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I did some dumb things in junior high school. I think it just comes with the territory. But one particularly dumb thing involved a theft. I didn't steal money or shoplift and I didn't take anyone's boyfriend. I simply stole a few votes.
The scene of the crime was journalism class, where those of us on the yearbook staff sat counting ballots for the school superlatives contest. Suddenly someone yelled out, "Caron! It looks like you may get enough votes to win, 'Most Talented.' "
Until that moment, I had been the epitome of average. Winning a category in the superlatives contest would skyrocket my approval rating at Glenridge Junior High. I was eking out a social existence because my friends had friends who were cool. Like a mere feeder fish, I hovered close to the big fish in hopes of sucking some algae off them.
But, I soon found out that I was not the only one up for Most Talented. Trailing close behind me was Cindy, our school's guitar-playing singer. Cindy had real talent. She was even asked to sing her original song, "Beauty," at a school assembly. My only claim to fame was the pen-and-ink drawings I did on notebooks and book covers. Hardly a class went by that I didn't get at least one request for " Judy & Johnny 4-Ever," or " S. M. loves T. P."
Clearly, my talent was no match for Cindy's. Someone important once said, "The pen is mightier than the sword." But no one ever mentioned how the pen would do against the guitar. Guitars were big deals. I knew if I didn't do something fast, I would live my whole life in obscurity.
So, while votes were being tallied for other categories, I secretly grabbed a handful of uncounted ballots and tossed them in the trash. I was pretty sure no one saw me. I should have felt guilty, but I didn't.
At the end of the day, I had won. And suddenly the demand for notebook art increased a good forty percent.
Why it took God fifteen years to confront me on this, I'll never know. But it was He who brought it up one morning in my prayer time. By then we were on a first name basis and He had full permission to speak to me about anything that bothered Him. Here is an abbreviated version of our conversation:
Me: God, I want to be all I can be for you. I've searched my heart for anything that might be standing in the way of this and I've come up empty. I think I've dealt with all the sins I've ever committed. But I'll just sit here and wait for you to go through your files and see if you have something there I may have left out.
God: Well, there was that time in junior high school.
Me: Which time?
God: Most Talented.
Me: You saw that? It was such a long time ago. Surely you have a statute of limitations or some kind of cut off date for people who do dumb things prior to high school.
God: Not really.
Me: But I'm twelve hundred miles away. No telling where Cindy is. Do you realize the difficulty I would have in finding her? Okay, here's what I'll do. If one day I'm walking down the street and I happen to see her, I'll know you sent her and I'll make things right with her. Fair enough?
God: Fair enough.
I felt pretty safe. I hadn't seen Cindy in years. The odds of running into her in another state were microscopic.
Six months later, my husband and I were racing through the airport trying a catch a plane. When we reached the door of the 747, it has just been shut. My husband, forever the determined optimist, banged on the door as the noise of the engines accelerated. Suddenly a nice flight attendant with exceptional hearing came to our rescue and opened the door.
We made our way to the back of the plane, comparing our tickets to the numbers overhead until we found a match. I plopped down in the middle seat assigned to me. Using my polite voice I said, "Hello," to a woman next to me who was looking out the window. When she returned my greeting, adrenaline shot through me. In unison we both exclaimed, "Oh, my gosh! I can't believe it!"
There was Cindy, the guitar-playing singer.
A boxing match began inside me. From one corner came the feeling of someone who had just been given a million dollars. And from the other came the emotions of a hunted felon. Immediately I began carrying on two conversations, one on the surface with Cindy, the other internally with God.
Me: You actually found her! This is an outright miracle! I can't believe You are forcing me to do this. You really are into the details, aren't You?
From takeoff to landing, Cindy and I chattered away, but all I could think of was how, out of the hundreds of thousands of people on airplanes that day, God looked for a needle in a haystack, found it, threaded it and placed it in my hand.
My palms started to sweat. I swallowed hard. No use stalling any longer. It was time to let Cindy in on the whole story. "Cindy," I said. "You're not going to believe this but it's no accident we met today. Several months ago, I promised God I would make things right if our paths should ever cross again."
As I explained, Cindy laughed. She easily forgave me. It barely phased her. I felt like scolding God for orchestrating such an ordeal. Then a familiar quote popped into my mind, " To whom much is given, much is required." God knew that if I'd confess a small matter from the past, he could trust me with greater responsibilities in the future.
I felt far from the epitome of average.
1998 Caron Loveless
Come to Our House
Whoever welcomes one of these little children in my name welcomes me.
I saw them nearly every day from the window of my home office: a young boy and girl passing our home on their way to school. Busy working at my computer, I would look up only to see them trudging by, never seeming to speak a word between them. The boy appeared to be about eight; the girl slightly older, although it was hard to tell as she always walked with her head down, her long hair sweeping forward to hide her face.
The girl's name was Sarah, I came to discover; the boy's was Matthew. Our daughter Amber relayed this information when she arrived home from fourth grade one day with news to share. "I have a new friend, Mom! Her name is Sarah and she's in class with me. She's moved in just down the street from us, Mom. And guess what-she even has my same birthday!"
The next day Amber arrived home with her new friend in tow. Sarah was a quiet child-too quiet, I feared. When I inquired as to what the girls would like for an after- school snack, Sarah looked up from beneath her bangs at Amber, and then quickly echoed Amber's choice. She began to come more often and seemed to like coming to our home, but she rarely spoke and she stayed right on Amber's heels at all times. Her brother Matt was a year behind her in school, and sometimes he'd come over as well to play with our two sons who were both older and younger than he. Matt said little, though, and rarely smiled.
Sarah was easily frightened, particularly, she said, when they arrived home only to find no one there. We learned that the children had not seen their father in several years and the caregivers their mother hired never seemed to last long. After an anxious phone call from Sarah one afternoon, I instructed her to leave a note on the door telling her mother that she had come to our house. "I work at home," I assured her, "and there is almost always someone here. If you are alone and afraid, you just leave a note and come on down to our house anytime."
In the next few years the children visited us often, even though some trouble in the family caused them to move out of our neighborhood and then seventy-five miles away into the city of Boston.
One night, though, we received a frantic phone call from Sarah. The police had come to their house, she sobbed, and her mother had been arrested. After posting bail, she had returned to tell the children that they would be leaving the country. Gripped with fear, Sarah hopped on her bike and didn't stop riding until she found a phone booth, where she placed a collect call to our home.
"Sarah, where are you?" my husband queried. "Do you think you can find a police station?"
He heard a long pause, and then a small surprised voice. "I'm right in front of one!"
"Go inside, Sarah, and the officers will help you. We'll be right there!"
Several hours later my husband and daughter arrived in a driving rainstorm to find the two frightened children being cared for by a compassionate police officer and a social worker. "Kids," explained the officer, "if we have to take your mother away, do you have anywhere to go?"
"When we lived on Cape Cod," Sarah quickly responded, "these were our neighbors and they said that if we were ever alone, we could come to their house." After running a background check on our family, Sarah and Matthew were released into our custody.
Sarah and Matt did indeed "come to our house," and they stayed for many years. My husband and I went through foster care approval in order to keep the children, and they became full-fledged members of our household, sharing possessions, rooms and, yes, even birthdays with our other three children. One year we drove to Florida to visit Sarah and Matt's grandfather. When all five were teenagers, we raised money and the seven of us went to Nairobi, Kenya, one summer to donate our services to a mission school.
There were difficult times, too. Blending a family is never easy, and the children grieved at times for the life that had been taken from them. For several years we appeared to be on "speed dial" with the principal of their high school, and with four teenagers in braces at one time we were given our own parking space at the orthodontist's!
There were far more times, however, when we felt incredibly privileged to have been entrusted by God with the care of these additional children. My husband taught Matt how to drive a car and fix a faucet. They climbed a mountain together and talked of what it means to be a man.
As for me, I experienced the joy of buying Sarah her first prom dress-a lovely lavender gown that complimented her slim figure and enhanced the long blonde hair she wore piled high. I taught her cooking and computer skills, and talked with her of what it means to be a woman.
Sarah is in college now, and Matt is finishing high school. When she walks down the street, she commands attention as her stature is erect and her head held high. Matt is a confident young man whose quick wit can hold its own in any adult conversation.
Our foster children will soon be on their own, as will our other children. Our home has been a launching pad for all of them-not a permanent resting place. One day we know they will have homes and families of their own.
And when they do, I trust that someday they will share the story of their growing-up years with their own children. I hope they will tell them that families come together in many ways, and that homes can always stretch to make room for another hand to hold.
Most of all, I hope that each of our five children will remember that both life and love are for sharing. Perhaps a needy child will one day walk down the street and through the doors of their hearts as well.
"And if you're ever alone," they will say, "you just come to our house."
Maggie Wallem Rowe
2001 Maggie Wallem Rowe
2002. All rights reserved. Reprinted from Chicken Soup for the Christian Woman's Soul by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Patty Aubery and Nancy Mitchell Autio. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system or transmitted in any form or by any means, without the written permission of the publisher. Publisher: Health Communications, Inc., 3201 SW 15th Street, Deerfield Beach, FL 33442.
The Piano Carla Riehl 2
The Ring I Really Want Rachel Wallace-Oberle 7
Seed Faith Money Patricia Lorenz 11
The Song in You LaDonna Gatlin 15
God Listens DiAnn G. Mills 17
A Thousand Ways Susan Titus Osborn 22
A Special Lady Joan Clayton 25
Living on the Ledge Denise Mizell 29
Startled by a Dream Sharon Gibson 32
Hanging On to Hope Martha Bolton 37
The Egg Dorothy M. Hill 40
The Wedding John P. Walker 43
Bringing It to Pass, Football and All Patricia Lorenz 47
2 The Love of a Family
You Did Good Carla Riehl 54
The Plan LeAnn Thieman 59
Come to Our House Maggie Wallem Row 64
Love Lives Forever Peter Dow Rosey Dow 69
Love That Lasts Barbara Seaman 73
Crisis on the Court Gloria Cassity Stargel 76
A Mother's Intuition Glynis M. Belec 80
Daddy's Gift Shirley Garrett 83
Make a Wish, Mommy Susan Farr Fahncke 86
Unconditional Love Carol Hamblet Adams 90
My Turn Barbara Jeanne Fisher 93
A Treasured Gift Kimn Swenson Gollnick 95
The Breathin' Part Sandra P. Aldrich 98
Love Bugs Darlene Lawson 100
By Their Roots Ye Shall Know Them Carol McAdoo Rehme 105
Blossoms for Belle Carol McAdoo Rehme 108
3 God's Healing Power
A Small Unsteady Light Walker Meade 112
Meeting God at 30,000 Feet Caron Loveless 116
The Healing Power of Forgiveness Karen O'Connor 120
Healing at Columbine Sandy Austin 123
Mercy's Time Julie Saffrin 128
Forgiveness Tastes Sweet Elaine Freeland Galaktionova 131
The Ride Michelle Beaupre Matt 135
The Purpose of My Soul Duane Shaw 139
That's What Friends Do T. Suzanne Eller 144
Prayer Pals Ellen Javernick 148
Tammy and the Diamond Dress Robin Lee Shope 152
Strengthened by Angels Sharon Wilkins 157
Wigged Out! Bonnie Compton Hanson 162
Rhythms of Grace Marilynn Griffith 165
God's Timing Rebecca Price Janney 168
5 Making a Difference
Ivy's Cookies Candy Abbott 174
An Unexpected Moment Sara Henderson 179
Miracle on Mercer Street Carol Genengels 182
Eulogy to a Stranger Carol Hamblet Adams 186
Never Too Late Debra J. Schmidt 188
The Woman Who Wouldn't Pray Carol V. Amen 192
Take My Hand Barbara Baumgardner 197
The Ministry of Life Karyn Buxman 200
Flying a Kite Vicki L. Kitchner 203
All God's Children Carol McAdoo Rehme 205
Leadership Material Nancy Ellen Hird 208
Miracle of the Stray E-Mail Barbara Baumgardner 213
Love's Power Harry Randles 217
Happy Heart Day Jewell Johnson 221
Apron Time Donna Partow 224
Tough Love Nanette Thorsen-Snipes 228
Mother's Day Angel Jeanne Converse 232
Disaster on the Mountain Patricia Lorenz 235
Angel in Black Nancy Massand 239
Where There's a Wheel There's a Way Barbara Jeanne Fisher 244
But You Are Beautiful Sandra P. Aldrich 247
Desires of Your Heart Susan Lugli 250
The Gift Linda Evans Shepherd 254
7 A Matter of Perspective
In God's Eyes Candace Carteen 260
The Blessing Jar Janet Lynn Mitchell 267
The Flood Howie Mullis 271
Judging a Book by Its Cover Adele Noetzelman 274
And the Little Child Shall Lead Them Dawn Nowakoski 277
Journey to the Depths of My Purse Rhonda Rhea 281
The Miracle of Medjugorje LeAnn Thieman 284
Casey Kati Dori 289
Reconsider the Lilies Lee Kochenderfer 294
The Birthday Gift Arlene Centerwall 298
Do You Believe in God? Lynn Dean 302
Our Little Pink Blanket Sandy Deters 307
Hands Kimberly Ripley 310
Coincidence on a Country Road Diana Mason Bruhn 314
A Daily Dose of Miracles Louise Tucker Jones 316
Santa Claus Kimberly Henrie 320
9 Insights and Lessons
Caution: Follow Directions Judy Hampton 324
Helen Armené Humber 328
The Best Defense Marilynn Griffith 332
It's Better to Give Than ... Karen O'Connor 335
Attitude Adjustment Marita Littauer 338
My Menorah-The Little Tree of Life Judith Hayes 340
Refresher Lesson from Dad Pamela Bumpus 343
Getting Out of God's Way Barbara Curtis 346
Sunset in the Rearview Mirror Sheryl Simons 349
Be Still with God Nancy B. Gibbs 353
Chapel of the Wash and Dry Barbara Curtis 356
Who Is Jack Canfield? 360
Who Is Mark Victor Hansen? 361
Who Is Patty Aubery? 362
Who Is Nancy Mitchell Autio? 363
Who Is LeAnn Thieman? 364
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