Complete Without Kids: An Insider's Guide to Childfree Living by Choice or by Chanceby Ellen Walker
In Complete Without Kids, Licensed Clinical Psychologist Ellen L. Walker examines the often-ignored question of what it means to be childfree, by choice or by circumstance, in a family-focused society. Recognizing that there is no one childfree adult, the author guides the reader through the positive and negative aspects of childfree living, taking into consideration the different issues faced by men or women, couples or singles, whether gay or straight.
As a woman who is childfree by choice, Walker draws upon her personal experience while also offering the reader numerous interviews with other childfree adults, revealing behind-the-scenes factors that influenced their personal journeys. She approaches the tough-decision making process of whether or not to have children from a biological, historical, and societal perspective, offering valuable information on:
- The unique set of problems that childfree adults face simply due to living in a culture that celebrates babies and traditional families
- Methods to cope with the pressure to have children from media, family, and friends in a healthy way -
How to create balance and approach the leisure time allowed by a childfree lifestyle -
Financial, health, and personal benefits associated with childfree living
Offering support, guidance, and thought-provoking questions, Complete Without Kids is a productive guide for any reader considering the childfree path.
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Meet the Author
Herbert J. Cooke, Jr., was born at Goose Air Base, Newfoundland, Canada, and raised in Yorktown, Virginia. He retired from the Air Force as a Security Forces Specialist in 2010. He has experience in security, law enforcement, canine operations, intercontinental ballistic missile protection, and contingency planning. He has traveled all over the United States and has spent time in England, Germany, Kuwait, Egypt, Korea, Panama, Spain, Honduras, and Bolivia. He currently resides in Northern Virginia.
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Complete Without Kids: An Insider's Guide to Childfree Living by Choice or by Chance by Ellen L. Walker caught my attention because of my interest to seek out books that support a voluntary choice to be child-free. I am thankful for all of my family members and friends. Additionally, some of the celebrities and people that I admire in real life are parents. However, it is important to me that I collect information on others who bravely share their stories on being childfree. This is especially due to both my acceptance and awareness that there are others who are going to judge my husband and I for voluntarily choosing to be child-free. Additionally, I come from a large family where many of the adults enjoy being parents and a big portion of their identity is proudly tied into that life experience. To be one of the few adults to politely declare my decision to be kid-free can be tricky in such a situation. I actually knew since the age of 8 that I was going to choose the child-free path, but I was obviously only taken seriously in my decision about 9 years ago (after I got married). Walker courageously interviews and shares the stories of other adults who have chosen to be child-free. She explains the dynamics behind the decision making of voluntarily choosing to be childfree and how the concepts of love and money tie into such an important choice. There are also resources included for those who are certain that they want to partake in the child-free route. “Complete Without Kids: An Insider’s Guide to Childfree Living by Choice Or By Chance” by Ellen Walker is also a suitable accompaniment to Kidfree & Lovin It by Kaye D. Walters.