Beyond the Big Talk Revised Edition: A Parent's Guide to Raising Sexually Healthy Teens - From Middle School to High School and Beyond

Beyond the Big Talk Revised Edition: A Parent's Guide to Raising Sexually Healthy Teens - From Middle School to High School and Beyond

Beyond the Big Talk Revised Edition: A Parent's Guide to Raising Sexually Healthy Teens - From Middle School to High School and Beyond

Beyond the Big Talk Revised Edition: A Parent's Guide to Raising Sexually Healthy Teens - From Middle School to High School and Beyond

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Overview

As featured in Newsweek, Time, USA Today, and on Oprah, Dateline NBC, MTV and 20/20, this leading sexuality educator now helps parents guide their children through the difficult adolescent years—from the author of From Diapers to Dating.

Debra Haffner's valuable, award-winning book first book on raising sexually healthy children, From Diapers to Dating, helps parents through the infant-to-age-12 period. Her sequel, Beyond the Big Talk, now guides them through the difficult adolescent years, when they are likely to confront such issues as peer pressure, dating and parties, alcohol and drugs, harassment, abstinence, and much more. Organized by age group—middle school (grades seven and eight), early high school (grades nine and ten), late high school (grades eleven and twelve), and beyond (ages 18 and up), each section provides:

  • "Values Exercises" to help parents decide their own beliefs on various topics, and how to communicate them to their teen.
  • "Special Issues" advice on topics such as eating disorders, date rape, sexual violence, and dealing with your teen's questions about your own sexual history.
  • Advice on finding "teachable moments" with your teens—entry points into discussions on important topics in television, in the movies, and in your daily lives.

A frank and supportive foreword by Haffner's teen-age daughter, Alyssa, gives a young person's perspective on the challenges teens face every day. An extensive Appendix offers a wealth of books, websites, and organizations for both teens and their parents.

In her trademark "realistic, practical, and informative" style (Kirkus Reviews), Haffner's values-oriented approach is an invaluable resource to both parents and children.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781557048660
Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers
Publication date: 07/21/2009
Sold by: HARPERCOLLINS
Format: eBook
Pages: 256
File size: 345 KB

About the Author

Debra W. Haffner has been a parenting educator for more than twenty-five years, regularly speaks to parent groups across the country, and appears frequently on national TV, including CNN, Today, and The O'Reilly Factor. She holds a Master's in Public Health from Yale University School of Medicine and a Master of Divinity from Union Theological Seminary. She is an ordained minister with the Unitarian Church in Westport, Connecticut.

Table of Contents


Acknowledgments     viii
Introduction to the Revised Edition     xi
Foreword   Alyssa Haffner Tartaglione     xiii
The Basics     1
Sexually Healthy Families     6
"Good Kids"     9
Adult Amnesia     15
Communication Tips     19
Tips for Parents     42
Adolescence: An Introduction     45
The Five I's of Adolescent Development     49
Early Adolescence     57
Middle Adolescence     65
Late Adolescence     69
The Middle School Years     73
Starting Middle School     73
How Much Pressure is Peer Pressure     76
Going Together     82
Sex and the Middle School Teen     83
Boy-Girl Parties and School Dances     87
Unsupervised Time     90
"How Come He's in the Bathroom AGain?     93
Erotica and the Middle School Child     96
It's Time to Leave the Baby Doctor's Office     98
Special Issue
"How Old Were You When You First Had Sex, Mom?"     100
Starting High School: Ninth and Tenth Grades     105
Starting High School     105
SexualBehavior: What to Expect     107
Helping Your Teen Set Sexual Limits     110
Parties     116
Alcohol and Drugs     119
Date Rape Drugs     122
The Media     125
The Internet     129
Dealing With Sexual Harassment in Schools     133
Special Issue
Preventing Eating Disorders     137
Late High School: Eleventh and Twelfth Grades     145
Staying Connected     145
First Love     147
Sexual Behavior: What to Expect     153
Talking about Contraception and STD Prevention     160
Other Methods of Birth Control     166
Finding Condoms or Pills in Your Teen's Room     169
"Mom, I Think I'm Pregnant"     171
"Dad, I Think I'm Gay"     181
Leaving High School     188
Special Issue
Helping Your Teen Avoid Date Rape and Violence     189
Beyond High School, Ages 18-21     195
Your Almost Adult Child     195
Preparing Your Child (and Yourself) for College     197
The Late Adolescent Who Lives at Home     201
Sexual Behavior: What to Expect     202
Relationships     207
"But You Know We Sleep Together"     209
Teens Who Are Transgender     212
Perspective     216
Afterword     219
Sources for More Information     223
Books for Teens     224
Websites on Adolescent Sexuality     224
Websites on General Adolescent Topics     227
Websites on Specific Issues     228
National Toll-Free Hotline Numbers     229
References     231
Index     237
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