Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto

Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto

by Zachary Zane
Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto

Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto

by Zachary Zane


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Named a Most Anticipated LGBTQ+ Book of the Year by Buzzfeed

"Zachary Zane is one of the best sex writers working today."—DAN SAVAGE 
A sex and relationship columnist bares it all in a series of essays—part memoir, part manifesto—that explore the author’s coming-of-age and coming out as a bisexual man and move toward embracing and celebrating sex unencumbered by shame

As a boy, Zachary Zane sensed that all was not right when images of his therapist naked popped into his head. Without an explanation as to why, a deep sense of shame pervaded these thoughts. Though his therapist assured him a little imagination was nothing to be ashamed of, over the years, society told him otherwise.
Boyslut is a series of personal and tantalizing essays that articulate how our society still shames people for the sex that they have and the sexualities that they inhabit. Through the lens of his bisexuality and much self-described sluttiness, Zane breaks down exactly how this sexual shame negatively impacts the sex and relationships in our lives, and through personal experience, shares how we can unlearn the harmful, entrenched messages that society imparts to us.
From stories of drug-fueled threesomes and risqué Grindr hookups to insights on dealing with rejection and living with his boyfriend and his wife, Boyslut is reassuring and often painfully funny—but is most potently a testimony that we can all learn to live healthier lives unburdened by stigma.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781647008338
Publisher: ABRAMS
Publication date: 05/09/2023
Sold by: Barnes & Noble
Format: eBook
Pages: 240
Sales rank: 133,193
File size: 806 KB

About the Author

Zachary Zane is the sex and relationship columnist for Men’s Health, where he writes “Sexplain Itand answers a diverse range of questions pertaining to masculinity, ethical non-monogamy, sexual insecurities, and the LGBTQ community. He and his work have appeared in outlets such as the New York Times, Vice, GQ, Rolling Stone, The Advocate, The Tamron Hall Show, and Nightline. Zane holds partnerships with Grindr, Scruff, and Pornhub, and is currently in development on a TV show that explores sex across the United States. He lives in Brooklyn.

What People are Saying About This

national bestselling author R. ERIC THOMAS

“Zachary is so adept at creating and maintaining exuberant and generative community in spaces that typically feel isolating or forbidding. In the same way, his writing is an invitation that bridges divides. I live for his verve, his no-holds-barred revelations, and his wisdom.”

national bestselling author JACOB TOBIA

“As charming as it is singular, Zachary's voice is one that is sorely needed in culture. His honesty, candor, analysis, and erotic chaos are a blessing to us all.”

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