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Chicken Soup for the Father's Soul: 101 Stories to Open the Hearts and Rekindle the Spirits of Fathers [NOOK Book]
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New dads, granddads, single dads and dads-to-be - this book offers them all an entertaining and inspiring collection of stories on the triumphs and trials of the amazing journey called fatherhood. Chapters include: Special Moments, Overcoming Obstacles, Insights and Lessons, The Joys of Fatherhood, Across the Generations, and Achieving Dreams. By sharing true experiences and insights, this book provides reassurance to fathers and a reminder to cherish the special moments in life.
Holding
Hands
The
best thing to hold on to is each other.
Anonymous
I
was sleeping late. I had just published the first issue of my local newspaper,
Atlanta 30306, and was recovering from three all-nighters earlier in the month.
The phone rang.
The
call was from either a brother or a sister. I don't remember which now. My dad
had been walking down the hallway at the Northside YMCA on Roswell Road, going
to his daily swimming aerobics class, when he had a massive stroke.
I
drove quickly to Piedmont Hospital and ran into the emergency room. I thought
about how Dad had cared for me there through broken bones, an appendectomy and
so on. Now, I was going to see him.
I
found him in a room, unconscious. It was so quiet. I just stood by his side,
helplessly. A nurse I hadn't seen standing in the corner told me I could touch
him.
Touch
him? I thought. How? I looked at his hands. I remembered grasping them in
handshakes for years. I remembered how later, after our family discovered
affection, hugging him, and even in recent years, kissing him. But I had no
memory of ever just holding his hand, as a child might grab a parent's hand to
cross the street.
I
placed his hand in mine and just held it. It felt so large; bony, yet soft. Why
have I never done this before? I thought. Was it my insecurities or his?
Perhaps
both. It was the last time I touched my father. He never regained consciousness
and died later that evening.
I
revisit that image often and have drawn much comfort from remembering that
simple act of holding hands with my dad during the last hours of his life. A
seemingly small gesture, but one that allows two people to connect so quickly,
so closely.
My
own eleven-year-old son knows this and is, thankfully, not bound by the
inhibitions of earlier generations. One time, after my dad's death, I was
walking in a mall with him and his cousin of the same age. His cousin asked him
why he was holding my hand. He said nothing, but quickly released my grasp. That
was it, I thought. The defining moment. Even though I had felt a little
self-conscious holding his hand there in the mall, I knew I would miss his touch
more than he would ever know. Yet, a few weeks later during another weekend
together, he quietly slipped his hand in mine. I felt connected again.
This
summer in Paris, we walked along the Seine as I led him and his
thirteen-year-old sister to cathedrals and museums. He grabbed my hand, and we
walked together for several blocks. My daughter, who had stopped holding my hand
at age nine or ten, sped up and looked over at the clasp. I knew she was going
to say something as only a sister, much too cool for such a display, would. Then
she caught my eye and my smile. Uncharacteristically, she retreated and said
nothing.
And
so we continued along the riverbank, a family of three, she comfortable in her
detachment, my son content with his innate instinct to connect with others, and
me, somewhere in between.
Sometimes,
we have a choice of when to let go. Sometimes, we don't.
Chris
Schroder
¬1996,
1998 Chris Schroder. All rights reserved. Reprinted from Chicken Soup for the
Father's Soul, by Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Jeff Aubery, Mark Donnelly,
Chrissy Donnelly; ¬ 2001.
| Acknowledgments | xi | |
| Introduction | xv | |
| Share with Us | xvii | |
| 1. | Fatherhood | |
| A Moment Can Last Forever | 2 | |
| Wake-Up Call | 5 | |
| Warning: An American Teenager Is Loose in Europe | 9 | |
| How I Got into the Movies | 12 | |
| The Smell of Grass | 16 | |
| Rapid Rites of Passage | 18 | |
| Benched | 23 | |
| Mollie's Moment | 26 | |
| The Tooth | 30 | |
| The Red Chevy | 32 | |
| My Secret Valentine | 36 | |
| My First Fish Story | 38 | |
| Play It as It Lays | 40 | |
| 2. | Sports, Vacations and other Adventures | |
| Finding My Way with Jesse | 44 | |
| He's Your Fish, Son | 49 | |
| Father at Sea | 54 | |
| Becoming a Jock Dad | 58 | |
| That's My Boy! | 62 | |
| Softball People | 66 | |
| Hunters' Bond | 72 | |
| The Family Ski Trip | 78 | |
| The Last Rainbow | 83 | |
| Final Season | 87 | |
| 3. | Rites of Passage | |
| No More Sunday Matinees | 94 | |
| The Important Test | 98 | |
| Daddy Loves His Car | 102 | |
| Fathers Are Good at Telling Tall Tales | 108 | |
| Nerd Day | 111 | |
| Another Milestone | 112 | |
| The Bank of Dad | 114 | |
| Last Words | 116 | |
| Taking Care of Things | 119 | |
| You Can Share My Daddy | 126 | |
| Little Boxes of Chocolates | 128 | |
| Don't Let Go, Dad! | 131 | |
| Daddy's Little Girl | 134 | |
| Grandpa Pinch-Hits | 137 | |
| Catch and Release | 143 | |
| Now I Understand My Dad | 149 | |
| 4. | Balancing Work and Family | |
| A Handful of Blackberries | 156 | |
| Family Picture | 162 | |
| A Father's Interpretation of 1 Corinthians 13 | 166 | |
| Statistics | 168 | |
| Working from Home | 170 | |
| My Biggest Fan | 173 | |
| Where Am I Going So Fast? | 174 | |
| Employee of the Year | 177 | |
| You Can Do Anything | 179 | |
| Taking the Time | 181 | |
| 5. | Special Moments | |
| Riding Tandem | 184 | |
| A Secret Promise Kept | 190 | |
| Longer, Daddy ... Longer | 194 | |
| What Any Father Would Do | 196 | |
| I'm Daddy's Girl | 198 | |
| The Walnut Tree | 200 | |
| A Different Perspective | 206 | |
| Golf Balls in Heaven | 208 | |
| The Confession | 211 | |
| The Stranger Who Became My Dad | 213 | |
| My Father's Day Card | 217 | |
| My Wife Is Having a Baby | 219 | |
| The Color of Love | 223 | |
| A Piece of Chalk | 227 | |
| Holding Hands | 230 | |
| More Than a Friend | 233 | |
| A Young Man's Odyssey | 235 | |
| 6. | Overcoming Obstacles | |
| Perfection | 242 | |
| Nonstop | 246 | |
| Babies and Restaurants Are the Chernobyl of Parenting | 252 | |
| If You Love Me, Say That! | 256 | |
| Night Moves | 258 | |
| The Gag Gift | 260 | |
| For My Grandson | 264 | |
| When Life Throws a Hardball | 266 | |
| A Year of Firsts | 271 | |
| My Father, the Hero | 274 | |
| The Lovesick Father | 278 | |
| My Father's Fishing Partner | 282 | |
| Hello ... Good-Bye, Daddy | 289 | |
| The Most Precious Gift | 293 | |
| A Favorite Recollection | 296 | |
| The Turtle | 299 | |
| Down Suicide Hill | 303 | |
| 7. | A Father's Wisdom | |
| A New Perspective | 308 | |
| Uncle Bun | 309 | |
| Once the Son, Now the Father | 311 | |
| Dad, I Have a Beach Ball | 316 | |
| Pass It On | 319 | |
| A War Story | 324 | |
| My Forever Valentine | 326 | |
| Dad's Squirrel | 329 | |
| My Father, My Son, My Self | 333 | |
| Thank You, Dad | 339 | |
| More Chicken Soup? | 343 | |
| Supporting Children and Families | 344 | |
| Who Is Jack Canfield? | 345 | |
| Who Is Mark Victor Hansen? | 346 | |
| Who Is Jeff Aubery? | 347 | |
| Who Are Mark and Chrissy Donnelly? | 348 | |
| Contributors | 349 | |
| Permissions | 361 |
Anonymous
Posted May 26, 2011
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Overview
The coauthors of Chicken Soup for the Golfer's Soul, USA Today's #1 bestselling sports book of 1999, bring readers this sure-fire hit for fathers celebrating the joys and challenges of fatherhood.New dads, granddads, single dads and dads-to-be - this book offers them all an entertaining and inspiring collection of stories on the triumphs and trials of the amazing journey called fatherhood. Chapters include: Special Moments, Overcoming Obstacles, Insights and Lessons, The Joys of Fatherhood, Across the Generations, and Achieving Dreams. By sharing true experiences and insights, this book provides reassurance to fathers and a reminder to cherish the special moments in life.