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The "baby bible" of the post-Dr. Spock generation, already embraced by hundreds of thousands of American parents, has now been revised, expanded, and brought thoroughly up-to-date — with the latest information on everything from diapering to day care, from midwifery to hospital birthing rooms, from postpartum nutrition to infant development. Dr. Bill and Martha Sears draw from their vast experience both as medical professionals and as the parents of eight children to provide comprehensive information on virtually every aspect of infant care. Working for the first time with their sons Dr. Bob and Dr. Jim, both pediatric specialists in their own right, the Searses have produced a completely updated guide that is unrivaled in its scope and authority. The Baby Book focuses on the essential needs of babies — cating, sleeping, development, health, and comfort — as it addresses the questions of greatest concern to today's parents. The Baby Book presents a practical, contemporary approach to parenting that reflects the way we live today. The Searses acknowledge that there is no one way to parent a baby, and they offer the basic guidance and inspiration you need to develop the parenting style that best suits you and your child. The Baby Book is a rich and invaluable resource that will help you get the most out of parenting — for your child, for yourself, and for your entire family.
Practical guide to nutrition, common illnesses, expected stages of growth, toilet training
Anonymous
Posted December 14, 2003
We bought our first copy of this book in 1996. I used it so much that the cover has fallen off and the book is in pieces, so I am planning on buying a replacement copy, as we are finally being blessed with a second child. I'm even getting a copy for one of my husband's sisters, who had a baby in May and always has lots of questions and concerns about what is okay and what is normal. It is hands-down the best, most loving, reasonable reference guide out there. You can look up just about anything and find it in there. The book addresses labor & delivery, tests, infant development, health questions, feeding questions, etc., etc., etc. Unlike the two people who had negative opinions of this book, I have nothing but glowing praise for it. YES the Searses advocate a certain kind of parenting, but that is simply the result of years of raising eight of their own children, including one adopted and one with Downs Syndrome (most of whom are now adults)...trying the 'old school' ways that well-meaning people had taught them... and knowledge that grew from Dr. Sears being a well-respected pediatrician who has really paid attention to his patients and their families. For those who think that attachment parenting will only make your child clingy, that opinion is really not right at all. This book was a relief to me, because I knew that some 'old school' advice was what stressed me out...what set off alarms in me (letting my baby cry himself to sleep being one of them). I loved this book because it put into writing the type of parenting we were hoping to do. The theory that meeting your child's needs, being affectionate, anticipating a hunger cry, etc. will make him/her more secure and independent, rather than clingy, is what we've found. We have an INCREDIBLY independent, smart, happy child. I'm sure if he'd spent his early years crying it out, then he'd be pretty clingy now. In fact, I've known some families who have adhered to the 'let them cry or they'll control you' mentality, and their children have been the ones who I've noticed are clingy, whiny and insecure. The thing about the Searses is that while they advocate certain things, they are completely understanding and supportive of parents making the choices that work for them. They NEVER said that someone who bottlefeeds instead of breastfeeds, or someone who really prefers for baby to be in a crib rather than being in bed with Mom & Dad, is a bad parent. Never once did they say that. What they DO say is that you have to follow your gut. What works for one family might not work for another. Even in the same family, what works for one child, might not work for another. There are no cookie cutter situations. THAT'S what the Searses say. They say that happy parents will make for happier kids, no matter what the parents choose to do (e.g. if a mom is stressed and unhappy breastfeeding, then it's better both for parent & baby for the baby to be bottlefed...if the parents are miserable with having baby in bed, then they're definitely all better off with baby in a crib, etc.) For us, some attachment parenting is what worked. The whole 'leave 'em in the playpen, let them cry it out, don't breastfeed too long or hold them too much because it'll all make them clingy' mentality is what stressed us out. NOT the idea that it's okay and good to hold our child a lot and that it really was acceptable for me to breastfeed our child for two years. So, I give the highest recommendations. The Searses might have beliefs about parenting that are grounded in their own experience and exposure, but they are understanding that not all their choices in parenting are what would work for others. Anyone who thinks that they don't recognize, and aren't respectful of parents doing what is right for them (regardless of whether it follows their recommendations) and for their families clearly didn't REALLY read what the Searses were trying to say. It's an EXCELLE
7 out of 8 people found this review helpful.
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Posted April 8, 2003
This book just added to my anxiety level as a new mother. It's expectations of parents are so high, that you feel bad if you let your baby cry for even a minute! Dr. Sears and his wife expect you to 'wear your baby' around all the time. It doesn't seem like a realistic approach to parenthood. If you want to feel guilty about what you're not doing correctly, read this book. Otherwise, love your baby and do the best you can without this book!
3 out of 7 people found this review helpful.
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Posted April 1, 2003
This is a book that will drive a new parent absolutely insane and elevate anxiety levels. The Sears' philospohy of 'attachment parenting' is sure to create many children who feel the world revolves around their every need. As parents, it is our responsibility to raise well-adjusted and happy people who trust others and contribute to a greater community. This book may help create insecure little children who become uncomfortable and miserable everytime their parents leave them, making them unpleasant to be around, and not allowing parents to live their lives. If you ever have gone to a restaurant and seen a stressed-out family with loud and boisterous kids who pay no attention to anything their parents are telling them, or know people who can never do anything because managing their children monopolizes every minute of the day, the children are probably being raised using the principles found in this book.
2 out of 11 people found this review helpful.
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Posted March 10, 2012
The "Drive Yourself Crazy" review below is COMPLETELY WRONG. Obviously the person writing it had no personal experience with attachment parenting but simply theorized that obnoxious kids were the result of attachment parenting which is exactly the opposite. My son was an incredibly well-behaved child who was the opposite of insecure and he's now a high-achieving teenager who was advanced a year in school and is now preparing for a school year abroad.
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Posted November 17, 2010
This book has some useful information in it regarding health and safety concerns for children, as well as feeding issues and things of that nature.
To me, that is where the usefulness of this book ends. Most of the book actually consists of lectures about a particular style of parenting that is not going to be right for everyone. The implicit message of the book is that you are not an adequate parent if you don't follow its advice. No new parent needs a 700-page guilt trip for wanting to take reasonable measures to teach their child to fit into the adult world and not vice versa. This does not mean forcing children to "cry it out" or "passing their children off to strangers" as some of the reviewers here assert. Believe me you can train your kids to be independent without being cruel. I can see how this advice was a meaningful corrective in the 1960's when the prevailing philosophy was that children should be seen but not heard, but at this point, it is outdated in my opinion.
Strangely, my family has some odd parallels with the Sears family. I am from a family of 8 children, my father is a doctor and my mother a nurse. I had several younger children that I helped take care of growing up, I worked as a babysitter and nanny throughout my childhood, adolescence, and college, and I have zillions of nieces and nephews that I am very close to and am now a parent myself. My mother--who is universally adored by children--would guffaw at the advice in this book because it makes no allowance for the parents having their own lives. Believe me, there are loving alternatives to what is presented in this book and you are not being cruel if you teach your children some independence. There are many ways to raise happy and healthy children and no one has a monopoly on that. So please do what works for you and your child and don't follow the unrealistic advice in this book if it doesn't work for you. And if it does work for you, that's fine too, just please spare everyone else the lectures. I recommend the Baby Whisperer books for those looking for advice about how to parent while preserving your sanity.
1 out of 3 people found this review helpful.
Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.I bought this book in anticipation of my first child... Now that she is here, I find it to be a helpful reference for many of my smaller questions. The only drawback I found was the lack of situations dealing with premature babies, of which I am a parent. Otherwise, it is truly helpful and I plan on keeping it handy for babies in the future.
1 out of 2 people found this review helpful.
Was this review helpful? Yes NoThank you for your feedback. Report this reviewThank you, this review has been flagged.I consider this book a great resource and reference. There's good advice here on many subjects and it should come in handy, especially for first-time mommies. Temper the book with your own beliefs and common sense. You'll be successful.
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Posted December 26, 2012
i think maybe you can READtis book cauase its a realy goodd book
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Posted June 20, 2012
I got the wrong book i meant to get a book for my little sister and accidemtaly got the wrong book
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Posted May 12, 2012
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Posted April 15, 2012
Im searching for a book that will help me bcome a better babysitter. Although when i found this book it didnt help at all. If you find any bopks that can help me become a better babysitter or any books on babysitting a newborn plz tell me.
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Posted February 3, 2012
I was given this book as a gift at my baby shower. I have found this book so helpful. I brought home my premature daughter and had found that I had tons of simple questions that I needed answers or reassurance about what I was doing. This book has been great and resourceful. I think everyone should have a copy of this book in their collection. These authors are proponets of the attachment parenting method, which I practice, but even if you are not the general medical information will be very helpful.
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Posted April 8, 2010
Bought this for my son and daughter in-law as their own guide. They love it and it helps answer all of those little questions new parents have! It is the "Dr Spock" of the new generation.
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Posted June 29, 2009
This is a must-have for every new mom. There is great information about every baby related topic you can think of. If you are debating about whether or not to purchase this book, go ahead, do it...you will not be disappointed!
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Posted June 16, 2009
It is because of THIS book that I know my son so well now (he is 14 months now) and I still use it for sooooo many things still (ear infections, dosage of Tylenol, tips on things to feed him,... etc).
For the first 4 months after my son was born, I had the book with me at all times. My son had reflux, and it is because of this book that we identified it.
I follow pretty much every advice they give, and it has worked GREAT!
Anonymous
Posted May 24, 2009
Anytime I have concerns about my baby I can find answers in this book. It has a special section for high-need babies which was just the information we needed and couln't find anywhere else.
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Posted April 13, 2009
I used a 1990's edition of this book to help me raise my two children. Both turned out just great! I had even written one of the authors, who responded with a lengthy letter and included her phone number. I did end up calling and Martha Sears couldn't have been more helpful. Jam-packed with common sense and great tips. I buy these books for expectant mothers now.
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Posted March 30, 2009
One of the best and most informative books I have read. I have a 5 and 1/2 month baby boy, and have learned a lot about his development. It is like my "Bible."
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Posted March 23, 2009
I have used this book over the years and still find it to be interesting, informative, and convenient regarding specific topic searches. I have recommended this book and have even given it to friends when they became pregnant. I truly prefer this book other my other baby-related books (and we have quite a collection).
So A+ for this excellent resource :).
MommysaysGoDuke
Posted February 16, 2009
This is a fantastic comprehensive resource for parents-to-be and new parents. The Sears' style is easy and enjoyable to read. Provides good preparatory information, good info on breastfeeding (as well as bottle feeding and solid foods), stage-by-stage developmental information, easy-to-reference section on common childhood illnesses (including what to do) and an overall holistic guide to parenting your infant/toddler. A great resource on attachment parenting and treating your baby like a growing person with feelings, not an animal to be trained. The emphasis throughout is on developing a healthy relationship with your child that will enable your child to feel secure and loved so he or she can go forth to discover, explore and grow to his or her potential. A great gift for new parents (gets dad in the act, too!). Great resource for adoptive and foster parents, too!
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Overview
The "baby bible" of the post-Dr. Spock generation, already embraced by hundreds of thousands of American parents, has now been revised, expanded, and brought thoroughly up-to-date — with the latest information on everything from diapering to day care, from midwifery to hospital birthing rooms, from postpartum nutrition to infant development. Dr. Bill and Martha Sears draw from their vast experience both as medical professionals and as the parents of eight children to provide comprehensive information on virtually...