Conversations That Sell: Collaborate with Buyers and Make Every Conversation Count

Conversations That Sell: Collaborate with Buyers and Make Every Conversation Count

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by Nancy Bleeke

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Winner of the Top Sales World Magazine's 2013 Top Sales & Marketing Book Award, Gold Medal

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Winner of the Top Sales World Magazine's 2013 Top Sales & Marketing Book Award, Gold Medal

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The Importance of You in Selling:

Being a Real Part of the Solution

“Always be a first-rate version of yourself,

instead of a second-rate version of somebody else.”


With today’s marketers focusing the bulk of their resources on data, hype,

and having a powerful online presence, you might think that salespeople

are no longer relevant. You might fall into the trap of thinking that buyers

don’t need people in their buying process, taking up their time, when they

can get “all the information they need” instantaneously over the Internet.

Don’t believe it! In today’s world, where information is pervasive, you, the

sales professional, are more important than ever.

What? The seller is more important than ever?

Yes, you heard me right. You are an essential component of what you

sell. You are an essential component in many purchasing decisions.


For more than a decade, “experts” have predicted the demise of the sales

professional, arguing that online buying will significantly reduce or elimi-

nate the need for salespeople. Yet I haven’t seen that happen and I don’t expect

it will. What I have noticed, to the contrary, is that many online retailers

are adapting how they sell to include chat features that offer site visitors the

opportunity to connect with someone “live” to answer questions, discuss

options, and clarify information. They have found that personal attention

and assistance leads to selling more product.

This confirms my belief that there will always be a need for people to

sell to people. In fact, as of 2010, the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics reports

that there are over 13.4 million salespeople in the United States alone; and

if you’ve checked the job listings lately, you’ll find thousands of sales jobs

waiting to be filled.

Why is that? Why do buyers still need salespeople when they have access

to so much information? Let’s take a closer look.

With the commoditization of many products and services, combined

with the proliferation of information, you are often the differentiating factor

in a prospect’s decision to buy. While pricing, delivery, and the solution

itself are important, what makes a buyer choose your solution over your

competitor’s is often you—your understanding of their situation, your

concern for their need, your ideas about how they might best use your solution,

and the confidence you give them in your company’s solution. In

short, they need what you personally bring to the sales process and solution

during and after the sale—both in the business-to-business (B2B) sector,

where solutions tend to be more complex, and in the business-to-consumer

(B2C) marketplace, where personal experience and ability to relate to the

consumer count—a lot. You add value to the solution and that value closes

more sales.

Let me share an example from my own experience.

Early in my sales career, I took the advice of a mentor who suggested

that I would win more business if I focused on my product, not my expertise,

and modeled myself—style, dress, and demeanor—after a certain successful

sales professional in my industry. Her message was that the product

would sell itself if I didn’t get in the way.

As a young upstart business owner, I thought I ought to listen. If that

meant being invisible and just selling the product, well, that was okay by

me. But that well-meaning, old-school coaching nearly cost me my first

big sales opportunity—a multi-year training engagement in the financial

services industry.

I managed to land the project after some quick scrambling, but it ended

up costing me dearly—tens of thousands of dollars over a four-year period.

Why? Because I was so busy trying to stay out of the way, so focused on the

product pitch and being invisible, that I lost sight of the value I added to the

solution, and, consequently, so did the client. Bottom line, I did a great job selling

the product because they wanted my solution, but they didn’t want me.

I salvaged the deal by hiring a trainer who had the experience the client

requested and fit their suggested profile—someone older, preferably male,

with gray hair or, better yet, bald!—while I took on the role of account executive.

The percentage I paid my colleague deeply eroded my profitability

and cost me referrals that went to him as the front man.

Over time, though, I gained confidence and began demonstrating my

competence as a resource for the client, finding answers even when it wasn’t

my direct responsibility, driving the ongoing implementation, offering my

experience and advice, and using my talents to “get it done.”

After one particularly productive meeting where I was able to share

some of my knowledge, insight, and suggestions, one of the leaders who

had been part of the original selection team asked, “Where were you during

the sales process?”

I wanted to stammer, “What? Where was I? I was the one working

twelve-hour days to meet your deadlines and compile the information requested

by your thirteen-person decision team, each and every step of the

way.” But I wisely kept my mouth shut as she went on to say that if the decision

team had seen how smart, knowledgeable, funny, and personable I

was, I wouldn’t have needed to bring in my training colleague!

Hearing that hard truth was tough, but it taught me a valuable lesson

about the importance of being part of what I sell—of letting my personality

and unique strengths come through. If only I hadn’t hidden behind the

product, thinking that was all that mattered. If only I hadn’t blindly followed

my mentor’s direction to focus only on the product and not incorporate

“me” into the process and solution. If only I had demonstrated that I was

part of the solution and the value they would receive, I would have closed

the sale with fewer complications and a much higher profit.

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Meet the Author

NANCY BLEEKE is president of Sales Pro Insider, a training and consulting firm specializing in sales effectiveness. Her clients include Motorola, CVS-Caremark, Celestica, MassMutual, and Rexnord.

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Conversations That Sell: Collaborate with Buyers and Make Every Conversation Count 5 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 3 reviews.
KMH3030 More than 1 year ago
Conversations That Sell is full of straight forward and useful information on how to approach selling in today’s business world. Nancy Bleeke explains that sellers need to adapt to the way sales currently work, and that means using new sales techniques. Gone are the days of the slick shyster salesman; thanks to the internet and how easy information is to access, customers are too informed for this to work. Bleeke advocates straightforward, collaborative sales techniques that will benefit the salesperson, the customer, and the business, creating a win-win-win situation. I really liked Bleeke’s advice and found this book both very insightful and useful. She outlines strong sales practices and details why they are useful today, how there are different types of customers (and how to meet each groups needs), and covers a five step sales system. I think this book is a complete guide for improving or learning sales skills, and is easy to read and follow. I received a free copy of the book in exchange for an honest review.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Conversations that Sell is a great book for anyone who “sells” ideas and solutions to others!  Nancy Bleeke provides a systematic approach, that when followed, results in success.  Her illustrative examples and real life scenarios help you relate to the concepts and make you see what you can already adapt about your own communication and selling style or adopt to be more effective. If you’re  tired of sales books that “pitch” you ideas, be sure to read this one. It’s packed full of proven ideas that you can “tweak” to make your own instead of “must do this way” information.  It’s not designed to tell you what to do – instead, it gets you thinking about successful conversations that sell and what YOU can do to make yours more effective. Definitely a recipe for long term commitment and success! Great insights for both professional and personal application. 
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Excellent book that not only provide tips on how to properly prepare for a sales meeting but it also provides a number of tools to ensure your success. This is a must have book for all, individuals new to sales and the most experienced. There is something in here for everyone.