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Military service was once taken for granted as a natural part of good citizenship, and Americans of all classes served during wartime.

Not anymore.

As Kathy Roth-Douquet and Frank Schaeffer assert in this groundbreaking work, there is a glaring disconnect between the "all volunteer military" and the rest of us. And as that gap between the cultural "elite" and military rank-and-file widens, our country faces a ...

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Military service was once taken for granted as a natural part of good citizenship, and Americans of all classes served during wartime.

Not anymore.

As Kathy Roth-Douquet and Frank Schaeffer assert in this groundbreaking work, there is a glaring disconnect between the "all volunteer military" and the rest of us. And as that gap between the cultural "elite" and military rank-and-file widens, our country faces a dangerous lack of understanding between those in power and those who defend our way of life.

In America, it is increasingly the case that the people who make, support, or protest military policy have no military experience. As a result, the privileged miss the benefits of military service -- leadership, experience helpful to their future roles in public life, and exposure to a broader cross section of citizens -- while the military feels under-supported and morally distanced from the rest of the country. And when only a handful of members of Congress have military experience or a personal link to someone in uniform, perhaps it becomes too easy (or too hard) to send the military into combat.

Based on research and including the voices of many young military members who understand firsthand the value of service, AWOL is also a very personal book. Frank Schaeffer, father of a former enlisted Marine, knows the anguish and pride that millions of American parents feel every day as their children are off fighting a war in a foreign land. Kathy Roth-Douquet, wife of a career officer, has experienced the struggle of trying to keep the family together with a husband at war as well as the often untold satisfaction of raising children in an ethic of service. To the authors and numerous other families who are intimately acquainted with the glory and the sacrifice of military service, America needs a wake-up call before it's too late.

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Editorial Reviews

Nathaniel Fick
In their compelling and inspiring cri de coeur , Kathy Roth-Douquet and Frank Schaeffer trace this societal shift, arguing that the schism between America's military and its opinion-making class threatens the nation's welfare. Both authors qualify as opinion-makers, and both have personal connections to the military. Roth-Douquet, a self-described "former agitator, feminist, Ivy Leaguer, Clintonite," is married to a Marine pilot. Schaeffer, a novelist, painter and film-maker, saw his plans for his children -- "top college, good grades, smart jobs, wife/husband, Subaru/Volvo, membership at the Metropolitan Museum of Art, IRA started early, kids, college fund" -- derail when his youngest son enlisted in the Marines after high school.
— The Washington Post
Publishers Weekly
In this impassioned, convincing manifesto, Schaffer (Keeping Faith) and Roth-Douquet, a former Clinton White House and Department of Defense staffer, call for class integration of the military. Their arguments are personal: Roth-Douquet is a military wife and Schaffer's son is a marine, and the authors fall within the demographic they critique. Alternately narrating, they relate their experiences with the military and detail the liabilities of the present all-volunteer "corporate" force: the hindered policy-making ability of a civilian leadership without significant ties to the military, the weakening of the armed forces themselves, and "the sense of lost community and the threat to democracy that results when a society accepts a situation that is inherently unfair." While Schaffer proposes a lottery draft and Roth-Douquet suggests the military "convince" people to sign up, they both call for all young people to submit to some form of national civilian service. Though the authors occasionally exaggerate ("we are fast approaching the day when no one in Congress and no president will have served or have any children serving"), they make a clarion call in the face of increasingly controversial foreign policy and a military stretched thin. (May 9) Copyright 2006 Reed Business Information.
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780061874666
  • Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers
  • Publication date: 10/13/2009
  • Format: eBook
  • Pages: 272
  • Sales rank: 426,824
  • File size: 382 KB

Meet the Author

Kathy Roth-Douquet is a veteran of the Clinton White House and every presidential campaign of the past twenty-four years and is the author with Frank Schaeffer of AWOL. She lives with her marine officer husband on Parris Island, South Carolina.

Frank Schaeffer is a New York Times bestselling author whose books include Keeping Faith (as seen on Oprah) and Crazy for God. He lives in Salisbury, Massachusetts.

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The Unexcused Absence of America's Upper Classes from Military Service -- and How It Hurts Our Country
By Kathy Roth-Douquet

HarperCollins Publishers, Inc.

Copyright © 2006 Kathy Roth-Douquet
All right reserved.

ISBN: 0060888598

Chapter One

It's Personal

The evidence is that those who serve and those who don't are looking at each other with growing uneasiness and across a widening philosophical, ideological, political, and even religious social gap.

Frank and Kathy

We were the last people who expected to be drafted into the military. People like us -- Frank, a novelist, Kathy, a lawyer with political connections -- never would be, we thought. Yet here we are. The last draft in America is a draft of the heart -- it takes women and men, it takes parents and grandparents. Someone we love is in the military, and before we know it -- sometimes against our will -- we, too, are part of the military family.

Of course, like the professional military, this "family draft" doesn't take many people from our demographic. The extended military family, like those in uniform, increasingly includes fewer and fewer of those who are particularly influential in affecting the opinions and policies of the country.

It was not always this way.

During World War I, World War II, and the Cold War, we had conscription,and many people from the influential classes served, either through the draft or by volunteering. About half of the graduating classes of Princeton and Harvard entered the service for a tour of duty in the fifties. Today, less than one percent do.

The change has everything to do with the Vietnam War. After the Vietnam War, America made what turned out to be an almost universally popular decision to create an all-volunteer military. For the first time in history, the country had a large military, wars, and no conscription. It seemed like a perfect solution to our problems of domestic disputes over the use of our military and the blowback from the draft. If you wanted to join, fine. If you didn't, that was fine too. Military service became just another item on an ever-lengthening list of personal choices. And how connected you wanted to be to your country's foreign policy entanglements was optional. If you wanted to live as if the world ended at our borders, that was fine, and if you wanted to take personal responsibility for your citizenship, that was fine too. To use the vernacular of the time you could "do your own thing."

As a result, it has become increasingly comfortable for most young adults of all social classes to avoid even thinking about military service. This nonservice is a reflection of the idea that service is just a choice in the same category as deciding which college to go to, what car to buy, where to go to church or not to go. Those with "better options" simply choose not to join the military.

We believe that the increasing gap between the most privileged classes and those in the military raises three major problems: It hurts our country, particularly our ability to make the best policy possible. It undermines the strength of our civilian leadership, which no longer has significant numbers of members who have the experience and wisdom that comes from national service. Finally, it makes our military less strong in the long run.

And then there is also an intangible, something as real as it is hard to prove: the sense of lost community and the threat to democracy that results when a society accepts a situation that is inherently unfair. When those who benefit most from living in a country contribute the least to its defense and those who benefit less are asked to pay the ultimate price, something happens to the soul of that country. It may be legal, but is it right?


I've had a lucky life, even a glamorous one at times, so that in today's culture nothing would predict I would be at home on a military base. I was raised in an upper-middle-class neighborhood where a high-achieving Jewish child could grow up to be anything he or she wanted to be: a doctor or a lawyer. Shaker Heights, Ohio, as I knew it, was an earnest place, proud of its SAT scores and the racial and religious diversity of its professional families. The civics lessons that loomed largest in the minds of the class of '82 were the Holocaust, the civil rights movement, Vietnam, and Watergate. The moral of these seemed to be that one should distrust authority figures and find and act on an internal moral compass -- not a lesson that leads people to serve their country through a tour of military duty.

After high school I entered the little utopia that is Bryn Mawr College. There I discovered feminism and parlayed my tiny high school leadership experience (running a previously defunct literary magazine) into starting a women's group. We did things like organize issues seminars and rallies to support women's health clinics. At various times in my "activist career" I was arrested for protesting nuclear weapons at an Army base and for civil disobedience at the South African embassy. These were all such scripted and risk-free affairs that my mother, a schoolteacher in town to visit me at the time of the demonstration, decided to join me in the paddy wagon after singing "We Shall Overcome" illegally on the South African embassy's lawn.

I also launched what turned out to be my political career. I met members of Walter Mondale's staff when Mondale was running for president in 1984 and made enough of a nuisance of myself that they let me come out on the road with them. I did advance work for Mondale and Geraldine Ferraro, and have done advance work for every presidential election since then, ending only in 2004.

Advance work led me to fall in love with my country -- you get to travel to big cities, small towns, rural farms, inner cities. You put together events to showcase local initiatives that your candidate likes or to spotlight individual people's situations -- family farms, AIDS support groups, after-school programs. It really is a big, beautiful country, filled with many sincere people trying to make things better.


Excerpted from AWOL by Kathy Roth-Douquet Copyright © 2006 by Kathy Roth-Douquet. Excerpted by permission.
All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.
Excerpts are provided by Dial-A-Book Inc. solely for the personal use of visitors to this web site.

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Table of Contents

Foreword   General Tommy Franks     XV
Introduction     1
It's Personal     9
"Not for People Like Us": Or How the Privileged See the Military     29
The Military's View of What It Does     67
The Emergence of the Gap     97
The Rights of the Individual Trump the Virtues of the Citizen     127
How the Gap Affects the Military and the Mission     141
Why Do We Even Need the Military?     175
What If We Don't Fix the Problem?     193
Solutions     219
Afterword     239
Acknowledgments     247
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  • Anonymous

    Posted June 26, 2007

    God save us from the converts.

    This book provides a wealth of information on the state of todays military and recruiting. It is well written and informative. That said the authors manage to complain about the divisions of class in america while at the same time try to impose their sense of class on the military. Constant refrence to the privlaged elite and their lack of military involvment is delivered in a condescending style. The privlaged elite would benefit from military service is of no doubt. Again and again the authors refer to the potential of the children of the elite as officers. Not wasting their god given talent on anything as low as the common enlisted or junior NCO. As in the real world the implication is that the upper class should be proud to serve as long as they get to be the boss, God knows Paris Hilton has so much to offer in the way of leadership and disciplin. This may be a novel sugestion but perhaps the children of the ruling class could truly benefit from walking a mile in the boots of a grunt! This is a well written book and easy read, a lot of good information. Sadly the argument for service the writers use to support their thesis would not get a passing grade on the debate team at Harvard or Princton. Buy it, read it, and think about the content of the message. It's a good starting point that lacks the depth to consider it a finished policy.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted October 15, 2006

    Woodard has nothing on these guys

    It's important to get some perspective of the setting and political environment in which the current war and possible future wars exist. In a logical and easy to read fashion, the authors show why this is a serious issue and how this generation is worse off that others because so many of our politicians have neither served nor had family that served. A good read.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted June 2, 2006

    No Excuse for Not Reading This

    Let me start with my bias -- I am a friend of the author, Kathy Roth-Douquet. Knowing Kathy, I would read this book no matter what. But Kathy has not disappointed. AWOL is what should be the beginning of a national discussion on service. Kathy and her co-author, Frank Schaeffer, have set out a view of military service that is both personal and policy-oriented. Their personal committment makes the policy recommendations compelling. About the only shortcoming of the book is the absence of a thorough discussion of official gender discrimination within the military and how that may affect the attitudes of young women toward service. Overall, AWOL should be required reading for presidential candidates, policy makers, parents and voters. Our nation will be enriched by the discussion that follows.

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    Posted May 28, 2009

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