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Controlling and Manipulative Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them
     

Controlling and Manipulative Men: How to Spot Them and Handle Them

by Lyn Kelley
 

Edited and revised 2014! Lyn Kelley, Ph.D., CPC, drawing from 25+ years of experience, gives you ALL the little-known secret tactics that controllers and manipulators use but DON'T want you to know! She tells you what to say to the controller to get him off his position and onto yours. How to know the severity of his case, how to know if he can change, how to

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Edited and revised 2014! Lyn Kelley, Ph.D., CPC, drawing from 25+ years of experience, gives you ALL the little-known secret tactics that controllers and manipulators use but DON'T want you to know! She tells you what to say to the controller to get him off his position and onto yours. How to know the severity of his case, how to know if he can change, how to get "unhooked" and get him to surrender. Here's what you'll learn:
What is Control and When Is It Destructive?
The Difference Between Controlling and Manipulative
The Controlling Scale -- How Bad Is He?
How Women Get Hooked On Controlling, Manipulative Men
Living in a Dream World
Oxytocin
When Both Mates are Controlling
Passivity and Compliance
Alcohol and Addictions
Co-Dependency
Control, Anger and Hostility
The Mind of the Controller – Just a Scared Little Boy?
What Causes a Controlling Personality?
The Two Main Types of Control
Tactics Men Use to Control and Manipulate You
Controlling and Manipulative Ploys
Controlling Behaviors That Are Typically More “Female”
How to Know if You’re With a Controller/Manipulator
Your Five Guiding Forces
How to Use Your “Chi”
The 3 C’s to Watch Out For
How to Respond to the Controller/Manipulator
The 10 Best Ways to Manage a Controller/Manipulator
Never Tolerate Abuse
The Misogynist
Recovery for Addiction to a Controlling, Manipulative Man
How Do I End It?
Dating Detox
The Grieving Process
Your 10 Commandments for Relationships

Product Details

BN ID:
2940011112959
Publisher:
Lyn Kelley
Publication date:
07/06/2010
Sold by:
Smashwords
Format:
NOOK Book
Sales rank:
1,205,238
File size:
115 KB

Meet the Author

As a Motivational Coach and Speaker, my goal is “to empower people move to the next level of success in their lives.” Many people have asked for more information about me and why I am qualified to motivate others. So here’s a little bit about me and how I got here.It all started back in Fresno, CA where I was born and raised. As a child I knew I had a calling to help people be happier and live better lives. I knew this because I was keenly observant of people. I observed people and how they lived their lives. At age 10 a friend’s family invited me to a musical show called “Up With People!” This show had a major impact on me, and brought up my passion to help people be happier.Although my parents didn’t care about my grades, I received all A’s in school except I always failed Oral English. I couldn’t get up in front of the class and speak. What kept me going in school was my desire for a career in the helping/teaching profession, so I could help others become more successful.The females in my family were discouraged from going to college, so higher education became my way of rebelling. I earned my B.A. in Education from CSU Fresno. During college I had some wonderful professors who took me under their wing and encouraged me to speak in class. I learned that I enjoyed teaching and actually had a gift that had previously been repressed. I went on to get my teaching credential and taught Jr. and Sr. High School for 7 years. I went from a shy little girl who couldn’t speak in front of the class to a big girl who couldn’t STOP speaking in front of the class!Teaching adolescents was an amazing experience! I found that I wanted to work with them more one-on-one, so I went back to college to become a counselor. I received my M.S. in Counseling/Psychology from the University of Miami and became licensed as a Marriage & Family Therapist. Initially I set out to get a wide range of experience. I worked in a children’s psych hospital in dual diagnosis, managed a residential treatment program for severely emotionally disturbed teenage girls, did biofeedback therapy for a pain management center, and worked in social services in the areas of foster care, child abuse and family reunification.Once I became licensed I worked in a private counseling practice for 7 years. I specialized in relationship counseling. During this time I realized that coaching, writing and teaching were what I really loved to do, so I started writing books for healthcare professionals and teaching continuing education courses. I became particularly interested in the field of motivation and coaching and worked on this as a specialty. I founded GROW Training Institute, Inc. which is a coach training organization, and became a Certified Professional Coach. I then coached myself through my Doctoral Program and earned my Ph.D. in Health Science through a correspondence program.I can now freely pursue my true passions of writing, speaking, coaching and consulting! I have published 26 books and am working on my next one now.Many people have asked me what has most motivated me during my life? I believe that we all have internal motivation when we find our gift. My strong desire to help people become higher functioning, happier and more successful must have initially come from my internal desire to grow, learn, and improve my life and the world around me. It also came from my deep appreciation for my mentors and teachers who helped me overcome my anxieties and fears about success. It came from reading books by great self help/spiritual authors such as Wayne Dyer, Gary Zukav, Louise Hay, Marianne Williamson, Barbara DeAngelis and Tony Robbins. I have learned that it is fear that stops us most. We sabotage our own success due to our own fear of our own light. I want to help others overcome their obstacles and shine their light brightly, just as my mentors did for me.I now do business, relationship and life coaching. As a Business Coach, I conduct trainings for businesses, entrepreneurs, corporations and organizations all over the world. I do practice building consulting for mental health and medical providers. As a relationship coach I help people stop sabotaging themselves and create their ideal relationships. I work by telephone, Internet and face-to-face. If you are interested in receiving coaching or need a motivational speaker, please contact me! I wish you much success.See my YouTube video: The Biggest Mistake Women Make in Dating and Love Relationships-Lyn Kelley, Ph.D., LMFT, CPC

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