Becoming a Conflict Competent Leader: How You and Your Organization Can Manage Conflict Effectively / Edition 2

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Dealing effectively with conflict is difficult for any leader. Poorly managed conflict creates enormous costs in the form of wasted management time, high turnover, and lawsuits, not to mention the failure to leverage the naturally occurring differences that can drive creativity, innovation, and invention. How can leaders develop the skills to get the best out of conflict?

The second edition of Becoming a Conflict Competent Leader shows leaders how to implement constructive approaches to conflict while avoiding strategies that lead to destructive outcomes. The book combines research, conceptual models, practitioner experience, and stories that highlight the core conflict competencies. Authors Tim Flanagan and Craig Runde describe constructive behaviors and proven approaches that leaders can employ, tactics and reactions to avoid, and insights for ensuring that organizational structures support positive approaches to conflict management and resolution.

The revised edition of this classic resource features two completely new chapters: one that addresses the Cool Down, Slow Down and Reflect, and Engage Constructively model and one that offers guidance for conflict in teams. The authors have updated examples throughout the book, added references to recent research, and included a new constructive behavior, Listening for Understanding, along with many new suggestions for "staying in the zone." Other enhancements, such as tips and exercises at the end of each chapter, make this edition user friendly as a personal resource or a text for teaching others.

Keep up with new developments in conflict competent leadership at the authors' Web site:

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Editorial Reviews

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"… an excellent read for managers, executive, and other type of leaders who want to develop their skills and competencies." (Dispute Resolution Journal, Jul-Sep 2007)
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781118370421
  • Publisher: Wiley
  • Publication date: 12/26/2012
  • Series: J-B CCL (Center for Creative Leadership) Series, #171
  • Edition description: New Edition
  • Edition number: 2
  • Pages: 320
  • Sales rank: 389,505
  • Product dimensions: 6.30 (w) x 9.10 (h) x 1.20 (d)

Meet the Author

Craig E. Runde is director of the Center for Conflict Dynamics at Eckerd College, St. Petersburg, Florida.

Tim A. Flanagan is co-owner of Custom Leadership Solutions, St.

Petersburg, Florida, and senior fellow at the Center for Conflict Dynamics.

They are the coauthors of the first edition of Becoming a Conflict Competent Leader, Building Conflict Competent Teams, and Developing Your Conflict Competence.

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Table of Contents

Preface to the Second Edition ix

1. The What and Why of Confl ict Competent Leaders 1

2. Understanding the Dynamics of Confl ict and Your Responses to It 25

3. Cool Down: Managing Your Emotions 67

4. Slow Down and Refl ect: Taking Time to Consider What Is Happening 83

5. Preventing Destructive Responses to Confl ict 97

6. Fostering Constructive Responses to Confl ict 155

7. Developing and Leading Confl ict Competent Teams 223

8. Creating Confl ict Competent Organizations 251

Epilogue 271

Resources 275

References 279

The Authors 285

Index 287

About the Center for Creative Leadership 297

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