Table of Contents
Introduction: Meet Jake: Every Woman's Secret Weapon By Cindi Leive, Editor-in-Chief, Glamour xiii
Hi, Ladies. It's Me, Jake. Who I Am-and Why You Should Believe Me about Guys xvii
Section 1 Meeting Him
Rule #1 Always Hit on the Wingman 3
It's the World's Best-and Most Empowering- Flirting Technique
PLUS
Five Ways You Can Be More Powerfully Attractive to Him in the First Five Minutes 14
Rule #2 Know How Sexy You Really Are 17
Why Men Can't Resist Women Who Love Their Own Bodies
PLUS
Fourteen Moments When You're Powerfully Irresistible (and Don't Even Know It) 32
"MEET JAKE 1980-1984 35
Rule #3 Remember, Love Is Not a Competitive Sport 37
How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Your Friends and Find Your Own "Power Song"
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Male "Turn-ons" That Aren't 50
Section 2 Dating Him
Rule #4 Repeat After Me: The Best Men Don't Send Expensive Flowers 55
Why You Shouldn't Be Blinded by Clichéd Acts of Chivalry, and How to Spot a True Knight
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Three Genuinely Chivalrous (and Powerfully Seductive) Things You Can Do for Him 70
Rule #5 Please Don't Pretend to Know What the Infield Fly Rule Is 73
How to Be Your Most Genuine Self with Him- Because Guys Want You to Be You
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The Dos and Don'ts of Living in Guy World 84
"MEET JAKE 1985-1988 87
Rule #6 Don't Sleep with Him Too Soon! 91
How to Make a Real Sexual Connection, but Not Before You're Ready
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Jake's Guide to Talking Dirty 108
Rule #7 Keep Dating Other People Longer Than You Think You Should 111
Trust Me. It Works. Always.
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Four Signs It Might Be Time to Stop Dating Other Guys 126
Section 3 Making it Last Forever
Rule #8 Beware the Buddy Trap! 131
Or, a Woman of Intrigue Pees with the Door Closed
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The Three Laws of Living Together 146
"Meet Jake 1990-1994 149
Rule #9 Make Him Think Commitment Was His Idea 153
How to Lead Your Guy to the Big C So Gently, He Won't Even Know He's Being Led
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Five Ways to Drive Him Crazy (the Bad Way) About Commitment 168
Rule #10 And Above All, Enjoy the Ride! 171
Because Love Is Meant to Be Fun-and Women Who Know That Are the Most Powerful Women of All
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How to Use Your Secret Power to Cheat-Proof Your Relationship 184
Epilogue A Letter to the Women of America: Four Things I Really, Truly Hope You Will Know About Men-and Yourself-by the Time
You Close This Book 187