Almost a Psychopath: Do I (or Does Someone I Know) Have a Problem with Manipulation and Lack of Empathy? [NOOK Book]

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Do you know someone who is too manipulative and full of himself? Does someone you know charm the masses yet lack the ability to deeply connect with those around her?

Grandiosity and exaggerated self-worth. Pathological lying. Manipulation. Lack of remorse. Shallowness. Exploitation for financial gain. These are the qualities of Almost Psychopaths. They are not the deranged criminals or serial killers that might be coined "psychopaths" in the ...
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Almost a Psychopath: Do I (or Does Someone I Know) Have a Problem with Manipulation and Lack of Empathy?

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Overview

Do you know someone who is too manipulative and full of himself? Does someone you know charm the masses yet lack the ability to deeply connect with those around her?

Grandiosity and exaggerated self-worth. Pathological lying. Manipulation. Lack of remorse. Shallowness. Exploitation for financial gain. These are the qualities of Almost Psychopaths. They are not the deranged criminals or serial killers that might be coined "psychopaths" in the movies or on TV. They are spouses, coworkers, bosses, neighbors, and people in the news who exhibit many of the same behaviors as a full-blown psychopath, but with less intensity and consistency.

In Almost a Psychopath, Ronald Schouten, MD, JD, and James Silver, JD, draw on scientific research and their own experiences to help you identify if you are an Almost Psychopath and, if so, guide you to interventions and resources to change your behavior.

If you think you have encountered an Almost Psychopath, they offer practical tools to help you:
  • recognize the behavior, attitudes, and characteristics of the Almost Psychopath;
  • make sense of interactions you've had with Almost Psychopaths;
  • devise strategies for dealing with them in the present;
  • make informed decisions about your next steps; and
  • learn ways to help an Almost Psychopath get better control of their behavior.
The Almost Effect™ Series presents books written by Harvard Medical School faculty and other experts that offer guidance on common behavioral and physical problems falling in the spectrum between normal health and a full-blown medical condition. These are the first publications to help general readers recognize and address these problems.
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Editorial Reviews

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--2012 IPBA Benjamin Franklin GOLD Award Winner in the category of Psychology

"Dr. Schouten and Mr. Silver have written a sophisticated self-help book aimed primarily at those victims--parents, spouses and co-workers--but also at those who might sense some of these traits in themselves. The authors include a detailed discussion of the thought processes behind a psychiatric evaluation and an overview of the still-tentative theories of causation.

The almost-psychopaths are inherently fascinating; they may rise high and fall low (certain scions of politics and finance come to mind) or simply cause smaller miseries in their roles as controlling spouses, manipulative colleagues or uncontrollable teenagers.

At work they may be competent, self-disciplined and high-achieving. At home they may be charming and lots of fun. And on the inside they may be just as morally empty as any true psychopath, but the almost-psychopaths are grounded enough to keep some of their worst instincts in check, staying employed and out of major legal trouble."
--Abigail Zuger, New York Times, June 26, 2012

"Most of us have had an inexplicably uncomfortable feeling upon meeting certain people. They do not fit the psychopath mold, but they leave us with the proverbial hairs on the back of our necks standing alert. Schouten and Silver have done a masterful job explaining both why we have this reaction and how we might deal with almost psychopaths."
--Mark Albanese, MD, Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School and the Director of Addictions at Cambridge Health Alliance.

"At a time when the label 'psychopath' has devolved into a mere epithet, Schouten and Silver provide the understanding that comes from recent research in the field, as well as their many years of education, training, and clinical practice. Most importantly, their 'operational' approach to interactions with those who demonstrate psychopathic behaviors provides a primer for all who might otherwise fall prey to psychopathic behaviors of colleagues, co-workers, and yes, even family members."
--Gregory Saathoff, MD; author, Criminal Poisoning: Clinical and Forensic Perspectives, Associate Professor of Research, University of Virginia School of Medicine

"Psychopaths are the predatory and very dangerous few. Those who are 'almost a psychopath' create mischief and misery for many. In this marvelous book of knowledge, wisdom, and sound advice, the subclinical--or should we say subcriminal--psychopath is brought to life. He can be dangerous but not lethal, duplicitous but not completely fraudulent. We finally have a book to help us recognize and cope with this personality.
--Reid Meloy, PhD, Forensic Psychologist and author, The Psychopathic Mind

"The Almost Effect Series of books captures the fundamentally human experiences and helps readers interpret what the symptoms might mean--both for themselves and others. The Almost Effect collection should be required reading for those interested in psychology and human behavior."
--Howard J. Shaffer, PhD, Associate Professor at Harvard Medical School; Director of the Division on Addiction at the Cambridge Health Alliance; co-author: Change Your Gambling, Change Your Life

"By highlighting the continuum of psychopathy and placing its associated symptoms and behaviors within the context of everyday encounters, the authors make understanding these difficult to manage people a little bit easier for everyone."
--Sally C. Johnson, MD

"Almost a Psychopath is a powerful read for those who want to better understand this mental illness and how to work with such individuals."
--The Midwest Book Review

Library Journal
In this entry in the "Almost Effect" series, former federal prosecutor Schouten and Silver (psychiatry, Harvard Medical Sch.) seek to address psychopathy, a problem located between neurosis and psychosis, in a manner accessible to the general public. Schouten and Silver provide many examples and walk readers through the process of diagnosis so that readers can discern true psychopathy from similar conditions. Chapters cover diagnostic criteria, workplace situations, relations with loved ones, children and abuse, malingering or feigned illness, and self-evaluation. Although the tone is positive, some examples provided are troubling. For instance, the chapter concerning handling "almost psychopaths" in the workplace suggests "buff up your resume and start the process of moving on." Can almost psychopaths change? How do almost psychopaths change the people around them? An outline for problem solving includes acknowledging/accepting the problem; refusing to be helpless; documenting abuse; reaching out to family, friends, and professionals; being willing to say something; and getting out of hurtful situations. VERDICT While the book provides excellent diagnostic examples, it lacks sufficient concrete, helpful tips for readers victimized by psychopaths, whether almost or real.—Nadine Dalton Speidel, Cuyahoga Cty. P.L., Parma, OH
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781616494261
  • Publisher: Hazelden Publishing
  • Publication date: 5/23/2012
  • Sold by: Barnes & Noble
  • Format: eBook
  • Pages: 280
  • Sales rank: 250,747
  • File size: 947 KB

Meet the Author

Ronald Schouten, MD, JD, has assessed individuals ranging from victims of child abuse, professional misconduct, and domestic violence to those accused of crimes that include bank robbery, campus shootings, and multiple murders. He is currently on staff at Harvard Medical School.

James Silver, JD, is a former federal prosecutor and current criminal defense attorney who has tried cases and handled appeals on offenses spanning the gamut of illegal behavior, from shoplifting to murder.
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Table of Contents

Series Foreword: The Almost Effect ix

Acknowledgments xiii

Part 1 Minor Problems to Major Predators 1

Chapter 1 Setting the Stage 3

Chapter 2 What Is a Psychopath? 13

Chapter 3 The Almost Psychopath 41

Chapter 4 Could It Be Something Else? 61

Part 2 Dealing With Almost Psychopaths in Our Lives 93

Chapter 5 Living with an Almost Psychopath 95

Chapter 6 Recognizing Almost Psychopathic Traits in Children 121

Chapter 7 Working with an Almost Psychopath 141

Chapter 8 Confronting Child Abuse by Almost Psychopaths 163

Chapter 9 Adults as Victims: Confronting Almost Psychopaths in the Helping Professions 181

Chapter 10 Sick or Slick? Malingering and Manipulation of Illness 201

Chapter 11 What to Do When You Find Yourself in Almost Psychopath Territory 225

Appendix A Diagnostic Criteria for Antisocial Personality Disorder 241

Appendix B Defining a Mental Disorder Using the Axes of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DMS-IV-TR) 243

Notes 247

About the Authors 257

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  • Anonymous

    Posted June 19, 2014

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    In general, well-meaning people tend to be tolerant of the 'foib

    In general, well-meaning people tend to be tolerant of the 'foibles' of others. They choose to 'live and let live' and generally ignore the suspicious behavior of colleagues, dates and bosses - until it's too late.

    Society is trained to be kind.

    Yet, a too-tolerant attitude gives endless permission to 'almost psychopaths' to do what they do best.

    This is a very well-written book with lots of great examples to make ideas super clear.

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  • Posted December 28, 2012

    For anybody

    Written in plain English to be understood by anyone who is observant of human nature. Every reader will find descriptions and scenarios in this book that are familiar and previously confusing. A relatively quick read with a lot of substance.

    0 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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