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All Men Are Jerks - Until Proven Otherwise: A Woman's Guide to Understanding Men

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There are good men out there, if you can get past the jerks!

Everybody knows that men can act like real jerks. But complaining about them won't get you what you want. This book tells it like it is-explaining why men act they way they do, and what they really think about dating, sex, and relationships.

Most importantly, it teaches you what to say and do to get the love and affection you deserve.

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Overview

There are good men out there, if you can get past the jerks!

Everybody knows that men can act like real jerks. But complaining about them won't get you what you want. This book tells it like it is-explaining why men act they way they do, and what they really think about dating, sex, and relationships.

Most importantly, it teaches you what to say and do to get the love and affection you deserve.

All Men Are Jerks teaches women critical survival skills-how to protect themselves until they've established if they've found the right man, or whether they've found just another jerk.

All Men Are Jerks explains why men act they way they do-and what women can do to protect themselves from the pain and disappointment they'll suffer if Prince Charming turns out to be a loser. It itemizes the many ways that men can be jerks-and tells women how to decide which flaws are tolerable, which are grounds for "termination," and offers invaluable survival tactics for dealing with men-and staying happy-whether or not Mr. Right ever shows up.

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781580621731
  • Publisher: Adams Media Corporation
  • Publication date: 9/28/1999
  • Pages: 306
  • Product dimensions: 4.11 (w) x 6.71 (h) x 0.93 (d)

Table of Contents

  1. Do We Create the jerks We Complain About?
  2. The Allure of the Jerk
  3. Who Needs a Jerk?
  4. Setting Yourself Up for Disappointment
  5. Ms. Fix-It
  6. Wanted: The Perfect Man
  7. Thinking with the Wrong Side of His Brain
  8. Double Standards
  9. Nice Girls can Be Sexual
  10. Female Performance Anxiety
  11. Pleasing Ourselves
  12. Unsafe-Sex Jerks
  13. Jerk Alert
  14. The Jerk Lover's Tool Kit
  15. How to Get Over A Jerk
  16. Accepting the Differences Between Men and Women
  17. Finding Answers Within Yourself
  18. You Want a Man? Get A Life!
  19. If You Keep Him
  20. The Pleasure of Your Own Company
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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 7, 2005

    Where was this book when I was younger?!

    My 24-year-old daughter has made a bad marriage, and I'd do anything to help her. But she lives far away, and communication over the phone is tough, particularly when she's crying her heart out. Since she loves to read, I went searching for just the right book to help her get her head screwed on straight and take action to build the happy life that she deserves. At first glance I passed on this book--the title turned me off. Then I thumbed through it and read some excerpts. After buying it and starting to read it, I couldn't put it down. All I kept thinking as I read was, 'Yes, you're right, how true!' How I wish I had read this book when I was in college!!! How many bad relationships, and how much pain, I would have been spared had I heeded the lessons in this book. I've come to learn all about jerky men the hard way but now I can pass my hard-knock knowledge to my daughters in written word, and avoid becoming a preachy mom. My one criticism--the author gives short shrift to abusive relationships (one page--get out now)and I wish she had spent a chapter on recognizing and dealing with non-physical abuse. Notwithstanding, this book's a GEM--a 'must read'. I'm buying another copy for my daughter in high school!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted July 23, 2001

    Awesome

    This book was sooooo educational... I definitely look at the way I approach a man and enter a relationship much differently!

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