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As Sami Brady on Days Of Our Lives, actress Alison Sweeney has schemed, charmed, and lied her way through life’s many twists and turns. But off-screen, Alison has dealt with the ordinary, yet just as challenging, issues that plague every young woman—from her weight to romance to finding friends. Now, in this candid, fun, and straight-from-the-heart book, Alison shares the wit, wisdom, and lessons learned that have marked her own road to adulthood and made these the best days of her life. You think your life is ...
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Overview

As Sami Brady on Days Of Our Lives, actress Alison Sweeney has schemed, charmed, and lied her way through life’s many twists and turns. But off-screen, Alison has dealt with the ordinary, yet just as challenging, issues that plague every young woman—from her weight to romance to finding friends. Now, in this candid, fun, and straight-from-the-heart book, Alison shares the wit, wisdom, and lessons learned that have marked her own road to adulthood and made these the best days of her life. You think your life is nuts? Since I was sixteen, I’ve spent time on Death Row, kidnapped my baby sister and tried to sell her on the black market, been stranded at the altar (repeatedly), lied about my son’s paternity, and fought viciously with just about everybody in town. Well, okay, it wasn’t really me—it was my character, Sami Brady on Days of Our Lives. Sami is one wild girl, and I’ve been lucky enough to act out her life every week. But just like Sami, I’ve had my share of struggles, too. I’ve been told I was fat, watched fellow actresses diet down to nothing, been rejected—sometimes viciously—and wondered if I would ever date. (Hey, the first time I kissed a boy was in front of a TV camera!) There was even a time when I hated myself. Sound familiar? In this book, you’ll read my story. It’s an account of my ten-plus years on daytime’s most popular soap, and the story of my life off-screen—the major ups and downs, the craziness of Hollywood, problems with friends, balancing work and play, looking for love, concerns about weight, being pulled in every possible direction (and not always the right ones), and finally learning to love and accept myself for who I am. I’ll tell you fun stories about myself and my co-stars…recollections of my most memorable scenes…and everything you’ve always wanted to know about Sami. I think you’ll find a lot in these pages that will remind you of all the days of your life…and perhaps inspire you to follow your own dreams in the days to come.
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Editorial Reviews

Michael Logan
It's damn nervy of Alison Sweeney to write her autobiography at age 27, but we're glad she did. This is one young star who actually has something to say. Sweeney, who plays Sami on Days of Our Lives, just hit bookstores with All The Days of My Life (So Far)(Kensington Books), a sweet, dishy memoir cum self-esteem guide with a strong message for her fans: Be yourself. Since hitting Days as a chubby teen, Sweeney has never fit the mold of soap "perfection" - nor has she tried to - yet she's risen above her chopstick-thin surgically enhanced peers to become a major success. She does life her way, and wants to help her readers do the same. And that - in this era of The Swan and Extreme Makeover - is a very cool thing to put out there.
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Sweeney, who won a fan-voted "America's Favorite Villain" Emmy for her 10-year portrayal of Sami on Days of Our Lives, has written up the details of her life for her fans. The 27-year-old begins, dissertation-like, by outlining the contents. Her story is cheerful and bland, covering her beginnings at age four as a commercial actress, her audition for Days, her social life in an L.A. suburbs high school, her bout with dieting in thinness-obsessed Hollywood, her courtship and marriage with her policeman husband (including a long description of finding the perfect wedding dress) and, always, her appreciation for her fans. The book is padded with several chapter-long descriptions of convoluted Days plots (which she advises readers to skip if they've seen the episodes in question), as well as the details of her worm-eating guest appearance on Fear Factor. Although Sweeney emphasizes several times that she is no expert, she doesn't hesitate to give advice about love, dieting, exercise, planning a wedding and how to succeed as an actress. And for young girls, her advice, although certainly not unique, isn't bad: it's more important to be healthy and happy than to look like a model; a few close relationships are better than being popular; don't rush sex; and "You don't need to be perfect to have a successful life. You just need to be yourself." Who could argue with that? 16-page photo insert not seen by PW. Agent, Jane Dystel. (June 1) Forecast: National print and radio interviews and print ads will draw in readers, and the hot-pink jacket (with a photo of Sweeney posing in a skimpy top and jeans) should catch the attention of young daytime television fans. Copyright 2004 Reed Business Information.
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780758206091
  • Publisher: Kensington Publishing Corporation
  • Publication date: 5/1/2004
  • Pages: 256
  • Sales rank: 293,684
  • Product dimensions: 5.50 (w) x 8.34 (h) x 0.92 (d)

Meet the Author

Alison Sweeney
Alison Sweeney

Alison Sweeney is busy juggling the roles of host for NBC’s hit reality series The Biggest Loser and the award-winning Sami Brady on NBC’s hit daytime drama Days of Our Lives. Alison currently resides in Los Angeles with her husband, a California Highway Patrol officer, four-year-old son, Ben, and newborn daughter, Megan.
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ALL THE DAYS OF MY LIFE (So Far)


By ALISON SWEENEY

KENSINGTON BOOKS

Copyright © 2004 Alison Sweeney
All right reserved.

ISBN: 0-7582-0609-7


Chapter One

"Like sands through the hourglass so are the days of our lives ..."

* * *

Sound familiar?

I've been serenaded by that opening mantra of Days of Our Lives for more than ten years now-and loving every minute of it. Since that January morning in 1993 when I walked onto the set of Days for the first time, I've taken a wonderful ride that is as exciting today as it was a decade ago.

For more than a third of my life, the Midwestern town of Salem has been home, and let me tell you, it's never been dull. Because you're reading this book, you're probably a Days fan, and perhaps even a fan of my amazing character, Sami Brady. I've been so lucky to play someone like her who millions of viewers love-or, to be more accurate, often love to hate.

Admit it-there are probably dozens of Sami moments that are indelibly imprinted in your own mind. She has survived a brutal rape, struggled with bulimia, given birth to a beautiful son, spent some terrifying moments on death row, kidnapped and tried to sell her own baby sister on the black market, was stranded at the altar (how many times now?), fought repeatedly and viciously with her mother (and just about everyone else in Salem!), lied about her son's paternity, and slept with her older sister's fiance. All in a day's work! Yet through it all, Sami's still standing, still scheming, still devious and dangerous, and still winning the hearts, minds (and, let's face it) the animosity of the six million fans who watch the show each week and seem barely able to survive without their daily fix of Days. As the NBC Web site recently said, "Alison Sweeney has become pretty good at playing bad."

I know what it's like to be a Days of Our Lives "addict." Before I joined the show, I was already happily hooked on Days. I had started watching the show during the summer vacation before the ninth grade, and once I returned to school in the fall, I set up the VCR each morning and taped every episode without fail. When I'd watch the show, it was the perfect way for me to "chill out" after school. The day-to-day turmoil in Salem provided the perfect escape from my own real-life dramas at school. Days was (and is) absolutely habit-forming.

So when I was chosen to play Sami in 1993, at the age of sixteen, I felt like the luckiest girl in the world. And in many ways, I still do. The writers of Days have created a character that you can't stop thinking about or trying to figure out. Even if some viewers don't want to admit it, many of them relate to her, even though she certainly isn't the most angelic character on daytime television.

While some Days watchers are absolutely baffled by Sami, others love her and are proud of being a "Sami-Fan." I am well known for surfing the Web and stopping by to visit and post at Sami-friendly sites. Still, hardly a week goes by when someone doesn't ask me skeptically, "Do you really like playing Sami?" In fact, I love Sami. Okay, she does the kinds of unbelievably crazy things that are so outrageous. But admit it, she behaves the way that most of us have wanted to at one time or another, but never had the nerve.

Sami's saving grace is that her behavior-the good, the bad, and the ugly-comes from a genuine place. It's a product of her love for the people in her life, her own insecurities, and her unwavering determination to go after what she wants. You have to respect that about Sami. She's definitely someone who millions of people identify with and even secretly admire, even when her mean streak is creating havoc throughout Salem.

Okay, I admit it-there are moments now and then when Sami even makes my own skin crawl. At times, I even wonder what it would be like to play a heroine who warms people's hearts and souls. I may look like someone with "girl-next-door wholesomeness" (as TV Guide once described me), but I certainly don't play one on TV! So I get plenty of letters and e-mails from fans who need to get things about Sami off their chest. Almost to a person, there's very little holding back.

But that's what makes playing Sami so interesting. She's a character who everyone has an opinion about-and I think I've heard all of them from fans who stop me on the street or interrupt me between bites at restaurants. Some offer warm hugs, telling me how much they adore Sami. Occasionally, however, they'll give me a good tongue-lashing, or (in one unforgettable moment) swing a purse at me in disgust over Sami's eccentric behavior. Viewers have told me that they've actually thrown things at the TV screen when Sami becomes more than they can bear. The most common refrain: "Sami's a real bitch!"

Through it all, I still love portraying Sami. I think she's so much fun. At the same time, I adore every one of my fans, whether they love Sami or hate her. This book is for them and for you.

A Show Business Tale

In this book, you'll read my story. It is not only an account of my ten-plus years at the Burbank studio where Days of Our Lives is taped. It is also about my life offscreen-the good fortune that I've had and also how I've navigated over both the ordinary and extraordinary speed bumps that can derail you if you're not careful. Of course, from the outside looking in, it may seem as though I've had it all. Since my midteens, I've starred on one of TV's most popular daytime soaps, I'm living out my lifelong dream of being a successful actress, and both fans and critics have been generous with their compliments about my acting. Time magazine once called Days of Our Lives the "most daring drama" on daytime television, and Sami and I have been right in the middle of it for more than a decade. No complaints at all! In fact, sometimes I can't believe it!

At the same time, as I've moved from my own adolescence into adulthood, my life and my problems have been no different than those of so many other girls and young women. Problems with friends. Concerns about weight. Balancing work and play. Being pulled in every possible direction, and not always the right ones. Discovering my inner self, exploring my beliefs, and shaping my values. Along the way, there has often been a disconnect between the storybook image of a TV actress and what the real world dishes out. Yes, I've been lucky to have a wonderful show business career and a so-called glamorous life. But guess what? Most of my life is just like the lives of millions of other girls and women-confronting insecurities, coping with shyness, dealing with everyday anxieties, at times preoccupied with the way I look, and (of course) obsessing about the number on the bathroom scale. For better or worse, I've done it all in the public eye, where the smallest piece of gossip can make its way into the tabloids and ruin your day.

As I write this book, I still feel young, and like I'm just starting out in some ways. At the same time, I know that I'm somewhat of a "veteran" on a network soap. I've done the math, and I've been on Days for more than a third of my life. And, if I'm still there at age thirty, it'll be exactly half of my life! But I still think of myself as a kid, and if you had seen my best friend and me at a recent Bon Jovi concert, you would have thought we were fourteen-year-old groupies. I can giggle and gossip with the best of 'em, and I never want to take myself too seriously or feel as though I can't do youthful things (like visiting Disney-land-the "happiest place on earth").

Of course, it has been interesting growing up in L.A., which may be a little crazier than finding your way into adulthood in many other parts of the country. But I think most of the societal pressures and standards aren't that different, no matter where you call home. How well I remember high school, where it always seemed that other girls had the perfect bodies and the perfect lives-perhaps because they were on the cheerleading squad or dated the cutest guys in the class. Sounds a little shallow and superficial, right? But those are the kinds of things that are important when you're a teenager. Years later as an adult, when you look back with a little perspective and maturity, you can see that no one's life is perfect. Everyone has challenges, and the issues that once seemed so important often become insignificant.

Hollywood's Weighting Game

In Hollywood, many of life's pressures become exaggerated, and they can become suffocating if you let them. Take weight, for example. That's right, that scary scale can affect your mood for the whole day or week or.... In a high-profile industry like show business, you can't escape the fact that most young actresses have waiflike bodies and wrist-sized waists, and have never met a diet they didn't like. I've met most of those same diets, too, and have been taken hostage by a few! But let me tell you, I've never felt much affection for any of them. Of course, America devours diets and the hottest new diet book on the block with infinite enthusiasm (do the names Atkins, Sears, and Ornish ring a bell?), and for as long as I can remember, I was often consumed with my weight, even though I was never terribly heavy. In high school, during those times when I tipped the scales at a little more than I'd like, I might find myself overcome with doubts that I just wasn't pretty enough or that I wasn't going to be attractive to boys (welcome to adolescent anxiety!).

On my home turf-Hollywood-dieting has been taken to another level. For many actresses, it has become an obsession that borders on the maniacal. I won't say that I've never bought into this "Honey, I Shrunk the Actress" mindset. In fact, for many years, even though I was never obese, I tried fitting into a culture that reveres lean, angular bodies in women, and for a long time I really became fixated on my weight. In this book, I'll tell you about my struggles-how I became one of the sweating masses crowding into trendy health clubs in L.A. ... how I went on a dozen or more absolutely crazy diets ... how I ate only fruit ... tried not eating after 5 P.M. ... ordered meals that were prepared by nutritionists and delivered to my door. But nothing worked very long. Absolutely nothing.

Sounds insane, doesn't it? It really was a sad and pathetic way to live, diet after diet, year after year. Frankly, I get exhausted just thinking about it. Yet more than once, casting directors told me that I didn't get a particular role-perhaps for a "Movie of the Week"-because "you're just too fat for the part." Ouch! Yep, they really can be that brutally honest!

But here's the real tragedy: After a while, I began believing them. I absolutely hated myself when I glared at the scale and it glared back at me with unwelcome news. There were even a few times when I felt such despair that I wanted to throw up my hands and say, "Forget Holly-wood! Maybe I'll do something else with my life. I don't need this agony." There were desperate moments when I just wanted to stop at Krispy Kreme on the way home from the studio and curl up in bed with a dozen doughnuts instead of the next day's script. But as you'll read, "giving up" on my weight or anything else just isn't who I am.

Turning Points

Before we go on, let me make this clear: This certainly isn't a diet book. As I tell my own story, I'm not going to advise you on what to eat and when to eat it. Far from it. A nutritionist or dietician can handle that much better than I can. But I hope you'll find some inspiration when you read about my own turning points, finally overcoming the struggles with an issue that got too much of my attention for much too long. Whether you live in California or Canada, New York or New Mexico, we all watch the same television shows and read the same fashion magazines, which leave most women thinking that we shouldn't have eaten that yummy slice of cheesecake the night before or allowed our jogging shoes to collect dust in the closet. US Weekly, Women's World, VH1, Entertainment Tonight and E! Entertainment have documented my own dieting efforts. Even so, diets no longer dominate my life 24/7. And with a more relaxed attitude, my excess weight really has disappeared and certainly isn't the issue it once was.

But still, let's be honest: Wherever I go, people are always talking about losing weight. It's been over five years since I went through my own significant weight loss, but still I can hear their words echoing through my mind-"How many calories is that?" ... "No, thanks, that food isn't on my diet." ... "Does this outfit make me look fat?" ... Then there's my favorite, sometimes said with tongue in cheek: "Don't you absolutely hate her-she can eat anything she wants."

It's an insane way to live!

Fortunately, as I'll describe in these pages, a lot of my actress-friends and I have developed a much healthier outlook, recognizing just how ridiculous the weight game can be. We're very clear that the attention on our waistlines and the bathroom scale can be curses for Hollywood actresses and women everywhere. But I'm also clear about another thing: Since I had my first Kodak moment on a TV commercial when I was just five years old, acting has been my dream. I'm good at it. I'm certainly passionate about it. It's what I know and what I love. So I've made a conscious decision to remain strong, fight back, and try to stay above the fray and the need to fit the stereotypical mold of the perfect actress with the perfect figure.

Yes, I've waged a lot of internal psychological warfare over the years, and I've tried shifting the focus away from the scale and more toward leading a happy, healthy, fulfilling life. Of course, I still watch what I eat, and I'm always weighing my options when I'm reading a menu or shopping in the supermarket. But as you'll read in this book, I'm not the fanatic I used to be. I know that my body type will never allow me to look like the next Kate Moss or any other supermodel, for that matter.

But here's the amazing part of this story: The producers of Days of Our Lives have never made an issue of my weight. I'm so lucky to work for people who are so supportive. Whether I've been a little overweight or just right, they have only been interested in creating a great character who fans love-or hate! It really hasn't mattered what I weigh.

Sami's Longevity

Years ago, when I joined the cast of Days of Our Lives, I never could have imagined that I'd be sitting here, over a decade later, having gone through adolescence and young adulthood in the public eye and still having the privilege of playing Sami. So many soap characters come and go quicker than you can strike the delete button on a scriptwriter's computer.

Continues...


Excerpted from ALL THE DAYS OF MY LIFE (So Far) by ALISON SWEENEY Copyright © 2004 by Alison Sweeney. Excerpted by permission.
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  • Posted April 20, 2009

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    Love this book

    I have been a huge Days fan for years and I have always enjoyed watching Alison Sweeney act. I loved hearing her story and thought it was great that she could talk about hard, personal struggles that she had. She is really and inspiration!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 10, 2008

    From cover to cover...she had me hooked!!

    From the beganning of her acting career at the tender age of 4, Ali continued to keep her ideals on the foremost of her importance, before even her career!! Which is amazing to say the least! She continued to hold firm to her beliefs, and made it out on top of everyone who tried to put her down!! I was always proud of how she handled her weight issues and never once appologized for how She looked! And now she continues to give women the encouragement to achieve their goals by being a part of the 'Biggest Loser' tv show! I absolutely adore her, and how she is so down to earth!! I'm glad I paid the extra money to get a copy the first day it went out on sale, and even more a copy with her autograph in it! I have been a HUGE Sami Brady/Lucas Roberts Horton/ Austin Reed, Carrie Brady Fan ever since 1987!!! So the added pictures were a definate bonus for any huge fan of these characters!!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted August 10, 2006

    this is a great book!

    If you like the show days and/or are a fan of Ali you will enjoy this book. Also if you want to be an actor you will also enjoy this book. She gives a lot of advice about acting relationships weight loss etc... This is a very inspiring book and I highly recommend it!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 1, 2005

    Great Book

    It began on how Alison Sweeney starting her acting career at a young age of four. She started auditioning for commercials before she was acting on tv shows and a main role of 'Days of Our Lives'.At a young age her mother would take her to many auditions but it was Alison's decision to go to them.Her mother never let her acting career get to her head.Alison was still a normal girl with a fun and exciting job make tv shows.Alison also gave advice to people reading this book that they can achieve their goals and keep the bullying kids out of your mind. There are several reasons why i liked this book.one is because i watch the show 'Day of Our Lives all the time and i dont miss an day of it.Alison Sweeny's character as Sami Brady keeps me sitting at the edge of my sit everyday. She is a great actress and should keep up the good work she is doing.i look forward to her scene in the show to she what kind of dirt she digs up about someone in Salem. So you should get out and buy this book and enjoy it!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 27, 2004

    this was a great book!

    i'm a huge alison sweeney and days of our lives fan, and i loved this book! :) it had a lot of things about sami (who she plays of days of our lives).. but my favorite parts of the book were the parts about friends and relationships and her life. it also had some behind-the-scenes stuff in it as well. it's a very inspirational book and i strongly reccomend it!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 17, 2004

    really cute book

    this book was really cute and i enjoyed it a lot and you dont have to be a days fan to like it!some of it is a little slow but inspiring!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted June 14, 2004

    Fun read!!

    A very fun read especially for myself who has watched Days since 1990 and am a huge fan of the show!! I watched 'Sami' develop into a beautiful woman with powers that multiply by the minute. I enjoyed learning about what goes on behind the sceens. Also, I think it is very refreshing to have someone lay out a healthy lifestyle in black and white for people to see that it does work!! I commend Ali Sweeney for overcoming the harsh Hollywood views of the way people should look and focus on good health. I wish her ALL the success in life, love, and continued healthy living. This was a huge page-turner for me, I couldn't put the book down for long!! :)

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