At the End of Life: True Stories About How We Die [NOOK Book]


What should medicine do when it can?t save your life?

The modern healthcare system has become proficient at staving off death with aggressive interventions. And yet, eventually everyone dies?and although most Americans say they would prefer to die peacefully at home, more than half of all deaths take place in hospitals or health care facilities.

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What should medicine do when it can’t save your life?

The modern healthcare system has become proficient at staving off death with aggressive interventions. And yet, eventually everyone dies—and although most Americans say they would prefer to die peacefully at home, more than half of all deaths take place in hospitals or health care facilities.

At the End of Life—the latest collaborative book project between the Creative Nonfiction Foundation and the Jewish Healthcare Foundation—tackles this conundrum head on. Featuring twenty-two compelling personal-medical narratives, the collection explores death, dying and palliative care, and highlights current features, flaws and advances in the healthcare system.

Here, a poet and former hospice worker reflects on death’s mysteries; a son wanders the halls of his mother’s nursing home, lost in the small absurdities of the place; a grief counselor struggles with losing his own grandfather; a medical intern traces the origins and meaning of time; a mother anguishes over her decision to turn off her daughter’s life support and allow her organs to be harvested; and a nurse remembers many of her former patients.

These original, compelling personal narratives reveal the inner workings of hospitals, homes and hospices where patients, their doctors and their loved ones all battle to hang on—and to let go.

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Editorial Reviews

Publishers Weekly
In 22 essays, family members who have survived the death of children and parents, as well as a variety of health professionals, talk frankly about their experiences with the dying and the process of death, raising important questions about how much should be done to prolong life, what to tell the dying, and how to handle our grief. For Beecher Grogan, the most selfless gesture in life as a mother is giving her 12-year-old, tormented by leukemia, her blessing to die in peace. And Phyllis Galley Westover, a former college dean, put her life on hold to care for her depressed and feeble 101-year-old father, but she wondered if she had done right by him or herself when she saved him from drowning when he fell into the swimming pool. Caroline Burau, a 911 dispatcher, doesn’t fulfill her fantasy of “ everything right,... anticipat every need” when she takes a harrowing call from a woman whose six-year-old had just shot her four-year-old. Creative Nonfiction magazine editor Gutkind gathers an impressive, meaningful, and often courageous chorus of voices tackling a once-taboo subject with dignity, giving strength and consolation particularly to those enduring the deaths of loved ones. Agent: Andrew Blauner, Blauner Books Literary Agency. (Apr.)
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"This is an encouraging collection—not only in a very literal sense but also in the help it offers us in thinking about death, how clear it makes our lack of control over death (and so over life). The book is crammed with stories of parents, children, long-time patients, emergency cases, complete strangers. The dying are young, old, middle-aged, and, variously, brave, grumpy, accepting, difficult, defiant. The family and friends, doctors, nurses, EMTs, and chaplains who accompany them have a lot to say about what they’ve observed and learned and resolved to change. This is a valuable contribution to our store of works in the Medical Humanities that will likely cause both medical students and doctors to ponder new ways of dealing with their dying patients.” — Kathryn Montgomery, author of Doctors’ Stories and How Doctors Think

"A gripping and passionate account of how we face the final rite of passage. These stories mine the agility of the human spirit, and will not easily be forgotten." — Danielle Ofri, MD, PhD, author of Medicine in Translation and Singular Intimacies

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781937163051
  • Publisher: Fourth Chapter Books
  • Publication date: 4/10/2012
  • Sold by: Barnes & Noble
  • Format: eBook
  • Pages: 288
  • Sales rank: 155,002
  • File size: 445 KB

Meet the Author

Editor Lee Gutkind has been exploring the world of medicine through writing for over 20 years. He is the author of Many Sleepless Nights: The World of Organ Transplantation, and the editor of four anthologies about health and medicine: Silence Kills: Speaking Out and Saving Lives; Rage and Reconciliation: Inspiring a Health Care Revolution; Healing; and Becoming a Doctor. He is the founder and editor of the magazine Creative Nonfiction, the first and largest literary journal to exclusively publish nonfiction, and has also published the essay collection Forever Fat and two books on writing, The Art of Creative Nonfiction and Keep It Real, among other titles. Gutkind currently teaches creative writing at Arizona State University’s Consortium for Science, Policy, and Outcomes.

Francine Prose is a literary critic and author whose nonfiction works include Reading Like a Writer and biographical profiles including Anne Frank: The Book, The Life, The Afterlife and The Lives of the Muses: Nine Women and the Artists They Inspired. She has also written 12 novels, including My New American Life, Touch, and the National Book Award finalist Blue Angel. Prose is the president of the PEN American Center, and a Distinguished Writer in Residence at Bard College.
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Table of Contents

Editor's Note: Frank at the Piano vii

Foreword: New Approaches to End-of-Life Care Karen Wolk Feinstein xi

Introduction: Last Days Francine Prose xv

To Morning Anne Jacobson 1

On Bearing Witness Laurie Foos 9

Insights in the Rearview Mirror Phyllis Galley Westover 23

The General Larry D. Cripe 37

Yellow Taxi Eve Joseph 51

Wake-Up Call Catherine A. Musemeche 63

Simple Gifts Beecher Grogan 73

Living and Dying Well Therse Zink 85

A Better Place Valerie Seiling Jacobs 95

Waiting (to Go Home) Howard Mansfield 107

Mr. Stone Diana Flescher 119

Rules Maria Meindl 131

Life and Death and 911 Caroline Burau 145

Snowing in Krakow Marcin Chwistek 152

Do You Remember? Patricia Mccarthy 165

The Business of Grief Joe Primo 177

This Is Blood Sandelll Morse 187

A Figurative Death Caroal Cooley 199

The Measure of Time Amanda J. Redig 209

The Deep Truth Eugenia Smith 219

The Resurrectionof Wonder Woman Eleanor Vincent 233

Twelve Breaths a Minute Gulchina A. Ergun 247

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