Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex

Bonk: The Curious Coupling Of Sex And Science

Reading science writer Mary Roach is always a pleasure and this new book is no different. The Californian journalist surely has an eye for quirky and the downright sensational. In 2003, she ventured into the fate of dead bodies in her hit book Stiff: The Curious Lives Of Human Cadavers. After that, she wrote on theories of the soul in Six Feet Over: Adventures In The Afterlife. This time, she has outdone herself with the sexiest topic of all: well, sex itself. She takes a romp through all the history of the study of sexual physiology, tackling questions such as: Can you have an orgasm just by using your head? Why doesn't Viagra help women? Is the clitoris a tiny penis? Roach takes these juicy topics head on with painstaking research - just look at the endless entertaining footnotes - and intrepid excursions to meet some interesting personalities. For example, there is the visit to a Danish pig farm to observe farmers enhancing sow pleasure during artificial insemination for better results. She also goes to Taiwan to speak to a doctor who specializes in penis surgery. In another chapter, she and her husband volunteer as subjects in an experiment to capture a real-time image of human intercourse. Her husband chats to the officer during the observed sex to diffuse the tension while Roach takes notes. Her quip? 'I feel like a secretary in a ribald French comedy.' Indeed, it is Roach's eye for comedy and oddball interests that drive the book at a spry pace. The journey is entertaining and enlightening. Critics have said that her cleverness is a mask for bad organization and her smirky tone is a general turn-off. But one feels that real warmth and sympathy do come through in the book and Roach shows respect for research scientists who, in her words, 'endure ignorance, closed minds, righteousness and prudery'. 'Their lives are not easy. But their cocktail parties are the best.' We should not quarrel with a voice like that.

3 out of 3 people found this review helpful.

Excellent coupling

While the title certainly seems titilating, the book swings from funny to gross to amazing to unbelievable, and back again, too often to notice there's not much here for those seeking a cheap thrill.

Instead, expect to find a new appreciation for those bold enough to study what are often taboo subjects, and she who was bold enough to write about them.

1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

The best book anot sex and it was not dirty

Ihave to tip my hat to mary roach for this book. I like the way she talked about sex in a way that was funny as well as informative. I will say this book opened my eyes in more eays than one. This is a must read, its not for kids but one book that will stick with you for awhile

1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

Sex, sex, sex, and, oh yeah, science

Saw Mary Roach on The Daily Show with Jon Stewart (she was a riot!) and bought all her books to read. "Bonk" (as in 'he bonked her') is about sex and the science practiced on the subject over the past 150 years. Somehow Roach found just about every scientific and medical experiment and study done on anything to do with sex and digested them all into this brief book (it could have been volumes.) She goes with the best stuff, the weird and funny stuff, and throws in her own wit and sometimes gross humor. The things some people have done in the name of research is mind-blowing. The 'results' are fascinating. Roach's take on it all makes you laugh out loud. I learned a few things, too. I might mention that we also saw Mary Roach give a TED lecture some time ago on the subject of orgasms. A 15 minute digest on the topic for the TED annual convention (you can find it and watch it on the TED web site). That, too, was a riot! And, unless you're a prude, you'll probably love this book and the lecture.

1 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

Check it out!

Great read! The science behind sex in less "weird" way!

Little know information delivered in an enjoyable read

Not as well put together book as her work "Stiff" but still a good read. A semi-random collection of little know information about ... well, Bonking. But, it doesn't read as crisply as her other works. A bit disjointed and jumps around to different topics. None the less, good stuff.

Skip the Book; Just Bonk Instead

I had high expectations for this book. I was disappointed.

The author is adventurous, and I'd probably like to meet her for dinner sometime. She participated in a number of the experiments she described in the book, so her presence was, naturally, mandatory. However, when she was giving a historical background or explaining something second- or third-hand, she inserted herself (pun intended) far too much. I didn't need to hear her quip about the news that Alfred Kinsey enjoyed sounding* with a toothbrush; my reaction was quite enough!

That said, I found the mini-history lessons far superior to any of the stories about what's going on currently in laboratories and operating rooms around the world. I also learned... something, I'm sure. What, I couldn't say.

Bottom line: I'll check out her other book, Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers (about dead bodies, and not about what it sounds like in this context), but I wouldn't go around recommending this to others.

(*I chose to use the slang here for an action that Ms. Roach describes in anatomical detail. I did this hoping that everyone who doesn't know what this is will not look it up. I didn't do an internet search for it, but I can assure you that it's definitely NSFW.)

0 out of 2 people found this review helpful.

Could also have been titled 'Stiff'

I read this book in 2 sittings. Just like the last 2 books, it's laugh out loud funny and it's full of 'who would have thought of that' information. My friends think I'm weird for reading Mary Roach's books but they've been enlightened many times over by what I've learned, especially from Bonk. The funniest chapter title is 'The lady penis'.
The author knows how to write about science and make it fun and approachable. The fact that she participates in some of the experiments makes it even more hilarious. You'll love it.

Fun and educational read

Mary Roach's book is a fun, quirky, entertaining exploration of sex science. It includes lots of interesting facts and stories.

0 out of 1 people found this review helpful.

Sex!!

Covers some of the more unusual and lesser known tidbits about both animal and human sex. It is not comprehensive but it was intended to be more about a few specifics than a complete encyclopedia. Well-written and detailed like her earlier books.

Great read!

I've read every one of Mary Roach's books, and I recommend them all. She deals with often taboo subjects like religion, death, and sex with a no nonsense approach that is very refreshing, humorous, entertaining and definitely educational.
I have bought every one of her books at least twice. One for me, and one for a friend as a gift. So far I have bought three copies of Stiff, my favorite so far of all of her books.

A Hit

As a fan of Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers(less so of Spook: Science Tackles the Afterlife. I received this book as a Christmas gift and read it over the course of a single day. Mary Roach has certainly scratched my itch for strange and unusual topics.

I found this to be a very brave book on her part. The willingness to lift the corner of the curtain and to even at times participate herself revealed the passion for her work as an author. In addition, as with Stiff and Spook, her writing style has just the right touch.

I don't know the subject of her current research but I will be standing in line to buy it.

Michael L. Gooch, Author of Wingtips with Spurs

PLEASE Read

After reading Stiff i couldn't wait to read another book by Mary Roach. This book, however, is a little slow at some points but it still is very interesting and funny. Sometimes i even blushed while laughing at some of her comments she made... I would look around as if people could tell what i was laughing about. I've told my friends about this book and most are eager to read it.

A great blend of science and oddities

Ignore the other reviewer - this book is full of fascinating, sometimes funny and sometimes cringe-worthy information.

(yawn)

I enjoyed reading Mary Roach's earlier book, ¿Stiff¿, which was an entertaining and informative romp through the history of scientists' uses of cadavers. Granted, it was informative in the way that trivia questions are ¿ fun to discuss over cocktails, but not really helpful to know. Still, it is interesting to pause and think about aspects of life ¿ or death ¿ that usually are beyond our concern. So, I was intrigued by ¿Bonk¿ I expected Mary Roach would easily rise to the challenge. She never quite got it up. Sure, it was informative. But after reading about one too many sex experiments involving primates, the thrill was gone. Since the subject became dull rather quickly, Roach filled the text with too many jokes ¿ and some of them fell flat. 'Some of them were downright nasty, such as the footnote in chapter 9 about a young boy being killed in an MRI machine. What could possibly be funny about that?' After a while, the forced humor and repetition of sex talk reminded me of 5th grade locker room conversation. She also tried to make the text interesting by giving the reader portraits of the scientists involved in the research. The caricatures were either too silly or too scary for the latter, she had to repeatedly make an effort to defend them as real scientists, not voyeurs. Adding these characters to the locker room talk and lame humor hardly made for an entertaining read. You can only try to be funny about body parts for so long, before the reader just starts wishing Roach would hurry up and finish. The stories that could have been interesting, such as when she relates her own involvement in some of the more tame experiments, are about as titillating as a cold shower. Worse than that, the book doesn't seem to go anywhere. The reader is up to the eyeballs in scientists and genitals, but there seems to be no point to the story, except to say that there have been some scientists that have been interested in genitals. Well, isn't that a thrilling thesis? In the end, I was reminded of something that Raymond Chandler wrote, comparing alcohol to love: ¿The first kiss is magic, the second is intimate, the third is routine. After that you take the girl's clothes off.¿ In ¿Bonk¿, the preface ¿ entitled 'foreplay', of course ¿ draws you in. You'll read a chapter or two, but then you'll wish you'd said, ¿Not tonight, dear I have a headache.¿ It's just routine ¿ and if the author isn't going to try to make it interesting and new, then the reader might as well just roll over and get some sleep. At least you'll still respect yourself in the morning.

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