Alfredo's Journey: An Artist's Creative Life with Bipolar Disorder

by Alfredo Zotti, Bob Rich (Editor)

Overview

More than a just a journey, Alfredo gives us a blueprint for humane treatment of mental illness
In 1981, twenty-three-year old Alfredo Zotti began his lifelong challenge of living with Bipolar II Disorder. He quickly hit rock bottom, spending time as a homeless person and turning to street drugs and alcohol to medicate his symptoms. After hospitalization and careful outpatient monitoring, he became a successful musician and completed university. In 2004, he started to mentor sufferers of mental illness, and together, they developed an online journal. Alfredo now sees mental illness from a new perspective, not of disadvantages but advantages. In his words: "Having a mental illness can be a blessing if we work on ourselves." In this memoir and critique of mental illness, the reader will learn:

How empathic listening and being with someone can help calm that person's symptoms

The power of singing to create a safe space in a community

Why spirituality can be a key component in the healing process

The connections between mental illness, artistic expression, and people who think differently

The impact of childhood trauma on our psyche and its role in mental illness

The dangers of antipsychotics and antidepressants

The amazing connection between heart and brain and how we can cultivate it

The challenges of love and marriage between partners with Bipolar Disorder

Original music composed and recorded by the author is available for download by readers.

"Alfredo's story and his insights into the causes and treatment of mental ill-health are incredibly moving and impressive. His humanity, intelligence, creativity and his generosity and compassion towards people affected by mental illness and dedicated mental health professionals shine through the pages of his book."
-- Professor Patrick McGorry, AO MD PhD, Executive Director, OYH Research Centre, University of Melbourne

"As a clinician and academic, one can study and research ever known aspect of a disorder and write scholarly articles for learned journals, but none of this holds the potency of an individual relaying his or her lived experience. Alfredo does just this in his inimitable style, offering hope at every juncture to those who travel a similar road. The story should be read by clinicians, academics and sufferers alike."
--Professor Trevor Waring AM, Clinical Psychologist, Con-Joint Professor of Psychology, University of Newcastle

Learn more at www.AlfredoZotti.com
From the World Voices Series at Modern History Press www.ModernHistoryPress.com

Product Details

ISBN-13:	9781615992256
Publisher:	Modern History Press
Publication date:	08/03/2014
Pages:	208
Product dimensions:	6.14(w) x 9.21(h) x 0.50(d)

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CHAPTER 1

Professionals, Sufferers, their Caregivers and the Public

This book is written for mental health professionals, such as psychologists and psychiatrists, and also for people who suffer with a mental disorder. It is good for mental health professionals to understand the point of view of the client/patient. It is good for people with similar experiences to be able to identify with someone else who is in the same situation, and yet has built a good life with great satisfaction.

The book is about my experiences, or to be precise, my journey with Bipolar Disorder. Very seldom do sufferers write honestly about their experiences with mental disorders, mostly because of the stigma associated with disclosure. I have come to understand that if we don't come out of the closet and speak of our experiences, stigma will continue to affect our lives. The best way to fight stigma is adopting complete honesty and transparency so that people learn about us, our feelings, our abilities, and our hopes for the future.

I had a troubled childhood; I have experienced homelessness, have been in a psychiatric hospital — not because of suffering with some serious mental disorder, but because of being homeless — and became a friend to many people with psychoses, such as schizophrenia. I later started to study psychology at a university so that I could better help people with mental disorders online.

Now I have created an online monthly journal. The Anti Stigma Crusaders Journal (ASC) attempts to give an inside view into mental disorders from the perspective of those who suffer from them. Bipolar Disorder can be either a positive force in society or a negative one. It is up to all of us to help sufferers with Bipolar Disorder and other mental disorders as well, so that they may feel included and motivated to contribute to their society.

Many famous people are known to have behaved in ways consistent with a diagnosis of Bipolar Disorder. It would be difficult to include the many names here, but Winston Churchill, Abraham Lincoln, Beethoven, Michelangelo, van Gogh, and many other geniuses appear to have had symptoms and moods consistent with Bipolar Disorder. Research has shown a clear link between genius and madness. I here include a quote, which is from an advertisement made for Apple Computers, written by Rob Siltanen and Ken Segall and narrated by Richard Dreyfuss, who suffers with Bipolar Disorder. I really like the words. If only politicians and affluent people understood the message of the advertisement, the world would be a much better place. It goes like this:

Here's to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They're not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can't do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world are the ones who do.

This book is divided into two sections: in the first part (my personal story), I write about my past experiences, particularly as an inpatient of Rozelle Hospital in a suburb of Sydney, Australia, and my struggle with mental illness; in the second part (current knowledge of the disorder), I look at my voluntary work in my attempt to help people and myself. What is this thing that we call mental illness? This is what I attempt to answer in the second part of this book.

This is my story and I emphasize "story," because all humans are storied beings. This means that we make sense of our lives by telling ourselves a story about ourselves. The best that humanity has to offer, in terms of emotions, feelings, hopes, and struggles can be found by reading stories of those who have left us books like To Kill a Mockingbird (Harper Lee), A Room of One's Own (Virginia Woolf), and Pedagogy of the Oppressed (Paolo Freire). Literature, especially novels and personal stories, can tell us a lot about what it is like to be human. Indeed, I believe that there is a strong connection between good novelists and psychologists and in the future, I would like to see better communication and cooperation between these two professions.

While all of the information presented here is real and accurate, I have introduced in the story the fictional character of "Stella," who in part represents my mother, whom I lost to bowel cancer when I was 18. She was just 40 years of age and died a few months after surgery, in the early 1980s. She also represents my spirit — that part of me that has become self-critical and that tries very hard to control the child in me, the child that has been so hurt in the past that complete development has not been possible until recently. Stella also represents the best therapists that I have met in my life. Altogether, she is a complex ensemble of help — both self-help and the help of mental health professionals and other good people I have found on my journey.

Stella features in many parts of this first section, and while some readers may find her presence strange or out of place, given that this character is part of my imagination, it is nevertheless important in that it helps me personify that part of my spirit that watches over me and guides me as in the mind watching over itself. I still have a long way to go to fully recover. Indeed, many people do not fully develop and remain slaves of their child selves, which very often causes problems because of runaway emotions, uncontrolled moods, and related problems.

In the story, Stella is my imaginary therapist, a beautiful and intelligent middle-aged woman, who is very compassionate and who, in my mind, can make up for that void inside of me that was created when my parents, especially my mother, abandoned me. They travelled throughout Europe, to work, leaving me behind with various relatives, sometimes for years.

It is true to say that while we all have many different aspects to our personalities, we also have a parent, a child, and a self personality. These aspects of personality are sometimes well-integrated to make a person really whole and these people often find happiness and stability in life. But for many of us, who suffer with a mental disorder, these three aspects of personality are not well integrated and are sometimes detached from each other. In Dr. Thomas Harris' book I'm OK, You're OK: A Practical Guide to Transactional Analysis (1969), he wrote extensively about the child-parent-self aspects of personalities. I think that this book is still very relevant to those who suffer with Bipolar Disorder or depression and probably all mental disorders.

What I can say, after writing this book, which is an account of my journey as someone who suffers with Bipolar II Disorder, is that I am learning to cope with the disorder. Indeed, my portrait is not on page vi because of vanity, but because it indicated an attempt to look at my spirit closely, just like someone looks at one's face in the mirror. Not only am I learning to cope with Bipolar Disorder, but I also use it to fuel my creativity and to help others.

I help other sufferers by writing on many websites. However, I am not always received well by the members of self-help websites who suffer with mental disorders, such as Bipolar Disorder, Major Depression, Dysthymia, Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), or Schizophrenia, to name a few. I think that I have the tendency to expose very difficult and sensitive issues that many sufferers like to avoid. I know that the only way to develop, to integrate our child personality with the rest of us, and to become able to control our disorder is by being completely transparent with ourselves, to have courage and to have the ability to be self-critical, the kind of self-criticism that Paolo Freire, the famous Brazilian educator, called "Critical Consciousness." I don't necessarily help people on websites by agreeing with them and by trying to make them feel better. Of course, I try to do this whenever possible; but my real intention is to awaken the critical consciousness so that a sufferer can start to liberate their soul and possibly begin to find their way in the Universe. Some become annoyed and distance themselves from me. That is fine; but others continue the dialogue with me, and together we often make good progress in terms of understanding our mental disorder.

What I am trying to answer in this book is this: What is Bipolar Disorder? I can only answer (and I will answer it at the end of the book) by relying on my personal experience, knowing that it may not apply to everyone's story: I was just a very sensitive and creative child. This is not a genetic defect but a genetic gift. Because of being sensitive, when my parents abandoned me, Bipolar was triggered. For me, it is not a genetic problem, unless being talented and sensitive is a problem. In my case, it is an emotional problem, a kind of anguish that never goes away. This anguish causes symptoms that very often accompany us throughout life.

People like me may need medication to deal with the emotional problems, symptoms, and moods; but the fact remains that we have no proof that mental disorders, even the most serious ones, are purely genetic or biological. There will always be genetic, biological, and environmental factors at work and, for this reason, we need to treat mental disorders by using a bio-psychosocial approach — that is, to attend to biological, social, and psychological problems.

I fear that this is not always the case today, where many people opt for medication first, forgetting how difficult it is to control Bipolar and what it really takes to get better. In my opinion, the mind can be a powerful tool in the control and maintenance of our disorder, but the problem is that because of ideology and various other social problems, many of us are unable to help ourselves and tend to give up.

Genes can be switched on and off in the environment, but emotions and fears need to be understood, controlled, helped, and released when the time is right. For this, there is a need for extensive therapy and the "will" of the sufferer to participate in the therapy, to be willing to face up to memories and facts that may be painful. The aim should always be to develop resilience.

For example, mania in Bipolar Disorder is a kind of overconfidence in the face of disaster. As Michael Corry and Ann Tubridy once wrote in their book, Going MAD? Understanding Mental Illness (2001), it's like rearranging the deck chairs of the sinking Titanic and even inviting people to continue the party while the ship is about to go down into the deep ocean. It is partly fear of failure. Depression can be the opposite, or fear of living and the desire to give up. Medication can help a person sometimes, although very rarely, even for life; but it is like using crutches to walk while others can learn to walk without them. Some can learn to cope without medication.

To get to the bottom of the problems, however, we have to deal with emotions, and this requires that both the sufferer and the therapist enter into a very deep and honest dialogue with the intention of changing the personality to a more resilient one. That is why I am a fan of humanistic psychology and an admirer of the late Carl Rogers' theories. Unfortunately, one-size-fits-all methods will not do, so good psychologists have to rely on the best that theories and methods have to offer. I am proud that I have been able to confront my problems and my past in the attempt to rationalize the problems so that I can become in control, rather than be controlled by runaway emotions based on nonfactual fears. Some irrational thoughts will always be there, but I am aware of them and I can do something about them. That is the development of critical consciousness, or the mind watching over the mind.

I write my story much as a writer would write about other people. In this sense, I try to look at myself from a distance. To what extent I've succeeded, I cannot say.

CHAPTER 2

The Therapist and the Client: A Matter of Trust

Stella Ferguson is an attractive, motherly, middle-aged woman. She is a therapist and also a multi-talented person. She was playing piano at the age of six and is also a visual artist. She writes poems and has published a number of self-help books. Her clients are mainly wealthy people but she does bulk bill (meaning that she charges the government at a lower hourly rate to treat poor people).

I remember the first day when I went to therapy. Stella was sitting on her comfortable black leather armchair, resting her chin on her fist while taking a break from her busy day, probably in an attempt to give her busy mind a break. Nat King Cole was quietly singing in the background, "There will never be another you," and the blinds were semi-closed, letting little sunlight through the windows. I was to become one of her clients, but also a good friend.

There was no infatuation or romance between Stella and me. We respected each other, almost forgetting that we were the opposite sex, and built a strong and transparent friendship, something that I feel is necessary for successful therapy to happen. In fact, the most powerful thing in therapy is friendship. In my opinion, ditch the Watsonian and Skinnerian ideology about behavioral modification, more suited to animal training than people. Instead, embrace the ideas of Carl Rogers and his unconditional respect for the client, and let the client find their own way, without pressure, in an atmosphere of friendship. Our mutual respect was due to the fact that we are both gifted in many ways. Both Stella and I are married to other people and our relationship was a rare friendship that was taking us on a journey of self-discovery and self-awareness.

The initial therapy sessions were quite formal and it took me quite a while to open up. I could discuss other people's problems quite easily, but not mine. Stella seemed quite frustrated about it because, as she told me, I desperately needed to let my emotions out and this could only happen if I found the courage to confront my traumatic past. As the sessions and the months went by, I found myself able to open up and begin to tell my life story, something that I found very therapeutic.

While Stella was thinking, she suddenly felt emotional, reaching for the tissue box on the little table near her (usually it is the client that cries and reaches for the tissue box). She told me that what had brought up the emotions was her recollection of the sixth session she'd had with me, a session that I will never forget. Stella recalled the drawing that I had shown her in one of our sessions, which I had made when I was about six years of age. It was the drawing of a lonely child, sitting on a huge chair in the middle of a large, empty room. This symbolized the tremendous void inside me that had built up because I had been abandoned — a void that, as I told her, would never be filled.

I had told Stella about my interest in childhood traumas. Because of my volunteer work online, in my attempt to help people in all corners of the world, and with the help of counseling psychologist, Dr. Bob Rich, I had come to understand that what we call mental illness is mostly triggered by traumatic experiences. I believe that about 80 to 85% of all mental illness in the world is due to trauma, especially childhood trauma; and the people I helped online were and still are confirming this. Hundreds of people had experienced some sort of trauma, mostly during childhood, and sometimes in adulthood. Sometimes sufferers were aware of the trauma; but at other times, they were not. The interesting thing is that the traumatic experience would surface sooner or later. I had shown Stella many emails of sufferers who were telling me the stories about their childhood traumas. Here is what a young woman told me and we later found out that she had, indeed, experienced childhood trauma:

I don't think there is a cause for my depression and psychosis. I was sexually assaulted at 16 and my mother was an alcoholic who suffered with Bipolar Disorder, and she was abusive and violent. But there does not seem to be any ongoing trauma from that.

I consulted my friend Dr. Bob Rich, who is a counseling psychologist, and he wrote:

That kind of pattern makes me strongly suspect repressed severe trauma. She should go to a good therapist and do age regression hypnosis. If there is trauma, and she recalls it, she can deal with it and get rid of the problem sometimes for life. It usually feels too scary to do. I say to my clients: there is a box there, and you are working hard to keep the lid on. But what's in the box is not a monster. It's the photograph or movie of the monster. A photograph or movie cannot hurt you; only remind you of the past hurt.

(Continues…)

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Table of Contents

Table of Poems,
Table of Drawings and Sketches,
Foreword,
PART I Alfredo's Journey,
Chapter 1 – Professionals, Sufferers, their Caregivers and the Public,
Chapter 2 – The Therapist and the Client: A Matter of Trust,
Chapter 3 – Developing Critical Consciousness through Therapy,
Chapter 4 – The Therapy Intensifies ...,
Chapter 5 – In Our Darkest Hour ... We Start to See the Light,
Chapter 6 – We'll meet again, don't know where ...,
PART II: Treatment and Critique,
Chapter 7 – Spirituality and Coping with Mental Illness,
Chapter 8 – Liberalism and its Human Nature,
Chapter 9 – Clinical and Counseling Psychology,
Chapter 10 – The Science and Art of Psychology,
Chapter 11 – Cognitive Behavioral Therapy,
Chapter 12 – Childhood Traumatic Experiences,
Chapter 13 – Internal and External Aspects of Multiple Personalities in Bipolar Disorder,
Chapter 14 – Antipsychotic and Antidepressant Drugs,
Chapter 15 – Creativity and the Creative Artist,
Chapter 16 – Heart Intelligence and the Creative Process,
Chapter 17 – Disability — Don't Dismiss My Ability,
References,
References for Counseling and Clinical Psychology,
References for Science and Art of Psychology,
References for CBT and Social Anxiety,
References for Antipsychotic and Antidepressants Drugs Essay,
References,
Index,