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Get the kind of makeover that will transform your life!

Bestselling author and life coach Katie Brazelton takes you on a deeply personal forty-day journey of developing your character. Discover how to close the gap between understanding God’s purpose for your life and carrying it out as you put an end to well-worn patterns of defeat, woundedness, insecurity, unworthiness, ...
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Overview

Get the kind of makeover that will transform your life!

Bestselling author and life coach Katie Brazelton takes you on a deeply personal forty-day journey of developing your character. Discover how to close the gap between understanding God’s purpose for your life and carrying it out as you put an end to well-worn patterns of defeat, woundedness, insecurity, unworthiness, and self-centeredness.

Teaming up with coauthor Shelley Leith, who is a highly sought-after speaker on strengthening marriages and family, Brazelton focuses on eight character traits essential to living a purpose-filled life: humility, confidence, courage, self-control, patience, contentment, generosity, and perseverance. Step-by-step you’ll experience a complete character makeover—and become the best “you” God intended you to be.

Ideal for small groups, women’s church ministry, and one-on-one study.
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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9780310316763
  • Publisher: Zondervan
  • Publication date: 5/26/2009
  • Sold by: Zondervan Publishing
  • Format: eBook
  • Pages: 336
  • Sales rank: 383,394
  • File size: 4 MB

Meet the Author

Katie Brazelton, PhD, MDiv, MA, is the author of the bestselling Pathway to Purpose for Women and its companion books, Praying for Purpose and Conversations on Purpose. The founder of Lie Purpose Coaching Centers International®, she lives in Southern California near her grown children, daughter-in-law, and grandson.


 


Shelley Leith is on staff at Saddleback Church where she developed the 40 Days of Purpose Campaign. She’s the co-author of Character Makeover: 40 Days With a Life Coach to Create the Best You, and has combined the character makeover concepts from the book with the appeal of television reality shows in a teen girls’ curriculum, Head-to-Soul Makeover: Helping Teen Girls Become Real in a Fake World. Shelley is a popular speaker on the topics of character makeover, self-esteem, marriage and parenting, topics in which she’s had plenty of practice with her husband of 30 years and their five children.
Authors URL: http://shelleyleith.com/
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Character Makeover

40 Days with a Life Coach to Create the Best You
By Katie Brazelton Shelley Leith

Zondervan

Copyright © 2008 Katherine F. Brazelton
All right reserved.

ISBN: 978-0-310-25653-3


Chapter One

Remaking Your Character through Grace-Filled Coaching

Spiritual transformation is essential, not optional for Christ-followers. Spiritual transformation is a process, not an event. Spiritual transformation is God's work, but requires my participation. John Ortberg, pastor, author

Your Personal, Virtual Coach

Have you ever wished that there was such a thing as a "life makeover," similar to when a salon fusses over your hair or a personal shopper over your wardrobe, and you come away transformed? I wish getting a life makeover were as painless as those times when I've dabbled in the surface-level, cosmetic approach to changing my outward appearance. Whether it was for a milestone birthday or for a family portrait, I must admit that I have found makeovers to be a lot of fun. In fact, I wish every woman could be treated at least once in her life to such a day of pampering!

I've also experienced a minor house remodel during which a fresh coat of paint and some new carpet profoundly changed the look of my home; the improvement was fairly quick and obvious. But there are also deeper renovations, the kind where families are displaced for months as a construction crew repairs a house foundation, removes walls, rewires electricity, or updates the plumbing. These types of changes are much more painstaking, messy, and costly-often emotionally and physically stressful-and they typically require the help of more than one expert.

Shelley Leith (my coauthor) and I have both delved deeply into the concept of remodeling character, or doing a character makeover. For Shelley and her husband, Greg, the approach they have used in raising their five children has been something she would call character-based parenting. They established the character traits they felt their kids needed in order to live as fruitful Christians, then set out to build those traits into them throughout their years at home. From another angle, Shelley and Greg are speakers for marriage conferences, and they have seen time and time again that the lack of strong character traits such as humility, contentment, self-control, patience, or perseverance can drive couples to the brink of divorce.

For me, this matter of character development has become my passion for different reasons. For years I have been a Life Purpose Coach[R], helping women discover-to borrow Billy Crystal's phrase from the movie City Slickers-their "one big thing." I have been interested not only in helping them discover their unique purpose in life, but in creating a life plan to ensure that they leave a legacy. I even wrote a series of books (Pathway to Purpose, Praying for Purpose, Conversations on Purpose, and Pathway to Purpose Personal Journal) to help women find their specific, second-half-of-life mission.

Yet, it became evident to me after analyzing my own life patterns and those of my life plan clients for more than a decade, that some of us experience a gap between understanding our God-designed legacy and actually realizing that magnificent purpose. We self-sabotage, succumbing to well-worn patterns of defeat, woundedness, insecurity, unworthiness, or self-centeredness that keep us from carrying out God's best intentions for our lives.

You can know everything there is to know about yourself, your potential, and your goals, but if you are hesitant about developing some of the essential character qualities it takes to fulfill your godly dreams (such as humility, generosity, and confidence), you'll get derailed from your life's calling at every turn. I began to see that my coaching had to go further. Thus, Character Makeover was born. In this book, I become your personal, virtual coach-taking you on a forty-day adventure of deepening your character as you collaborate with God, role models, and myself ... preparing you to fulfill your legacy.

Pat Summitt of the University of Tennessee is the all-time winningest college basketball coach. Her 900-plus victories make her the only coach, male or female, to surpass the previous record of 900 wins. A college coach likely dreams about many things: coaching a national championship team, coaching an Olympic team, coaching players who become All-Americans and pros, being elected to the Hall of Fame. Summitt has achieved all of these pinnacles-in some cases, multiple times! In her book Reach for the Summit (Broadway Books, 1998), she has this to say about the role of coaching:

Our players understand that all I'm trying to do is help them. They want to win a national championship. Well, I'm going to do everything I can to see to it.... Their long-term, repetitive success is a matter of building Remaking Your Character through Grace-Filled Coaching: a principled system and sticking to it. Principles are anchors; without them you will drift.

That sums up the essence of this book. Are you reaching for a personal dream-your "national championship," if you will? Character Makeover will coach you to realize your dreams by "building a principled system and sticking to it." Without character, as Summitt says, "you will drift," and drifters don't reach their goals!

Frankly, I'll be a good Character Coach for you, because I have been terribly hard on myself until the last six or seven years, and I distinctly remember what it was like to suffer from the "I'm not good enough" syndrome. You can trust that I now fully realize what a privilege it is to walk alongside you on this grace-filled (imagine that word underlined three times!) journey toward truth in your own life. This must be an exercise into newness and joy, not one that causes you to feel defeated. The latter would break my heart to hear. Life has enough struggles without me coming along and increasing your stress and guilt about living a holier life!

What you do need from me is to walk beside you and show you how character development will be the very thing that will carry you on angel's wings during the toughest seasons of your life. My commitment to you is that, with the remembrance of the grace and mercy of God shining brightly on my own muddled life choices, I will gently coach you, not judge you or push you beyond what you are able to bear.

Here are some important things we know up front: God cares more about the character we bring to our life mission than he does about our ministry's strategic plan. He cares more about our Christlike integrity than our kingdom-building productivity. He wants our honesty in all areas of our lives more than our accomplishments for him. In his Holy Book, learning to be holy is the bottom line (1 Peter 1:15-16). We who dream of doing something outrageously tremendous for the Lord are held to a higher standard by God Almighty himself. We, who have a heart for changed lives, cannot intentionally lead misguided lives. We must do all we can to become the leaders God is asking us to be in our homes, communities, churches, schools, ministries, and vocations.

Character vs. Strongholds

With literally dozens of character qualities to choose from, you may wonder why I selected the eight qualities you'll find in this book: humility, confidence, courage, self-control, patience, contentment, generosity, and perseverance. My choice has to do with the flipside of these very qualities, what the New Testament (2 Corinthians 10:4) refers to as strongholds.

What Are Strongholds?

The term strongholds refers to areas where our enemy, Satan, has set up camp and dug in, creating for himself a fortress from which he launches attacks and tries to destroy us. These are the places where we repeatedly experience discouragement, distress, defeat, and damage. These are the monsters that keep us from our God-given dreams.

The eight character qualities I've chosen address the most prevalent strongholds I see in women today. As you read through the following annotated list of character traits and strongholds, ask yourself, "Do I have any of these good qualities or opposite rough edges in my life? Am I 'soaring on wings like eagles' (Isaiah 40:31), or am I living an unfulfilled, wounded life, being held back by one of these forces?" I firmly believe when you and I are deliberate about strengthening these particular character qualities in our lives, the related, destructive strongholds are transformed into areas of victory.

You'll note that half of these character qualities are exhibited inwardly, and half are expressed more outwardly. And they also involve five different relationships which definitively and repeatedly affect the outcome of our life purpose:

Relationship to God

1. Humility drives at the inner strongholds of pride, self-centeredness, judgmentalism, and-believe it or not-worthlessness. (By the way, humility is foundational; if we don't start with humility, any work we do in other areas of character could make us prideful!)

Relationship to Ourselves

2. Confidence is an inner quality that speaks to strongholds of insecurity, poor self-esteem, and perfectionism. 3. Courage is an outward quality desperately needed by women who struggle with fear, anxiety, or untruthfulness.

Relationship to Others

4. Self-control is what women need to exhibit inwardly if they are impulsive, addictive, undisciplined, overemotional, or stress-prone.

5. Patience is a great outward character quality for women who are intolerant or demanding.

Relationship to Things

6. Contentment is an important inner characteristic for women who battle strongholds of envy, dissatisfaction, or perpetual restlessness.

7. Generosity is an outward expression that comes against greed and an entitlement mentality.

Relationship to the Future

8. Perseverance is an outward character quality that's needed when women feel like quitting, hesitating, avoiding a decision, or not following through.

Customize Your Reading Sequence

You might want to do something different and try reading this book out of sequence. Look at the character qualities in the preceding list, and invite the Holy Spirit to speak to you about each one. Do you recognize any of these strongholds as your personal battleground? Are you experiencing unusual trials, or do you feel a sense of brokenness in one of the areas? That may be the starting place God has in mind for you. Try going through this book in a sequence directed by the Lord, addressing the character qualities in which you feel the weakest first; then progressing from there.

Three Ways to Collaborate

Building character is a collaborative effort, mainly between God and you. It is ignited with your salvation and continues until you have become like Christ, a process which isn't completed until the moment you see him face-to-face (1 John 3:2). God speeds up this process by giving you character-building opportunities-circumstances that are orchestrated to develop the character you need to honor him more with your daily efforts. For instance, if you find yourself in a slew of irritating situations, ask yourself if God is trying to teach you patience. If your circumstances are making you fearful, it might be courage that God is working into your life. Do you keep encountering people whose lives you envy? Anybody want to talk about contentment?

Every time you forget that character is one of God's purposes for your life, you will become frustrated by your circumstances. Rick Warren, pastor, author

Has God been giving you some frustrating circumstances? Don't forget that God uses such circumstances to build your character. When you start viewing your circumstances as God's character-deepening tools, then you're ready for your part in the character-building collaboration. In this book, I will coach you to develop your character using three age-old, proven methods of collaborating with God: preparation, prayer, and practice.

1. Preparation

One way we collaborate with God to build character is through preparation. This simply means that through this book, we will learn all we can about what God wants of us, which helps us get his principles ingrained into our thinking and attitudes.

2. Prayer

Another essential way we join God's work of making us more Christlike is by praying-which, as you know, is simply a conversation with God. Through the written prayers in this book, we will invite God to transform us and then rely on the Holy Spirit's power to build into us the principles of character we are addressing.

3. Practice

Character Makeover helps you be proactive and take steps to develop and deepen eight key character qualities that greatly impact God's plan for your life and your readiness to serve him however he commands. You may have never thought that your character was something you could decide to work on, but through the Action Plan you will set up for yourself, you will partner with the Holy Spirit to do just that.

How to Get the Most Out of This Book

For each of the eight character qualities in Character Makeover, there are five days of readings, assessments, directed journaling, and prayers. My strong recommendation is that you do not blaze through all five days in one sitting. Come to a full stop at the end of each day's reading. Dwell on the concepts and meditate on the verses. Dig deep and be honest; don't settle for shallow answers that enable you to tread water in your spiritual life. Pray the prayer aloud or write out a prayer of your own.

To keep us organized in this endeavor, each day's reading transports you to a special coach-client setting, so you can focus intently on a specific topic:

Day 1: Welcome Back to My Place! Each week, I want you to imagine you are meeting with me at my home. We may choose to sit in my living room or dining room; relax on my front porch bench or on the swing chair in my backyard; or take a stroll around my block. The mental picture I will paint for you will be of my real-time, real-life surroundings, with no phony airs or pretense. When you visit with me in my own home environment, you will begin to see how similar we are in many respects. As your personal Character Coach (or Spiritual Growth Partner or Dream Collaborator!), I want to actually invite you into my life and into my heart, so you will more readily feel the encouragement I have to share with you.

Day 1 starts with strength training where we build the foundation for the week's targeted character quality. We begin by learning about the character trait and how it can be exhibited best in our lives. More importantly, we learn about a complementary quality of God's ways-such as his mercy, compassion, power, or love. Our firm foothold and belief in each of God's attributes will help us deepen the characteristic in our own lives and break free from the strongholds that are blocking our holiness and productivity for God.

Day 2: A Virtual Message. Each week, you will receive a Virtual Message from me. You can either go to my website to actually download it, so you can hear my voice-or you can simply read the text right from this book. Day 2 examines the strongholds that are addressed by the week's character quality. This 360-degree bird's-eye view will give you a broader knowledge base, much more truth to prayerfully consider, and a deeper conviction to ensure your next steps.

On either Day 2 or Day 3, I will introduce you to a precious friend of mine who is a real, everyday woman just like us, a woman who is trying to deepen specific character qualities in her own life. I can't wait for you to meet these imperfect, but oh, so lovable, friends-each a Life Purpose Coach[R] herself. These woman are passionate about obediently completing the work God gave them to do!

Day 3: You've Got Mail. Each week, you will receive an Email Message from me. I want you to imagine that you have given me your email address and that my words of encouragement have landed in your inbox. You can even blog a response to me at www.LifePurposeCoachingCenters.com/CM if you'd like. Day 3 drills deeper into the character quality-because by now you will have seen both sides of it, the good and the ugly, and you will be wanting further information about how to live it more diligently in your own life. Enjoy the cyberspace coaching!

Day 4: Perspective-Changing Outing. Each week, I have a field trip treat planned for us! We will "meet" away from my home, somewhere conducive to helping us change our perspective and get out of the ho-hum, doldrums box of how we do life. On this special day, plan to "get out of town," to let your hair down, and to return home refreshed and invigorated to begin anew. Day 4 is a critical juncture in this process. It is when I gracefully help you evaluate yourself, asking you to honestly respond to questions about how you are doing in each given area. The progress on this day will pole-vault you further into fulfilling the tasks God assigned to you before you were born.

Day 5: Sitting Quietly with Your Maker. Day 5 is a time for reflection and solitude in the privacy of your own quiet-time space with God. This day's exercise will allow you to adopt practices that will deepen the week's character quality in your life. Your final decisions are between God and you. (A good coach or collaborator will never try to push you into doing something you are not ready to do; that just never works out for anyone!) There are prayer strategies, Scripture studies, research ideas, and challenge goals you can use to formulate your action steps.

(Continues...)



Excerpted from Character Makeover by Katie Brazelton Shelley Leith Copyright © 2008 by Katherine F. Brazelton. Excerpted by permission.
All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.
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Table of Contents

Contents

Remaking Your Character through Grace-Filled Coaching....................9
Part 1 The Making of a Right Relationship to God 1. Humility....................21
Part 2 The Making of a Right Relationship to Myself 2. Confidence....................59
3. Courage....................93
Part 3 The Making of a Right Relationship to Others 4. Self-Control....................135
5. Patience....................175
Part 4 The Making of a Right Relationship to Things 6. Contentment....................211
7. Generosity....................245
Part 5 The Making of a Right Relationship to My Future 8. Perseverance....................277
Afterword....................317
Appendix A: Master Action Plan....................322
Appendix B: Scripture-Rich Prayer for Each Character Trait....................323
Appendix C: Fresh Start with Jesus....................331
Acknowledgments....................333
How to Contact the Authors....................334
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  • Anonymous

    Posted August 15, 2008

    Your Swiss Army Knife for Character Construction

    Whether you need to cut away pride or dig up courage, Character Makeover is like having the Swiss Army Knife for character construction in your back pocket. And a coach extraordinaire in your corner. Conveniently set-up as a 40-day bend, stretch and strengthen program, the exercises are far from routine. The 3-demenional interactive approach and extra tools meet you where you are and let you customize every step of the way. You will be in good company as Character Makeover trains you to keep your chin up, push up on what¿s holding you down and sitting up to take notice while working on the 8 traits that relay God¿s renovating power. Get ready to be transformed by biblical characters, contemporary role models, and transparent coaches. Put your dukes up and be prepared to spar with your inner Pinocchio, Fred Flintstone, Shrek and a few other ridiculous rivals poised to knock you out. You actually do feel warmly enveloped by a real live coach as you journey and pray together through the Character Makeover adventure. Each session vaults you inside the heart of the God who spared nothing out of His love for you and motivates you to jump in to do your part to be ¿the best me I can be for God.¿ This is more than a book ¿ it is an engaging, practical and challenging tool that is guaranteed for life. You will want to keep it handy for all your character touch-ups and overhauls as long as you live. Because it really works, even in those hard to reach places.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted April 5, 2008

    Great book on character.

    A great read and easy to follow steps. The authors have a nice way to get you involved in this process!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 24, 2008

    Better than Dr. Phil

    Character development at its best. This book contains thoughts, scripture meditations, and journaling exercises to bring out the best that God has in you. A well organized 40 day guide to becoming the God Chick you were meant to be.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 23, 2008

    A reviewer

    I did an advance reading of this book. I felt that this is a very worthwhile book for all women in any stage of life. I like the way Katie personalizes the journey by welcoming you to her home. Her descriptions at the start of each new topic create a vivid mental image that allows you to feel right at home with the coach. The 8 topics she has chosen: humility, confidence, courage, self-control, patience, contentment, generosity, and perseverance are all very relevant to any woman's life. She includes tests and exercises that really help you understand where you are. She also includes thought-inspiring Biblical references that truly reflect the qualities that we are all striving towards. I like how she emphasizes that if we want a better character, we must focus on our relationship with God. I gave this a quick read and now am starting to really delve into it to help me with my own life. I am planning on recommending this to a few of my women friends and am going to mention it as a possible Women's Study at my church, as I feel this is a long term study that you really need to devote time and attention to.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 26, 2008

    Very Insightful

    Character Makeover allows you to review who you are. You are able to look deep into yourself and see how God recommends you to live. The self tests backed up by scriptures at the end of every chapter are very helpful. It reinforce what you read and allows you to apply the different tools into your daily life. I recommend this book to anyone that is looking for spiritual guidance on how to carry themselves. Excellent book!

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 21, 2008

    A reviewer

    Whether you¿re gearing up for an overall overhaul, or just need a refreshing look at yourself in a particular area, this book is a great tool. By approaching our weaknesses in character as strongholds for the enemy, the author provides insight into the areas of our relationships ¿ to God, to ourselves, to others, to things, and to the future. A customizable plan for building character, which includes probing questions, journaling exercises, and prayers designed for each relationship area make this an excellent tool for individuals or discussions in small groups. I highly recommend this book. Don¿t get it from the library. You¿ll want to keep it on your shelf and reuse it frequently.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 1, 2008

    God thinks orange and purple plaid is gorgeous

    Makeover shows like ¿Trading Spaces¿ and ¿How Do I Look?¿ call in experts when a room needs a little TLC or a fashion victim¿s wardrobe needs CPR. In their new book ¿Character Makeover¿ Christian authors Katie Brazelton and Shelly Leith called on the most revered world class design team when they wanted to redecorate human character. They called in an architect and interior designer (God), His Master Carpenter Son (Jesus), and an image consultant and life coach (the Holy Spirit.) This trinity of professionals is the best in their field specializing in one-of-a-kind creations. ¿Character Makeover¿ is a forty-day journey that explores common character traits in every soul that may need sprucing up. We all wish we had the patience of Job, but most of us more closely resemble a certain big green ogre. This book contains bible verses, practical applications, stories, exercises and journal pages to enhance who we are. Some of us spend our whole lives feeling like Charlie Brown after Lucy has jerked the football away for the millionth time. This book can help you wash away the wishy-washiness. If your inner Fred Flintstone bellows too easily, or your pride reaches to ¿infinity and beyond¿ Buzz Lightyear proportions this book is a great guidebook to creating a more beautiful you. This beautiful book may bring some emotional flotsam and jetsam to the surface, and you may find some soul places that need to be spackled and refinished, but the Holy Sprit¿s comfort is beyond compare. At the end of your ¿Character Makeover¿, perhaps we¿ll marvel at the perfection of the architect¿s blueprints¿we were created in His image. Hopefully we will cherish the carpenter¿s exquisite craftsmanship¿He died for us, and we should treasure the wisdom of the most divine life coach imaginable¿we are His vessel. If the fabric of your soul is draped in orange and purple plaid, don¿t worry orange and purple are two of the Father¿s favorite colors.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 3, 2008

    Advanced Reader

    Character Makeover by Katie Brazelton and Shelley Leith can be a life-changing book for anyone who chooses to use it as a workbook and a journal. It is like having a Life Coach at your disposal 24/7. I took the book seriously, read all of the Biblical references, and intend to follow my Master Action Plan this year. I highly recommend Character Makeover to anyone who is interested in taking an in-depth look at their life and their character.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 7, 2008

    Advanced Reader

    If you have been desiring change in the way you live your life, then 'Character Makeover' is a good book to assist in doing this. It is set up in a way that devotes about 20 minutes a day to reading it but you devote all day contemplating the deep insights gained from that day's reading as well as a strong connection to God. Brazelton has even designed the material so that it can be tackled in any order based on your personal needs.The scriptural basis makes it an even more convincing read. If you are looking for ways to enhance your life and improve who you are then you should check this book out.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted February 4, 2008

    An Inward to Outward Makeover

    Character Makeover is an excellent book to continue in your spiritual journey. It helped me to allow God into my everyday life even when I thought I could do things on my own. I'm learning to see myself as God sees me, His creation. The qualities that God has and Jesus portrayed are defiantly achievable by all people. Once you read this book and complete the exercises you can truly began God's purpose for you. And it feels like you have a life coach with you for extra support. Working with a partner is also a good idea. My friend I were able to discuss some of the topics all the time, that I purchased her a copy of the book for her birthday.

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  • Anonymous

    Posted January 5, 2008

    A reviewer

    I feel a little bit like I¿m cheating by writing a review of the book, Character Makeover: 40 Days With A Life Coach To Create The Best You (Zondervan, 2008), by Katie Brazelton and Shelley Leith. First, it is geared towards women. I¿m a man. Second, it is laid out in a such a way that a person really ought to spend 40 days with it. I¿ve only had my Advance Reader Copy for 2 days. So, given that I am not of the female persuasion, nor have I had the 40 days to live out the principles discussed in the book, I will give my general impressions. Generally, I shy away from any product that promises to change a person after so many days or weeks. They tend to be too simplistic, not speaking to the difficulties, interruptions, and disappointments that tend to come with real life. I am even more wary of Christian self-help books, because they tend to garner more of their techniques and bullet points from pop psychology rather than Scripture. This is dangerous in that it retards a person¿s ability to discern things spiritually. That being said, I like how much Character Makeover relies on Scripture and does not attempt to trivialize the things that people go to. This book isn¿t about pretending real life doesn¿t happen. Quite the contrary. Through the use of the stories of various women who have struggled with character issues as they face everyday life, Character Makeover keeps its head out of the clouds and its feet firmly planted on the earth. Rather, this book is a resource women can turn to in order to help them change their perspective and temper their reactions when life isn¿t fair. Its greatest strength comes from the fact it starts off with the notion that if we wish to develop better character, we must first attend to our relationship with Jesus. The authors thus start the book with a section about humility. This is a great approach, as a person who ¿changes themselves¿ can be tempted to boast about all the changes they have made and how good that makes them because of it. However, by connecting true change to God, this encourages women to be humble in how they approach the rest of the book (and their lives). However, Character Makeover is not without its drawbacks. Actually, one of its greatest strengths is one of its greatest flaws. This is not a book that a person can just sit down and enjoy like a novel. It is meant to be an immersive experience. This is accomplished through journal entries, charts to fill out, and boxes to check (on self-evaluation checklists). It is a lot of work and a person has to be totally honest with themselves (or others if they are participating in a group), if they wish to truly get anything out of the experience. And the questions are not easy ones. For example, on Day 4 of a section about self-control, the reader is asked, ¿What habit or temptation has power over you?¿ While this question might seem simple on the surface, it is very easy to answer this question simply, avoiding darker things we know we ought to deal with in our lives. A person might answer, ¿I have a problem with chocolate,¿ and that may very well be true. But, if they have a habit of gossiping or not controlling their thought life, having a problem with chocolate is the least of their worries. But, the main drawback is that some people don¿t have the time each day to sit down and follow this kind of program. While the authors might not mind 40 days stretching into 80 or 120 days, some readers may become frustrated and give up. Overall, Character Makeover is a good resource for those who can stick with a 40 day program. I believe they will come out on the other side with the ability to discern situations from a thoroughly Christian point-of-view without sacrificing their ability to live in the real world.

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