Bright Kids Who Can't Keep Up: Help Your Child Overcome Slow Processing Speed and Succeed in a Fast-Paced World

Bright Kids Who Can't Keep Up: Help Your Child Overcome Slow Processing Speed and Succeed in a Fast-Paced World

Bright Kids Who Can't Keep Up: Help Your Child Overcome Slow Processing Speed and Succeed in a Fast-Paced World

Bright Kids Who Can't Keep Up: Help Your Child Overcome Slow Processing Speed and Succeed in a Fast-Paced World

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Overview

Do you find yourself constantly asking your child to "pick up the pace"? Does he or she seem to take longer than others to get stuff done—whether completing homework, responding when spoken to, or getting dressed and ready in the morning? Drs. Ellen Braaten and Brian Willoughby have worked with thousands of kids and teens who struggle with an area of cognitive functioning called "processing speed," and who are often mislabeled as lazy or unmotivated. Filled with vivid stories and examples, this crucial resource demystifies processing speed and shows how to help kids (ages 5 to 18) catch up in this key area of development. Helpful practical tools can be downloaded and printed in a convenient 8 1/2" x 11" size. Learn how to obtain needed support at school, what to expect from a professional evaluation, and how you can make daily routines more efficient—while promoting your child's social and emotional well-being.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781609184728
Publisher: Guilford Publications, Inc.
Publication date: 07/18/2014
Pages: 207
Sales rank: 435,596
Product dimensions: 5.90(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.70(d)

About the Author

Ellen Braaten, PhD, is Director of the Learning and Emotional Assessment Program (LEAP) at Massachusetts General Hospital and Assistant Professor of Psychology at Harvard Medical School. The coauthor of Straight Talk about Psychological Testing for Kids, Dr. Braaten lives with her family in Boston.

Brian Willoughby, PhD, is a Staff Psychologist at LEAP and a faculty member at Harvard Medical School. Dr. Willoughby specializes in neuropsychological assessments of children and adolescents with learning, developmental, and emotional concerns. He is married and lives in Boston.

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Bright Kids Who Can't Keep Up

Help Your Child Overcome Slow Processing Speed and Succeed in a Fast-Paced World


By Ellen Braaten, Brian Willoughby

The Guilford Press

Copyright © 2014 The Guilford Press
All rights reserved.
ISBN: 978-1-60918-472-8



CHAPTER 1

"If My Kid Is So Smart, Why Is He So Slow?"


"I can see why everyone is so frustrated with Dennis, because I'm frustrated with him too! He can't get anything done on time. Whether it's his homework, putting on his shoes, or taking down a phone message, he can't get it done! If I didn't know him so well, I'd think he just didn't care, but I know he does. In fact, he cares a lot. He just doesn't know how to get motivated or get started. His dad thinks he's just lazy, and I have to admit it does seem like that, but I know he would do things faster if he could. He has great ideas and will talk about how excited he is about writing a paper for his history class, but then when it comes time to actually do it, he just sits there, seemingly paralyzed with fear—or maybe just daydreaming—I don't know! If he didn't care about the work, he wouldn't be so excited about the topic, right? I try to help him get started by telling him to copy down some ideas on notecards, but it takes him forever to find the information in the book and even longer to just copy it down. It seems he's been like this since he was born. Even in first grade, when he had to just copy—only copy—his spelling words, it would take him 10 times as long as it should have. His father thinks he's lazy, his teachers think he just doesn't care, and I'm spending my life yelling at him to get things done. How did we get into this mess?"


Some kids are naturally fast. They run, talk, draw, and do all sorts of things at a rate that seems appropriate for their age. Other kids don't, or perhaps it would be fairer to say they can't. These are kids who may have what are called processing speed deficits. Information processing speed is a term that is frequently used in the field of neuropsychology and is used increasingly in the fields of education and child development. As you'll discover in the next few chapters, it is a term that refers to a complex process and so is defined and measured in many ways. It also can't be understood in isolation from other areas of thinking, such as language, memory, or attention.

In general, though, processing speed involves one or more of the following functions: the amount of time it takes to perceive information (this can be through any of the senses, but usually through the visual and auditory channels), process information, and/or formulate or enact a response. Another way to define processing speed is to say it's the time required to perform an intellectual task or the amount of work that can be completed with a certain period of time. Even more simply, processing speed could be defined as how long it takes to get stuff done.

Because we place such a high value on doing things quickly in our culture, it can be difficult to live with a nervous system that needs more time to process information. Kids and adults who are slower at these types of processing tasks are sometimes assumed to be lacking in intelligence, but this really isn't the case. However, processing speed does interact with other areas of cognitive functioning by negatively impacting the ability to quickly come up with an answer, retrieve information from long-term memory, and remember what you're supposed to be doing at a given time. In other words, it's possible that someone with slow processing speed will, as a result, be impaired in other areas of thinking and may even score lower on tests of intelligence (more about this area in the next chapter), but this isn't necessarily the case, since being cognitively compromised in one area isn't the same as being less intelligent overall.

For example, Dennis was actually a very intelligent kid, with a Verbal IQ in the 90th percentile of kids his age, even though his actions and thought processes seemed so slow. Dennis's slow output seems to be disconnected from his natural intellect, which creates the assumption that he's just not capable of completing even simple homework tasks such as copying his weekly spelling words.

Dennis's family has endured countless episodes where his lack of productivity has made their daily life a constant battleground. Many of the instances at home involve homework and chore completion. Often Dennis will just shrug his shoulders when he has disappointed his parents by not doing something they've asked him to do, but other times he reacts angrily and tells them they just don't "get it." "You think I can do this, but I can't!" is a frequent retort.

One mental health professional told Dennis's parents that he possibly had something called oppositional defiant disorder; another said he exhibited symptoms of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), and still another said to just "let it go" because he was just "being a boy." Dennis's teacher and the school psychologist thought it could be a "processing problem," but they never explained what that meant or how they had come to that conclusion.

Dennis's parents didn't think any of these labels or explanations fit perfectly or captured the upheaval, turmoil, and trauma created by Dennis's inability to complete work in a timely fashion. His inability to finish his homework required constant vigilance and enormous energy from his parents. The effort his parents spent trying to help him get things done created even more resentment from his siblings. His parents were constantly fighting over how to handle his difficulties. They felt angry, frustrated, overwhelmed, worn out, and hopeless—and they had no idea what to do or where to turn.


"SO HOW DO I KNOW THAT MY CHILD HAS A SLOW PROCESSING SPEED?"

Perhaps you picked up this book because you have a child like Dennis, or perhaps the idea of a child being smart but unable to keep up resonated with you. Perhaps you've sought help from mental health or school professionals, some of whom might have advised making sure your child gets enough sleep, eats a better breakfast, "comes to school ready to learn," or that you be more consistent in managing your child's behavior. Perhaps you've tried all of those suggestions. Perhaps you didn't need to because you knew it wasn't just a sleep or motivational issue but something else about your child's learning or cognitive style that had yet to be explained.

True processing speed deficits should be evaluated through a formal assessment by a professional such as a psychologist, as they are usually an indication of another underlying problem, the most common being attention problems. A diagnosis of the inattentive subtype of ADHD often comes with slow processing speed, although that's not always the case.

The second largest category of children with processing speed deficits are those with learning disabilities, such as dyslexia, nonverbal learning disabilities, language-based learning disabilities, and autism spectrum disorders (including pervasive developmental disorder and Asperger syndrome). Although processing speed deficits are not the underlying cause of the learning disability, many children with learning and developmental issues exhibit processing speed deficits as part of their cognitive profile.

Other children who may suffer from more transient processing speed deficits are those with psychological issues such as depression, anxiety, or psychosocial stressors (such as the loss of a parent). Children in this category may show processing speed problems only when their symptoms of depression are severe enough that they can't get things done or when they are so anxious that their perfectionistic tendencies make them complete work extremely slowly.

A final category of children are those who don't fall into any of these categories, but who perform poorly on all (or at least most) timed tests as compared to untimed tests. This category of children has in the past sometimes been diagnosed with something called a "learning disorder, not otherwise specified (processing speed deficits)." More recent terminology may refer to it as a learning disability with a specific impairment in reading, writing, or math fluency. In most of these cases, the diagnosis has been made by a licensed professional, most likely a psychologist, after formal testing has been completed. If your child has not had a thorough evaluation, consider the pros and cons of pursuing an evaluation that are explored in Chapter 2.

The entire first section of this book is devoted to helping you understand the importance of processing speed, what it is, and how it affects your and your child's lives. What we've found is that dealing more effectively with processing speed deficits first and foremost requires an understanding of what it is. Once you understand that it isn't always in your child's control to be the quickest one in the family—and once you have a better sense as to why your child behaves as she does—the strategies for helping her become clearer. In some cases, just understanding your child's deficits can lead to improvements in your child's life (particularly in her relationship with you) even before you try some of the strategies outlined in this book.

The middle section of the book helps you think about how processing speed deficits specifically impact your child in particular environments and what you can do to help. We'll also discuss the unfortunate emotional toll this deficit takes on kids who can't keep up and how to lessen the impact of anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem often caused by slow processing speed. In the third section, we bring it all together and show what a full evaluation looks like, using a few typical examples, and what types of recommendations might flow from a thorough assessment. We also tell you where to go for more information from websites and books that can fill in the gaps. Throughout the book you'll read about strategies that have been helpful to many of the children, families, and teachers with whom we've worked over the years.

Although processing speed may vary as a function of a child's age and underlying issue, most cases do share some common threads that contribute to difficulties at school and home, such as slow reading and writing, slow response to requests or questions (even those as simple as "What do you want for breakfast?"), poor memory recall, and slow completion of work. When these issues go untreated, it can sometimes lead a child to avoid homework or, in extreme cases, avoid school altogether. These children may appear unmotivated, sluggish, apathetic, and with low energy. Even getting started on tasks is difficult for them. When they have trouble sustaining attention at school or in meetings, they may drift into daydreams, stare blankly into space, or even sleep. They may become fidgety, tapping their pencil or foot, play with their hair or the paper clip on their desk, or ask to go to the bathroom frequently. These types of "coping mechanisms" often lead teachers to think these student don't care, when actually they have "checked out" because the pace of the environment was too quick for them to access.


PROCESSING SPEED IN DAILY LIFE

In everyday life, there is a cost to processing everything more slowly. Some jobs demand a fast pace. In fact, it would be impossible to perform certain jobs without that quick rate of response. Emergency room doctors, jet pilots, and air traffic controllers, among dozens of other careers, place a high priority on the ability to react to information and quickly perform tasks.

Though it might not be obvious, these sorts of skills are important in school as well. From being asked to complete "1-minute math worksheets" in second grade, to the ability to move between classes and rooms in middle and high school (while remembering to get the appropriate books and assignments from a locker in a 4-minute transition period), the ability to do things quickly is highly related to a child's success in school. Some examples of the types of problems that children with slow processing speed experience include:

• Difficulty processing spoken information fluently or automatically:

* Problems listening to a lecture and taking in all the material presented

* Remembering and following simple directions from a teacher

* Listening and understanding verbal information presented in class from fellow students

• Problems writing information down on paper:

* Writing an assignment in a notebook

* Finishing an exam

• Slower reading fluency skills:

* Having difficulty reading a certain passage in a given period of time during class time or during exams

* Difficulty finishing large reading assignments

• Trouble sustaining attention to a task, not necessarily because the child has attention problems, but because the information is coming at her so quickly that her attention is "lost"

• Difficulty understanding complex directions, particularly those that are given quickly

• Trouble retrieving information quickly from long-term memory. This becomes problematic when a child is called on in class and can't answer the question quickly enough—even though he knows the answer!

• Problems finishing almost anything (tests, assignments, activities) in an allotted period of time

• Problems with social interactions because the "social scene" moves too quickly to process (includes not just verbal information but nonverbal information that has to be processed quickly).


In addition to problems at school, slow processing speed can make life difficult for a family. When there is one person in a family who takes forever to do something, the rest of the family suffers.

Take the case of James, a 10-year-old boy with ADHD and extremely slow processing speed, who took three times longer than his 12-year-old sister, Jenny, to complete pretty much any daily task. From the moment James woke up in the morning, he couldn't keep up. It took him 10 minutes to find his way to the bathroom, even longer to pick out what to wear, and it often took him so long to figure out what to have for breakfast that he left for school without eating anything. Jenny, on the other hand, was quick to dress and was ready for the school bus on time, although her mornings were punctuated by her mother shouting, "James, if you don't get down here, I'm going to scream!"

Jenny was embarrassed that the bus had to wait for her brother nearly every morning. Things were worse after school, when James couldn't get his homework done without constant pleading and coaxing from one of his parents. Dinnertime took forever because James was slow to get to the table, slow to decide what he wanted to eat, and slow to actually eat his food. Jenny's relationship with her brother suffered, and she often found herself angry about these disruptions. Not surprisingly, James's parents found themselves frustrated and sad that their family life was miserable at times because they were always yelling at James or bribing him to hurry up.

James's story is very typical for children with slow processing speed. Although he demonstrated many of the characteristics mentioned above in school, his problems at home were also quite significant. Some of the more common problems that children with slow processing speed experience at home include:

• Slowness in getting out of bed in the morning and getting ready for the day

• Difficulty getting ready for bed at night, as well as difficulty falling asleep—yes, these kids are even slow to fall asleep!

• Trouble making up their minds about everyday tasks such as what they are going to wear or what they want for breakfast

• Slow at eating to an extent that mealtimes seem to take forever or their food is cold before they are finished

• Slow to complete simple tasks such as brushing their teeth or taking a shower

• Problems starting tasks such as homework

• Problems completing homework in a reasonable amount of time

• Difficulty completing chores, even simple chores like taking out the trash

• Slowness in remembering information about family matters, such as quickly remembering the name of a relative they haven't seen in a while, or remembering that the family is going on vacation next week. This can lead family members to think the child is "in his own world" or worse, that she "just doesn't care about anyone but herself."


For example, James had trouble fully taking in the following when his mom said one Saturday, "Today we're going to see the new Harry Potter movie at the mall, but first I need to stop at the dry cleaner's and then take you to get new shoes because we're going to Aunt Dottie's wedding next week. And, maybe we'll get you a new shirt too, while we're at it, and then when we're done with the movie, we can get ice cream." James's mom was talking quickly as she was cleaning up the breakfast dishes. So when she said, "Go get ready so we can go to the movies," James replied, "What movie? I thought you were taking me out for ice cream right now." Needless to say, his mother was aggravated because he "wasn't listening," when actually he was listening but it was too much information for him to process in the amount of time needed.


(Continues...)

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Table of Contents

I. Understanding Processing Speed
1. "If My Kid Is So Smart, Why Is He So Slow?"
2. "My Child Doesn't Seem to Be Able to Keep Up . . . Now What Do I Do?"
3. "So What, Exactly, Is Processing Speed?"
II. Helping Your Child Keep Up in Daily Life
4. Processing Speed in the Family
5. Processing Speed at Home
6. Processing Speed in the Classroom
7. Processing Speed and Social Relationships
8. The Emotional Costs of Slow Processing Speed
III. Staying Informed
9. Pulling It All Together: Formally Assessing Processing Speed
Resources
Index

What People are Saying About This

Parenting - Julianne Smith

Otherwise undiagnosed, some kids—with all the potential in the world—just seem to lag behind and take forever to complete mundane tasks...20 minutes of homework becomes two hours; the ten-minute chore turns into 45; a 30-minute morning routine blows up on a daily basis. Flummoxed,
parents become exasperated, wondering if their child is just lazy or unmotivated. Child psychologists Braaten and Willoughby here offer a first-of-a-kind book on processing speeds in this aptly named title for parents,
presenting a new area of cognitive research that is sure to receive more attention in the future…An encouraging look at a problem to which many parents will relate. The jury is still out on whether processing speeds relate to neurotransmitters,
synaptic spaces, or neural networks,
but the authors do an excellent job of bringing the psychological research into the home.

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