All These Vows-Kol Nidre


The most memorable prayer of the Jewish New Year—what it means, why we sing it, and the secret of its magical appeal.

Through a series of lively commentaries, over thirty contributors—men and women, scholars and rabbis, artists and poets, spanning three continents and all major Jewish denominations—examine Kol Nidre's theology, usage, and deeply personal impact. They trace the actual history of the prayer and attempts through the ages to emend it, downplay it and even do away ...

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The most memorable prayer of the Jewish New Year—what it means, why we sing it, and the secret of its magical appeal.

Through a series of lively commentaries, over thirty contributors—men and women, scholars and rabbis, artists and poets, spanning three continents and all major Jewish denominations—examine Kol Nidre's theology, usage, and deeply personal impact. They trace the actual history of the prayer and attempts through the ages to emend it, downplay it and even do away with it—all in vain. They explore why Kol Nidre remains an annual liturgical highlight that is regularly attended even by Jews who disbelieve everything the prayer says.

Prayers of Awe
An exciting new series that examines the High Holy Day liturgy to enrich the praying experience of everyone—whether experienced worshipers or guests who encounter Jewish prayer for the very first time.


Rabbi Tony Bayfield, CBE, DD • Dr. Annette M. Boeckler • Dr. Marc Zvi Brettler • Dr. Erica Brown • Dr. Eliezer Diamond • Rabbi Ruth Durchslag, PsyD • Rachel Farbiarz • Rabbi Edward Feinstein • Rabbi Shoshana Boyd Gelfand • Rabbi Andrew Goldstein, PhD • Rabbi Lawrence A. Hoffman, PhD • Rabbi Delphine Horvilleur • Rabbi Elie Kaunfer • Rabbi Karyn D. Kedar • Dr. Reuven Kimelman • Dr. Mark Kligman • Rabbi Lawrence Kushner • Rabbi Noa Kushner • Rabbi Daniel Landes • Liz Lerman • Catherine Madsen • Rabbi Jonathan Magonet, PhD • Rabbi Dalia Marx, PhD • Ruth Messinger • Rabbi Charles H. Middleburgh, PhD • Rabbi Rachel Nussbaum • Rabbi Aaron Panken, PhD • Rabbi Marc Saperstein, PhD • Rabbi Sandy Eisenberg Sasso • Rabbi Jonathan P. Slater, DMin • Rabbi David Stern • Rabbi David A. Teutsch, PhD • Dr. Ellen M. Umansky • Rabbi Margaret Moers Wenig, DD • Dr. Ron Wolfson • Rabbi Daniel G. Zemel • Dr. Wendy Zierler

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Editorial Reviews

Association of Jewish Libraries Newsletter - Merrily Hart

Another fascinating and useful series on prayer and liturgy is brought to life by Rabbi Hoffman, long-time Professor of Liturgy at Hebrew Union College–Jewish Institute of Religion.

"Kol Nidre is at one and the same time both less and more than a prayer: 'less than' a prayer in that it is actually a legal formula with none of the formal characteristics that designate prayers as a distinctive outcry of the human spirit: but 'more than' a prayer in that it is an entire ritual in and of itself."

Discussing the issues raised by the moral problem of abjuring all vows, Rabbi Hoffman considers the opinions of the seventh-century geonim (Rabbinic authorities) that, speaking of Kol Nidre, "call it a foolish custom that is to be avoided" and debunks theories connecting the prayer to the suffering of conversos during the Spanish Inquisition. 38 essays explore the history of the prayer, its relation to Jewish law, its appearance, modifications and omission in the liturgy through the ages, the music and interpretation of the prayer today. The authors include a roster of well-regarded Rabbis and scholars in the American and British world of Reform, Conservative and Liberal Judaism. As is often the case in a collection of essays, there is much that is repetitive, but the reader can choose to read just a few essays and still understand them thoroughly. Includes bibliographic notes, glossary but no index.

The Jewish Eye - Israel Drazin

Remarkably, very few people understand the content, purpose, and history of what many consider Judaism's most important prayer, a recitation embroiled in controversy, a legal document that the rabbis tried to expunge from the high holiday Day of Atonement service, Kol Nidre. This book discusses and explains Kol Nidre.

What is Kol Nidre?

Kol Nidre means "All these vows." It is not a prayer and is not addressed to God. It is a legal document, like one that lawyers today might draw up to protect a client from damages. It is composed very carefully in legal language, designed to annul vows by using the powers of a human court. Covering all bases, the recitation of Kol Nidre is effectuated by using the magical numbers seven and three. Kol Nidre, this book points out, "arose in the premodern world where superstition was still rampant." The earliest mention of Kol Nidre is in the mid-eighth century in Babylon where the rabbis were expressing their dislike of it. (Kol Nidre was not developed in the fourteenth century to allow Spanish Jews who were forced to promise to give up Judaism to nullify this vow, as many presume.)

Since Judaism does not allow courts to adjudicate cases at night, Kol Nidre has to be recited before sundown. To highlight that it is still day, men put on the tallit before the service, for the tallit is worn during the day and not at night.

Can Vows be annulled?

The Bible offers no method to annul vows. Once a person makes a promise, the person must keep it, despite the consequences. This is seen in the story of Jephthah in Judges 11, where Jephthah foolishly promises to give to God "whatsoever comes out of the doors of my house to meet me when I return in peace" from war. He thought that an animal would greet him, but it was his daughter, his only child, that came to him and he had to give her to God. The only exception is that the Torah allowed a father or husband to cancel a woman's vow on the day he became aware of it because the Bible considered the woman's vow only effective if her father or husband agreed with it.

However, in post-biblical times, the rabbis allowed the nullification of vows, under certain conditions, by a Jewish court of three. This court of three could be composed of three laymen. Thus, Kol Nidre is recited before a minimum of three men standing on the bema, the podium. Most synagogues have at least two of the men hold scrolls of the Torah—the cantor, being busy singing, is unable to also hold the Torah—to enhance the solemnity of the Kol Nidre recitation.

The use of three and seven The ancients, non-Jews and Jews, thought that there is a mystical or magical quality to the numbers three and seven. Doing something three times makes the possibility of the request being effectuated more likely.

Thus many Jews wash their hands three times in the morning to rid their bodies of demons that may have affected them during the night. Thus, too, Kol Nidre, its introductory few lines, and two prayers following Kol Nidre are recited three times. Seven is also seen to have powers, as when Joshua marched seven times around the city of Jericho to make it fall. Thus, the number seven is used in Kol Nidre.

The use of three and seven also end the service of Yom Kippur when “Blessed is the name (meaning, existence) of His glorious kingdom for ever” is recited three times, and “The Lord is God” seven times.

What does Kol Nidre say?

Legal documents attempt to cover every contingency. Therefore, Kol Nidre not only requests the three-man court to nullify vows, but any kind of promise made in any form. These include “prohibitions and oaths.” In fact, Kol Nidre mention seven synonyms for vows, the last being a catchall “or any equivalent term,” to end with seven. The recitation says that these should be “cancelled, nullified, powerless,” using again a total of seven synonyms for annulment, including the catchall “we regret them all.”

Kol Nidre ends with a three-fold declaration, which may be seen as the petitioner’s request or the courts decision: “The vows are not vows, the prohibitions not prohibitions, the oaths not oaths.”

Which oaths are we talking about, past or future ones?

The middle of the recitation is different in different synagogues and the original version was one of several reasons why the rabbis disliked Kol Nidre. Some people insist that it should states that we are talking about past vows, and this was the original version; others future vows, the language that was substituted in the twelfth century; and others both, a kind of compromise. There are legal, moral, social, philosophical and other problems with each version.

Kol Nidre Music

Perhaps the main reason for the continued recitation of Kol Nidre today despite the rabbinical opposition and the reason why so many Jews enjoy the service is the stirring and beautiful music of Kol Nidre that haunts the congregant long after its chanting. It creates a deep religious feeling that moves the Jewish heart. The first written evidence of the melody is in 1765, although scholars think that it was probably composed in sixteenth-century Germany.


Kol Nidre raises many problems. How can people rid themselves of promises? What happens to the person to whom the promise is made, who relied on the promise? Doesn’t this nullification create a feeling of not caring what one promises because the oath can be cancelled? What did non-Jews think about this practice? These matters are discussed, along with many other subjects, in this book.

Yet, despite its true meaning, problems, and opposition, Kol Nidre’s generally obscure words and its moving music create a spiritual mystique and a ceremony with many messages. It is the only service that inspires virtually every Jew to arrive in the synagogue on time to hear it. It highlights the optimistic understanding that we can and should change past errors. It reminds congregants to do so. The absence of God in the recitation and the use of a human court emphasizes that people should work with each other to improve themselves and society. It emphasizes the importance of words and relationships. It teaches people not to make oaths. It stresses that we can pray with sinners. Furthermore, the request to annul future vows can be seen as a determination to refrain from repeating mistakes in the future.

The Jewish News of Greater Phoenix - Vicki Cabot

The blast of the shofar calls us to consider our relationships with each other—and with God: how they fell short in the past year and how we can better them in the coming one.

Brilliant philosopher and exceptional teacher Rabbi David Hartman explores this divine/human partnership, further distilling his philosophy of covenantal theology, provocatively looking at what happens when Jewish law conflicts with individual moral probity. From an intensely personal perspective, as a traditionally trained Orthodox rabbi who has developed an expansive pluralistic sensibility, Hartman wrestles with the seemingly insoluble conflict in his most recent book, written with Charlie Buckholtz, The God Who Hates Lies: Confronting & Rethinking Jewish Tradition, (Jewish Lights, $25 hardcover.)

Since making aliyah in 1971, and confronting the disparity between his idealized vision of the Promised Land with the reality of the Jewish state, Hartman has sought to reconcile his fierce commitment to Jewish tradition and his personal moral code. Issues such as gender, conversion and Jewish identity have roiled his consciousness and piqued his conscience. His evolving theology, as expressed in his prior books and in the work of the Shalom Hartman Institute in Jerusalem, which is dedicated to developing a new understanding of classical Judaism, is yet again reconstituted as he seeks to answer nagging questions of equality and justice against an intransigent Israeli religious establishment.

"What is the weight of tradition when it conflicts with one's deep moral sense?" he asks. "Is making choices that favor moral convictions equivalent to stepping out of the tradition? Conversely, to yield to the tradition, to squelch the ethical impulse ... what is lost?"

While reasserting his deep reverence for Halacha, and demonstrating not only his knowledge of the law but his facility in the intricacies of its discourse, Hartman skillfully navigates among some of its most erudite commentators—from Moses Maimonides to Abraham Joshua Heschel to his own teacher, Rabbi Joseph Soloveitchik—to make a compelling case for informing Halacha with more egalitarian and pluralistic sensitivity. He calls for creating a relationship with the divine that is framed by Talmudic precept but infused with compassion and moral intuition.

Another pre-eminent Jewish scholar, this one American though hailing originally, as Hartman does, from Canada, Rabbi Lawrence A. Hoffman offers a second, superlative choice for holiday reading.

All These Vows—Kol Nidre (Jewish Lights, $25 hardcover) is a compilation of writings from more than 30 commentators who examine the Kol Nidre prayer, which for generations has been the memorable highlight of the Yom Kippur liturgy.

Hoffman, who has served for more than three decades as a professor of liturgy at Hebrew Union College–Jewish Institute for Religion in New York, offers a compelling mix of viewpoints and interpretations, illuminating a variety of facets of the prayer from its history to its meaning and longevity.

Did you know that the text of the prayer, which as Hoffman explains in the book's introduction essentially allows for the nullifying of vows, has been traced back to the period of the Spanish Inquisition when Jews were forced to vow to live as Christians? Rabbi Marc Saperstein, president of London's Leo Baeck College, delves into this story in his essay, "Sermons and History: The 'Marrano' Connection to Kol Nidre."

And did you know that Kol Nidre is the only night of the year when the tallit is worn? And that the haunting melody is repeated three times? Dr. Ron Wolfson offers these and other trivial tidbits in his humorous piece, "How Is Kol Nidre Like a Dodgers Game?" (Wolfson, of course, hails from Los Angeles, where he is Fingerhut Professor of Education at American Jewish University.) There is lots to read, consider and even chuckle about.

A third choice, which can inspire not just introspection, but action, is Rabbi Jill Jacobs's Where Justice Dwells, A Hands-On Guide to Doing Social Justice in Your Jewish Community (Jewish Lights, $25 paperback). Jacobs, who has written and spoken widely on the Jewish imperative to do justice, offers a how-to book for those inspired to do good but in need of a clear road map.

"Jewish tradition holds out the promise of a messianic era," writes Jacobs in the book's introduction, "... But this picture of the ideal world can be too big."

Jacobs provides a three-part plan for reducing the oversized messianic vision to more realistic, bite-sized projects. She describes how to craft a vision, to identify underlying principles and to take action. She provides action plans for providing direct service, for giving or investing money, for advocacy and for community organizing. She includes a comprehensive listing of social-justice resources and an extensive bibliography for further reading. Jacobs ends with a call to create communities that exemplify Jewish values, communities that reflect that "justice dwells here."

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781580234306
  • Publisher: Jewish Lights Publishing
  • Publication date: 8/1/2011
  • Series: Prayers of Awe Series
  • Edition number: 1
  • Pages: 288
  • Sales rank: 1,131,266
  • Product dimensions: 6.00 (w) x 9.10 (h) x 1.20 (d)

Meet the Author

Rabbi Lawrence A. Hoffman, PhD, has served for more than three decades as professor of liturgy at Hebrew Union College–Jewish Institute of Religion in New York. He is a world-renowned liturgist and holder of the Stephen and Barbara Friedman Chair in Liturgy, Worship and Ritual. His work combines research in Jewish ritual, worship and spirituality with a passion for the spiritual renewal of contemporary Judaism.

He has written and edited many books, including All the World: Universalism, Particularism and the High Holy Days; May God Remember: Memory and Memorializing in Judaism—Yizkor, We Have Sinned: Sin and Confession in Judaism—Ashamnu and Al Chet, Who by Fire, Who by Water—Un'taneh Tokef, and All These Vows—Kol Nidre, the first five volumes in the Prayers of Awe series; the My People's Prayer Book: Traditional Prayers, Modern Commentaries series, winner of the National Jewish Book Award; and he is coeditor of My People's Passover Haggadah: Traditional Texts, Modern Commentaries (all Jewish Lights), a finalist for the National Jewish Book Award.

Rabbi Hoffman is a developer of Synagogue 3000, a transdenominational project designed to envision and implement the ideal synagogue of the spirit for the twenty-first century.

Rabbi Lawrence A. Hoffman, PhD, is available to speak on the following topics:

  • A Day of Wine and Moses: The Passover Haggadah and the Seder You Have Always Wanted
  • Preparing for the High Holy Days: How to Appreciate the Liturgy of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur
  • The Essence of Jewish Prayer: The Prayer Book in Context and Worship in Our Time
  • Beyond Ethnicity: The Coming Project for North American Jewish Identity
  • Synagogue Change: Transforming Synagogues as Spiritual and Moral Centers for the Twenty-First Century

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Table of Contents

Acknowledgments ix

Part I Kol Nidre and History

Morality, Meaning, and the Ritual Search for the Sacred Rabbi Lawrence A. Hoffman 3

The Heavenly Assembly Dr. Marc Zvi Brettler 22

What's in a Bowl? Babylonian Magic Spells and the Origins of Kol Nidre Rabbi Dalia Marx 26

Sermons and History: The "Marrano" Connection to Kol Nidre Rabbi Marc Saperstein 31

The Magic of the Moment: Kol Nidre in Progressive Judaism Dr. Annette M. Boeckler 39

The Music of Kol Nidre Dr. Mark Kligman 67

Part II Kol Nidre and Jewish Law

Kol Nidre: A Halakhic History and Analysis Dr. Eliezer Diamond 73

Choice, Commitment, Cancellation: Vows and Oaths in Jewish Law Rabbi Daniel Landes 80

Part III Kol Nidre: Translation and Commentary Rabbi Lawrence A. Hoffman 87

Part IV Kol Nidre and the Testimony of Prayer-Book Editors

Kol Nidre from Union Prayer Book to Gates of Repentance Rabbi Lawrence A. Hoffman 99

Memories of the Past, Guidelines for the Future Rabbi Andrew Goldstein 109

What If Cleverness Is Foolishness and Righteousness an Illusion? Rabbi Jonathan Magonet 114

Words of Wisdom or Legalese? Rabbi Charles H. Middleburgh 119

Two Torah Scrolls and Kol Nidre: The Earthly Court Below Rabbi David A. Teutsch 123

Part V Kol Nidre and Interpretations for Today

At Least Credit Me with Being Compassionate Rabbi Tony Bayfield 129

Filling the Void Dr. Erica Brown 133

Words Mean Everything, Words Mean Nothing-Both Are True Rabbi Ruth Durchslag 137

"Woe Is Me That I Have Sworn": The Power to Annul God's Vows Rachel Farbiarz Ruth Messinger 142

The Tyranny of Perfection Rabbi Edward Feinstein 146

Disruption, Disorientation, and Restarting: The Kol Nidre Road to Return Rabbi Shoshana Boyd Gelfand 150

Lifting the Curtain: The Theatrical Kol Nidre Rabbi Delphine Horvilleur 155

"It's Rather Hard to Understand": Approaching God through Sound, Not Translation Rabbi Elie Kaunfer 159

The Sound and Pageantry: Willingness, Aspiration, and Discernment Rabbi Karyn D. Kedar 163

Is Kol Nidre Typical? Dr. Reuven Kimelman 168

All Bets Are Off Rabbi Lawrence Kushner 174

The Room with No Back, Only Forward Rabbi Noa Kushner 178

Imagining Nothing Liz Lerman 182

A Vote of No Confidence Catherine Madsen 187

Over-Promise, Under-Deliver ... and Then Forgive Rabbi Rachel Nussbaum 191

Courting Inversion: Kol Nidre as Legal Drama Rabbi Aaron Panken 194

The Kol Nidre Mirror to Our Soul Rabbi Sandy Eisenberg Sasso 200

Release beyond Words: Kol Nidre Even on a Violin Rabbi Jonathan P. Slater 205

Night Vision: A Gift of Sacred Uncertainty Rabbi David Stern 209

Ritualizing Kol Nidre: The Power of Three Dr. Ellen M. Umansky 214

All Vows? No! Then, Which Vows? Rabbi Margaret Moers Wenig 218

How Is Kol Nidre Like a Dodgers Game? Dr. Ron Wolfson 224

We Are the Image of God That God Leaves Behind for History to Know Rabbi Daniel G. Zemel 228

The Oath, or My Family Story Dr. Wendy Zierler 232

Notes 237

Glossary 255

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