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Aging Together: Dementia, Friendship, and Flourishing Communities

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Never in human history have there been so many people entering old age—roughly one-third of whom will experience some form of neurodegeneration as they age. This seismic demographic shift will force us all to rethink how we live and deal with our aging population.

Susan H. McFadden and John T. McFadden propose a radical reconstruction of our societal understanding of old age. Rather than categorizing elders based on their cognitive consciousness, the McFaddens contend that the ...

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Overview

Never in human history have there been so many people entering old age—roughly one-third of whom will experience some form of neurodegeneration as they age. This seismic demographic shift will force us all to rethink how we live and deal with our aging population.

Susan H. McFadden and John T. McFadden propose a radical reconstruction of our societal understanding of old age. Rather than categorizing elders based on their cognitive consciousness, the McFaddens contend that the only humanistic, supportive, and realistic approach is to find new ways to honor and recognize the dignity, worth, and personhood of those journeying into dementia. Doing so, they argue, counters the common view of dementia as a personal tragedy shared only by close family members and replaces it with the understanding that we are all living with dementia as the baby boomers age, particularly as early screening becomes more common and as a cure remains elusive. The McFaddens' inclusive vision calls for social institutions, especially faith communities, to build supportive, ongoing friendships that offer hospitality to all persons, regardless of cognitive status.

Drawing on medicine, social science, philosophy, and religion to provide a broad perspective on aging, Aging Together offers a vision of relationships filled with love, joy, and hope in the face of a condition that all too often elicits anxiety, hopelessness, and despair.

Johns Hopkins University Press

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Editorial Reviews

Choice

This must-read volume will inspire the reader to contemplate the call to care for others with self-giving love. Highly recommended.

International Psychogeriatrics - Martin Guha
This is not a how-to handbook but a kindly and perhaps over-optimistic general discussion that will be of interest to caregivers, particularly Americans, and particularly those coming from a religious background. The rest of us can all gain something from it too, however... Aging Together reminds us that warmth and friendship can be maintained in trying situations.
Ageing and Society - Kathryn Mitchell
This is not just a book about ageing, dementia, and friendship; it is a book that will take the reader on a journey that will, hopefully, leave them in a better place than where they started... An excellent account of travelling along the dementia road.
PsycCRITIQUES - Mary Gergen
A serious, scholarly, and sensitive book.
Nursing Times - Ibadete Fetahu
Readable and useful...Anyone who wants to teach, practise or encourage person-centred care for people with dementia will find a lot in this book.
Journal of Gerontological Social Work - Justine McGovern LMSW
A compelling call to arms for a more caring, related society—a flourishing community—from which all can benefit, and in which all have a part to play.
Christian Century - Anthony B. Robinson
Aging Together offers a prophetic perspective by challenging our socially constructed versions of reality and our tendency to look for medical miracles and cures. Instead we should work to create communities that are hospitable to the cognitively impaired.
Choice
This must-read volume will inspire the reader to contemplate the call to care for others with self-giving love. Highly recommended.
International Psychogeriatrics
This is not a how-to handbook but a kindly and perhaps over-optimistic general discussion that will be of interest to caregivers, particularly Americans, and particularly those coming from a religious background. The rest of us can all gain something from it too, however... Aging Together reminds us that warmth and friendship can be maintained in trying situations.

— Martin Guha

Nursing Times
Readable and useful...Anyone who wants to teach, practise or encourage person-centred care for people with dementia will find a lot in this book.

— Ibadete Fetahu

Ageing and Society
There is something for everyone in this book... [A]n excellent account of travelling along the dementia road.

— Kathryn Mitchell

PsycCRITIQUES
A serious, scholarly, and sensitive book.

— Mary Gergen

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781421413754
  • Publisher: Johns Hopkins University Press
  • Publication date: 4/17/2014
  • Pages: 256
  • Sales rank: 962,237
  • Product dimensions: 6.00 (w) x 8.90 (h) x 0.70 (d)

Meet the Author

Susan H. McFadden is professor emerita of psychology at the University of Wisconsin, Oshkosh. She writes extensively on aging, religion, and spirituality. John T. McFadden is Memory Care Chaplain at the Appleton Health Care Center.

Johns Hopkins University Press

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Table of Contents

Preface vii

Acknowledgments xiii

Introduction 1

1 Dilemmas of Dementia Diagnoses 16

2 Receiving the Diagnosis 32

3 Personhood 44

4 What Is Friendship? 62

5 When Our Friends Travel the Dementia Road 77

6 Dementia Fear and Anxiety 93

7 Beyond Fear and Anxiety 109

8 The Flourishing Community 122

9 Congregations as Schools for Friendship 132

10 The Things That Abide 149

11 Practicing Friendship in the "Thin Places" 163

12 Memory, Forgetting, and the Present Time 183

Discussion Questions 197

Notes 201

References 213

Index 227

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