet Life 2, and Taboo — she knows how to bring the heat."
"Violet Blue has done it again with this concise and straight-forward guide to the often overwhelming world of sex toys. With reassurance and wit, this guide suggests great ways for couples to integrate sex toys into a relationship. Give it to a partner as a hint, or read it together in bed for a fun evening, this guide is sure to spice up the romance and ease some of those shopping phobias."
—Come as You Are
"The idea professed by this guide is that couple’s use of toys is all about getting both partners onto the same page — it provides information of everything out there, and communication skills on how to interest a partner in, and negotiate couple usage."
—The Dinah Project
Posted September 6, 2013
I was super hesitant to pick up this guide at first. I mean, I knew what I was getting into, but I didn't know what I was getting into. Violet Blue has a super friendly tone that reassured me immediately, and I learned a lot from this guide. Dr. Glickman's little information blurbs were also great - I felt like I had two amazing professors tag-teaming a lecture (except I was actually interested in what they were teaching!). Highly recommend this book - it's good information for EVERYONE to know.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.
Posted August 8, 2013
I'm always looking for something new and unique and maybe I've read way too many sex books seeking that something special, but with stuff like The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Sex Toys on the shelves, I have no intentions of stopping. It's just what I want, skims over the novelties that proliferate the naughty pleasures market and focuses on the most creative of the creative, the exotic, kinky toys, the "teledildonic" toys (you know, the USB stuff you can hook up to your computer for awesome cyber sex?), sex machines and furniture, etc. etc. Reading this book is almost as much fun as the actual shopping will be.Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.