Crucial Accountability: Tools for Resolving Violated Expectations, Broken Commitments, and Bad Behavior
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Overview
Research proves that mishandled disappointments aren't just morale killers, they're institution killersdiminishing organizational performance by 20 to 50 percent and accounting for up to 90 percent of all divorces.
Drawing from 10,000 hours of observations, Crucial Accountability teaches you how to deal with common infractions such as:
An employee speaks to you in an insulting tone that crosses the line between sarcasm and insubordination. Now what?
Your boss just demanded that you meet a deadline you know you can't meetand he clearly doesn't want to hear complaints about it.
Your son walks through the door sporting colorful new body art that raises your blood pressure by 40 points. Speak now or pay later.
Family members fret over how to tell Granddad that he should no longer drive his car. This is going to get ugly.
A nurse worries about what to say to an abusive physician. She quickly remembers "how things work around here" and decides not to say anything.
Everyone knows how to run for cover, or, if sufficiently provoked, step up to problems in a way that causes a real ruckus. Crucial Accountability teaches you how to deal with violated expectations in a way that solves the problem at hand without harming the relationshipand, in fact, even strengthens it.
Broken promises, missed deadlines, poor behaviorthey don't just make others’ lives miserable; they can sap up to 50 percent of organizational performance and account for the vast majority of divorces. Crucial Accountability offers the tools for improving relationships in the workplace and in life and for resolving all these problemspermanently.
PRAISE FOR CRUCIAL ACCOUNTABILITY:
"Revolutionary ideas ... opportunities for breakthrough ..." Stephen R. Covey, author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
"Unleash the true potential of a relationship or organization and move it to the next level." Ken Blanchard, coauthor of The One Minute Manager
"The most recommended and most effective resource in my library." Stacey Allerton Firth, Vice President, Human Resources, Ford of Canada
"Brilliant strategies for those difficult discussions at home and in the workplace." Soledad O'Brien, CNN news anchor and producer
"This book is the real deal.... Read it, underline it, learn from it. It's a gem." Mike Murray, VP Human Resources and Administration (retired), Microsoft
Product Details
ISBN-13: | 9780071830607 |
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Publisher: | McGraw Hill LLC |
Publication date: | 06/21/2013 |
Edition description: | Net |
Pages: | 304 |
Sales rank: | 1,103,574 |
Product dimensions: | 6.30(w) x 9.10(h) x 1.10(d) |
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McGraw-Hill authors represent the leading experts in their fields and are dedicated to improving the lives, careers, and interests of readers worldwide
Table of Contents
Foreword xiii
Preface xvii
Acknowledgments xviii
Introduction: What Is Crucial Accountability? And Who Cares? 1
Part 1 Work on Me First What to Do Before an Accountability Conversation 15
Chapter 1 Choose What and If How to Know What Conversation to Hold and If You Should Hold It 17
Chapter 2 Master My Stories How to Get Your Head Right Before Opening Your Mouth 47
Part 2 Create Safety What to Do During an Accountability Conversation 73
Chapter 3 Describe the Gap How to Start an Accountability Conversation 75
Chapter 4 Make It Motivating How to Help Others Want to Take Action 105
Chapter 5 Make It Easy How to Make Keeping Commitments (Almost) Painless 137
Chapter 6 Stay Focused and Flexible What to Do When Others Get Sidetracked, Scream, or Sulk 165
Part 3 Move to Action What to Do After an Accountability Conversation 193
Chapter 7 Agree on a Plan and Follow Up How to Gain Commitment and Move to Action 195
Chapter 8 Put It All Together How to Solve Big, Sticky, Complicated Problems 211
Chapter 9 The 12 "Yeah-Buts" How to Deal with the Truly Tough 225
Appendix A Where Do You Stand? A Self-Assessment for Measuring Your Accountability Conversation Skills 247
Appendix B Six-Source Diagnostic Questions The Six-Source Model 252
Appendix C When Things Go Right 256
Appendix D Discussion Questions for Reading Groups 263
Notes 265
Index 267