A must-read for anyone involved in the childbirth process!
I first read this book when my best friend of 18 years and her husband asked me to be their labor coach. It was a great honor and a life-changing experience. To be involved in a miraculous moment where a couple becomes a family was unforgettable, and I will never forget the joy they experienced as they welcomed their daughter into the world. Of course, given I have not yet experience pregnancy (or birth), I had a lot to learn! And this is where I started.
Penny Simkin's instructive guide, The Birth Partner, is an excellent way for ANYONE to gain insight into the birth process. The book is broken down into 4 parts: Before the Birth, Labor and Birth, The Medical Side of Childbirth, and After the Birth. As a first-timer to the childbirth scene, I found the information in this book easy to understand, yet thorough enough for a detail-oriented person like me.
The Birth Partner will prepare anyone (spouse, partner, friend or parent) to be the calm, supportive, comforting constant the mother-to-be will need throughout the pregnancy, labor and birth process. You will learn what to expect during this process, including:
- Explanation of a Birth Plan
- Supplies you will need for the hospital
- Signs of labor
- Timing contractions
- When you should go to the hospital
- The stages of labor
- Different types of labor (slow, fast, emergency)
- Comfort measures
- How to relieve backaches
- Positions and movements for labor
- Medical procedures, tests, etc.
- Potential problems
- Pain medications (labor both with and without)
- How to handle an emergency delivery if you can't make it to the hospital (a must read!), and much more
Personally, I was happy to know how to handle things in the emergency "It's too late to make it" situation! I think everyone wants to be prepared for this, and this book clearly outlines what to do, including a bulleted list and high-level first aid advice (my favorite bullet: "Catch the baby.")
This book provides clear tables and graphics that make it easy to review and prepare. The graphics in this book are primarily illustrations and are not graphic in nature. Simkin also highlights how you, the mother and the caregiver might feel throughout the process, which encourages you to think ahead and begin to imagine the experience.
I highly recommend this book for anyone who will be involved in the birth of a child. Rest assured, when my husband and I take that next step and start a family of our own, this book will absolutely be required reading!
(NOTE: My review is based on the second edition of this book.)
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Overview
Since the original publication of The Birth Partner in 1989, new mothers’ mates, friends, and relatives and doulas (professional birth assistants) have relied on Penny Simkin’s guidance in caring for the new mother from the last few weeks of pregnancy through the early postpartum period. Fully revised in its third edition, The Birth Partner remains the definitive guide for preparing to help a woman through childbirth and the essential manual to have at hand during the event.
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