The Cheat Sheet: A Clue-by-Clue Guide to Finding Out If He's Unfaithful

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Overview

So you think he's cheating? This book gives you simple yet versatile tools—from lists of telling clues to stealthy cell phone apps—that will help you confirm your suspicions or ease your fears. Expert authors Rea Frey and Stephany Alexander pair online savvy with the tips and tricks of a private investigator, priming you to outwit your man—no matter how sneaky he's been. You'll get inside his head to learn everything there is to know about where he's been and what you need to do next. When you're done, you'll know:

  • How to catch him in the act
  • Which rules cheaters live by
  • When there's a way to forgive
  • When there's no choice but to forget

With this book, you'll know when he cheats, how to catch him red-handed, and where to find a relationship that will make you happy for a lifetime.

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If you're in a relationship, chances are your partner is a cheater. In fact, recent studies indicate that a majority of both men and women have "stepped out" on a spouse or a lover. The Cheat Sheet stands as a radar alarm system for approaching harbingers of trouble. To recognize cheating in its early stages, Rea Frey and Stepheny Alexander offer readers an educational mix of true infidelity stories, quizzes, detection strategies, common cheater excuses, and relationship remedies. A valuable tool for setting things right—or cutting the cord.

Kirkus Reviews

A manual for catching unfaithful loves in their deceptions.

Frey and Alexander, founders of WomanSavers.com, explore the dark side of love, offering signs, tips and tools for dealing with love gone bad. Both women speak from experience—Alexander has cheated in the past, while Frey was once the "other woman." The authors leave no stone unturned when it comes to outing a potential cheater, although their suggestions can border on unhealthy if not paranoid—e.g., "Take a photo of the bedroom or the room in question before you leave for the day" to see if anything is out of place upon your return. At times, their advice even walks a fine legal line. Tapping phone lines, for instance, is illegal in some states. Each chapter begins with a wonderful quotation and immediately launches into a "Cheat-Sheet Tale," a personal account by a cheater. There are quizzes on everything from alibis your partner might offer to what kind of cheater he could be—there are four types. The book takes a more positive turn toward the end as the authors present ways to pick up the pieces, such as when to stay in a relationship and how to make a marriage affair-proof.

No earth-shattering discoveries, but helpful for those who suspect their mates are being less than forthright.

Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781440511981
  • Publisher: Adams Media Corporation
  • Publication date: 6/18/2011
  • Pages: 256
  • Sales rank: 425,275
  • Product dimensions: 5.40 (w) x 8.40 (h) x 0.80 (d)

Meet the Author

Rea Frey—author, editor, and ghostwriter—has created a buzz with her dating column, Pretty and the City, and her blog, Cheaters Tales, which focuses on cheating and relationships.

Stephany Alexander is an author, infidelity expert, and founder of WomanSavers.com. Frequently called on to comment on celebrity infidelity cases, Stephany and WomanSavers.com have been featured by E! Entertainment, FOX, the CBS Early Show, USA Today, the New York Times, Esquire, Glamour, and Oprah.com.

Table of Contents

Foreword ix

Acknowledgments xi

Introduction xiii

Chapter 1 "It Just Happened" 1

Chapter 2 "A Cheating Culture" 9

Chapter 3 "It's Physical" 21

Chapter 4 "It's Emotional" 33

Chapter 5 "It's In My DNA" 45

Chapter 6 "People Lack Discipline" 65

Chapter 7 "Workplace Affairs" 89

Chapter 8 "Online Affairs" 99

Chapter 9 "Worst-Case Scenarios" 109

Chapter 10 "Picking Up the Pieces" 119

Chapter 11 "Making Your Relationship Affair-Proof" 137

Appendix A Resources 163

Appendix B Extras: Cheat-Sheet Tales 167

Index 213

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