Black Sheep And Kissing Cousins / Edition 1

Black Sheep And Kissing Cousins / Edition 1

by John R. Hall
     
 

When someone says, at a holiday dinner table, “Oh, those Lawrence cousins lose control all the time,” or the Davises always had more talent than luck,” you can be sure there’s a lesson being passed along, from one generation to another. Who tells stories to whom and about what is never a random matter.

Our family stories have a secret

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Overview

When someone says, at a holiday dinner table, “Oh, those Lawrence cousins lose control all the time,” or the Davises always had more talent than luck,” you can be sure there’s a lesson being passed along, from one generation to another. Who tells stories to whom and about what is never a random matter.

Our family stories have a secret power: they play a unique role in shaping our identity and our sense of our place in the world. They give us values, inspirations, warnings, and incentives. We need them. We use them. We keep them. They reverberate throughout our lives, affecting our choices in love, work, friendship, and lifestyle.

Elizabeth Stone, whose grandparents came from Italy to Brooklyn, artfully weaves her own family stories among the stories of more than a hundred people of all backgrounds, ages, and regions—clarifying for us predictable types of family legends, providing ways to interpret our own stories and their roles in our lives. She examines stories of birth, death, work, money, and romantic adventure—all in the context of the family storytelling ritual. And she shows how stories about our most ancient ancestors may provide answers at milestone moments in our lives, as well as how stories about our newest family members carve out places for them so that they will fit into their families, comfortably or otherwise.

Upon its initial publication in 1988, Studs Terkel said that the book is “A wholly original approach to an ancient theme: family storytelling and its lasting mark on the individual.” Judy Collins noted that “Elizabeth Stone’s marvelous book on family myths and fables is irresistible. It lets us in on our own secrets in a provocative and exciting way.” And Maggie Scarf wrote, “What a clever topic, and how beautifully Elizabeth Stone has written about it! I recommend Black Sheep and Kissing Cousins for everyone who has ever been raised in a family.”

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Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780765805881
Publisher:
Transaction Publishers
Publication date:
05/01/2004
Edition description:
New Introduction Edition
Pages:
284
Sales rank:
1,306,812
Product dimensions:
6.00(w) x 9.00(h) x 0.64(d)

Table of Contents

Transaction introduction
Acknowledgments
Introduction3
Ch. 1Family ground rules15
Ch. 2Family definitions32
Ch. 3Family monuments48
Ch. 4Underground rules75
Ch. 5Family myths96
Ch. 6The pecking order and how to survive it111
Ch. 7Of money, self-worth, and lost fortunes146
Ch. 8Legacies165
Ch. 9Fairy godmothers and patron saints196
Ch. 10In pursuit of freedom220
Notes245

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