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A moving account by Auma Obama about her life in Africa and Europe, and her relationship with her brother, Barack Obama.


While her younger brother Barack grew up in the U.S. and Indonesia, Auma Obama’s childhood played out at the other end of the world in a remote village in Kenya, the birthplace of the siblings’ shared father. Barack and Auma met for the first time in the 1980s, and they built a lasting relationship which lead to travels together in Kenya, research ...

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A moving account by Auma Obama about her life in Africa and Europe, and her relationship with her brother, Barack Obama.


While her younger brother Barack grew up in the U.S. and Indonesia, Auma Obama’s childhood played out at the other end of the world in a remote village in Kenya, the birthplace of the siblings’ shared father. Barack and Auma met for the first time in the 1980s, and they built a lasting relationship which lead to travels together in Kenya, research into their family history and finally Auma’s support for her brother’s political career and eventual bid for the U.S. presidency.

Auma spent sixteen years studying and living in Germany, moved to England for love, and gave birth to a daughter there. The tension between her original and chosen worlds and cultures was a constant challenge, and eventually Auma returned to Africa and worked to support young men and women in shaping their futures.

In And Then Life Happens, her candid and emotional memoir, Auma shares her own story as well as recollections of and experiences with her famous brother, who says about their first encounter: “I hugged her, we looked at each other, and laughed. I knew right then that I loved her.”

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Editorial Reviews

Publishers Weekly
No doubt much of the interest in this engrossing memoir stems from the fact that the author is President Barack Obama's half-sister. As covered extensively in the news, the two spent their childhoods with different parents, in different parts of the world, and met for the first time in the 1980s, when they were both in their 20s. But stories about that now-famous brother who, as a child, Auma was "never particularly curious about," make up only a small part of the book. Most of it focuses on Auma's life growing up in the remote, "unassuming" Kenyan village of Alego Nyangoma; attending college at both the University of Heidelberg and University of Bayreuth in Germany; and later making the decision to return to Africa to help Kenyan children achieve the same "possibilities" she saw available to children in Britain. Especially poignant are the sections that tell how, as a college student, Auma finally got to know the mother who relinquished her as a baby. Despite the level of recognition Auma achieved during the 2008 presidential election, there are no airs here. The prose is simple, and Auma's honest, straightforward storytelling makes her an instantly likeable narrator. Originally written in German—the language Auma said came "more easily" because of the "formative adult years" she spent in Germany—the book was smoothly translated by Ross Benjamin who, as Auma notes, successfully captured her voice and vision. Color photos. (May)
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"A burnished look at a difficult, ruptured childhood in Kenya... [a] delicate, emotional work...that enlightens and deepens the public’s understanding of the president." — Kirkus Reviews

"...engrossing... Especially poignant are the sections that tell how, as a college student, Auma finally got to know the mother who relinquished her as a baby. Despite the level of recognition Auma achieved during the 2008 presidential election, there are no airs here. The prose is simple, and Auma's honest, straightforward storytelling makes her an instantly likeable narrator." — Publishers Weekly

Library Journal
President Obama's paternal half sister Auma Obama, about a year older than the president, was a strong-willed child who rebelled against the traditional roles of women in her Luo ethnic group in Kenya. Searching for greater freedom, she left in 1980 to study in Germany. In this earnest and reflective memoir, first published in Germany last year, Obama details her upbringing, her education during her 16 years in Germany, and her eventual return to Kenya to work for the humanitarian organization CARE International. Her chronicle feels genuine and is at its best when she delves into thorny issues of cultural heritage, feminism, and European attitudes toward Africa. VERDICT Although her narrative is occasionally weakened by too many mundane details, her vivid descriptions of her first meeting and growing relationship with her famous half brother may appeal to politics buffs. As a thoughtful tale of a strong woman negotiating complex family dynamics, bridging two cultures, and working for social justice, the book stands on its own merits and will appeal to memoir readers interested in women's coming-of-age stories or life in post-colonial Kenya. Readers may also enjoy Janny Scott's A Singular Woman: The Untold Story of Barack Obama's Mother. [See Prepub Alert, 11/14/11.]—Ingrid Levin, Salve Regina Univ. Lib., Newport, RI
Library Journal
Born directly after Kenya gained its independence, the author did not meet her famous brother, now President of the United States, until the 1980s. They became better acquainted through joint study of their family history, and she encouraged his political aspirations. Here she talks not simply about their relationship but about how she felt caught between two worlds after moving to England and returned home to work with the youth of Kenya. And that's the really interesting part of the book, though people will likely pick this up to get a glimpse of the young Barack.
Kirkus Reviews
A burnished look at a difficult, ruptured childhood in Kenya by the president's half sister, older by one year. Unlike David Maraniss' comprehensive biography of the president (Barack Obama: The Story, 2012), which does not sugarcoat the problematic father the president and Auma shared, this delicate, emotional work sidesteps the patriarch in order to portray a young woman deeply resentful of the sexist treatment of women in her Luo culture and determined to forge her own identity. Auma is the daughter of Barack Obama Sr.'s first wife, Kezia, who was essentially abandoned pregnant with Auma at the family compound while her husband pursued a scholarship program at the University of Hawaii. Much happened while her father went on to graduate studies in economics at Harvard, namely his marriage to Stanley Ann Dunham and the birth of Barack Obama Jr., divorce and remarriage to another young white American woman, Ruth Baker, who then followed Barack back to Nairobi and became the third wife and awkward stepmother to Auma and her older brother, Abongo. Deprived of her biological mother, Auma found in the rigors and routine of her schools a reprieve from a bleak home life that comprised an "oppressive emptiness" resulting from her father's eventual divorce from Ruth. Her father's demise, caused by the loss of a government finance job and debilitating car accidents (Auma blames them on political intrigue, Maraniss on his drinking), strained her relationship with him to such an extent that she did not seek his permission to travel as an exchange student in Germany. Auma became a proficient student of German, and her meeting with her brother Barack in Chicago in 1984 marks the brightest moment in this eager-to-please work. The meeting paved the way for his subsequent trips to Kenya and warmly unfolding relationship with his African family. Another treatment of the extended Obama family that enlightens and deepens the public's understanding of the president.
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781250010056
  • Publisher: St. Martin's Press
  • Publication date: 4/24/2012
  • Edition description: First Edition
  • Edition number: 1
  • Pages: 352
  • Product dimensions: 5.80 (w) x 8.50 (h) x 1.19 (d)

Meet the Author

Auma Obama

AUMA OBAMA was born in Kenya right after the country gained its independence. She grew up first with her mother and paternal grandparents, and later with her (and President Obama's) father and American step-mother. She now works in Nairobi for CARE International, an organization specializing in educational projects worldwide.

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And Then Life Happens

A Memoir
By Auma Obama

St. Martin's Press

Copyright © 2012 Auma Obama
All right reserved.

ISBN: 9781250010056


“OH, MY GOD! Oh, my God! I can’t believe it!”
For the second time, Lucy, my assistant, read the letter she was holding in her hand. Flustered by its unexpected arrival, I had desperately needed to show it to someone.
I stood next to Lucy’s desk and could tell clearly by the look on her face that she was itching to read the letter once again—this time aloud. Immediately, I emphatically gestured to her not to do so. The last thing I wanted was for the whole office to find out what was in the letter—or even worse, who had sent it. For some time now, I had been getting an enormous amount of attention—because my brother Barack had, against all odds, become the first African-American president of the United States. Almost overnight, I—as a member of his family in Africa—found myself in the spotlight. And now it seemed that even levelheaded Lucy was getting caught up in all the excitement.
“You absolutely have to frame the letter! Absolutely!” she cried. Laughing, I took the letter from her. “Really, Auma!” she added in earnest. “Imagine how much it will be worth in a few years.” Now I really had to laugh.
“You Kikuyu,” I teased, feigning reproach.
The Kikuyu, the largest ethnic group in Kenya, have a reputation for good business sense. Lucy grinned. She is actually Kamba, a different ethnic group, but is married to a Kikuyu man.
“Must have rubbed off on me,” she replied with a shrug and a mischievous smile.
I noticed our coworkers looking at us with growing curiosity.
“Don’t you think it would make more sense to answer the letter instead of keeping it as a museum piece?” I went on, lowering my voice and trying to bring not only Lucy but also myself back down to earth. All the while, another question was whirling around in my mind: How on earth was I to go about answering a letter from Hillary Rodham Clinton?
*   *   *
Only a few minutes earlier, the letter had been brought to me personally by a U.S. embassy staff member. It was preceded by a call to my office at the international humanitarian organization CARE to confirm that I would be available to take delivery of the letter. Before I knew what this was all about, my immediate reaction was to go on the defensive. I thought it was just another of the numerous interview requests I had been receiving. Overwhelmed by the volume of calls, I had started to feel like a cornered animal trying to take cover from the journalists. The fact that those inquiries always reached me exclusively on my cell phone and that only a few people knew my office number had at that moment completely slipped my mind.
At the height of the election in 2008, I had intentionally given out my cell number, so that anyone with questions about the Obama family could contact me. I had believed that I could easily deal with the media. After all, I thought, I had worked as a journalist myself when I lived in Germany. By providing my number, I had mainly wished to protect my grandmother, whom everyone called Mama Sarah, from all the media fuss. But I had not been prepared for such a flood of calls.
Because Mama Sarah was also Barack’s grandmother, everyone wanted to speak to her. They wanted her to tell them about his family, to bring to light the missing pieces of the puzzle that Barack Obama was for them. Who exactly was this black man and son of an African who had dared to aspire to the office of president of the most powerful nation in the world? Where were his roots? Who was his family?
In search of answers to these questions, scores of reporters from across the globe boarded planes and traveled to Nairobi, the capital of Kenya. From there they continued on to rural western Kenya, to Alego Nyangoma Kogelo, an unassuming little village not far from the shores of Lake Victoria that was our ancestral home. There, on the Obama family homestead, lie the mortal remains of Barack Hussein Obama Sr. (1936–1982) and Onyango Hussein Obama (1879–1975), the father and grandfather, respectively, of the forty-fourth American president. And to this day, it is the home of our grandmother, Mama Sarah.
On many occasions I was at my grandmother’s side when she was interviewed, and I never ceased to be amazed and delighted at how well she, eighty-seven years old at the time, was able to grasp the intricacies and dynamics of the American electoral process. She answered all the questions with intelligence and humor, sticking to the point and not digressing. That being said, I was also always conscious of not wanting to overtax her at her age and tried to keep the media interest from getting out of hand.
*   *   *
I carried Hillary Clinton’s letter around with me for days. I felt that any response had to be well thought through. Not only was I in a state of mixed emotions—overjoyed at my brother’s success, while at the same time not fully prepared for the unrelenting attention I now received as a member of the Obama family—but the letter from the U.S. Secretary of State also brought back some painful memories. During the primaries, she had run against my brother for their party’s nomination. Both were Democrats, but they had also been the fiercest opponents. Recollections of negative attacks on my brother from the Hillary camp were still fresh in my mind. And because I was not accustomed to the rules of political campaigning, at the time everything had seemed to me to be playing out on a very personal level. I had feared that his rival’s team wanted not only to win the election, but also to ruin my brother’s political career. And now here was a letter from Hillary Clinton thanking me for the wonderful moments we shared in Washington and wishing me all the best. I could hardly believe it.
On the occasion of the inaugural luncheon, I had been seated with Hillary and Bill Clinton and other dignitaries of American politics. As we ate, the conversation revolved around Barack’s swearing-in, global politics, development aid, Kenya, and my work with CARE. I even received a number of tips to pass on to my brother and his wife, Michelle, wise advice on how to lead a somewhat “normal” life in the White House.
Even though I was not sitting next to Hillary, the opportunity arose for a brief one-on-one chat. To my pleasant surprise, the former senator from New York was a charming, amusing, and engaged conversation partner. I really enjoyed talking to her and would have gladly spoken longer with this energetic, intelligent woman. I could see why so many people had so passionately supported her during the campaign. From up close, I also realized why female voters in particular had wanted to help Hillary become the first female president of the United States. She simply exuded enormous “woman power.”
The dialogue with Hillary—during which I crouched down next to her—was interrupted when it was time for dessert. Feeling the strain in my thigh muscles, I returned to my seat next to her husband, the forty-second president of the United States.
*   *   *
Almost a month went by before I finally found the right words to reply to Hillary. It was not an easy task. On the one hand, I wanted to keep open the possibility of getting to know her better—a response along the lines of “Thank you for your letter” seemed insufficient. On the other hand, I was aware that this letter was most likely just a polite gesture, a matter of political etiquette without further implications. I was not sure how to take it. This was all very new to me. With my brother taking center stage in global politics, I could not help questioning all the interest in me as “Barack Obama’s sister.”

Copyright © 2012 by Auma Obama


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Table of Contents

Author's Note ix

Kenya 1

Germany 91

England And Kenya 229

Epilogue 323

Acknowledgments 327

Index 329

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  • Posted May 31, 2012

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    A Wonderful Account of Family History

    This is a must very informative about the Obama's family make-up and history. I enjoyed it very much!

    1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 10, 2013

    Conservatives / Republicans stay away!!

    She is President Obama's sister, she is African and she is black. Not good for right wing bigots and the like. Every else should enjoy.

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  • Posted June 6, 2012

    Great Book. This women is a blessing the to Obama family!

    Auma talks about her life in Africa, while president Obama was growing up in America. What a wonderful story she tells and all she has done so far in her young life! READ IT

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  • Anonymous

    Posted May 29, 2012

    Highly recommended

    This well-written and well-translated (from the German) autobiography by the Presidednt's (half-)sister Auma Obama reveals a person who haa had an interesting life in her own right.

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