Dating from the Inside Out: How to Use the Law of Attraction in Matters of the Heart [NOOK Book]

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Dr. Sherman's methods have worked for her clients and even herself. Now with her help, find the perfect match for you!

Each of us deserves to love and be loved in return. How can you find real, deep, and lasting love in a world that appears so superficial? Rather than looking at the world of dating like an obstacle course to be conquered, Dr. Paulette Kouffman Sherman shows that it can become an enlightening journey toward love that begins ...
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Dating from the Inside Out: How to Use the Law of Attraction in Matters of the Heart

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Overview

Dr. Sherman's methods have worked for her clients and even herself. Now with her help, find the perfect match for you!

Each of us deserves to love and be loved in return. How can you find real, deep, and lasting love in a world that appears so superficial? Rather than looking at the world of dating like an obstacle course to be conquered, Dr. Paulette Kouffman Sherman shows that it can become an enlightening journey toward love that begins from within. By examining past experiences, understanding family dynamics, and exploring the place of spiritual connection in the dating world, Dr. Sherman illuminates the path to self-awareness -- the path that leads to the kind of real love you have been searching for. Finding your dating style and the set of beliefs you hold about your self-worth liberates you from just spinning your wheels and repeating mistakes. Dr. Sherman shows how we can become the partner we wish to attract, and asserts that anyone can learn how to truly let go of their past, embrace the present, and use the Law of Attraction to draw in a partner who is perfect for who you are -- without pretending to be someone you're not.
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"Dating From the Inside Out is a rare combination of sophisticated psychology, humanistic spirituality, and practical instruction for those seeking fulfillment in partnership. The wonderful surprise about Dr. Sherman's book is that it's not just for singles! It is equally a welcome refresher course for those looking to reinvigorate their relationships by creating new communication patterns that support loving and healthful interactions." — Dr. Faith Bethelard, coauthor of Cherishment: A Psychology of the Heart

"In a world immersed in match.com, J-Date, and a host of other attempts at liaisons, Dr. Paulette Sherman brings us a book which addresses intimacy and passion, as well as self-knowledge. It's a wonderful resource for therapists who continue to meet clients with a genuine desire for relationships with a future. Our writer is a woman of integrity and insight. Her words are those of a mature writer; her spirit of enthusiasm and hope not just enlighten, but envision a better future for the reader. This writer and her fine book have my enthusiastic endorsement." — Bruce Lackie, Ph.D., director of The Black Rock Center for Psychotrauma

"Dr. Sherman has produced an extremely well written, lucid manual that really goes beyond dating, to living in general. Using her own experiences and those of her clients, she has produced a roadmap that is easy to follow and which, if followed, should lead to a great deal of satisfaction in finding people with whom to be happy. She has translated important concepts from her experience as a therapist and as a dating coach into everyday language that is easy to understand." — Dr. Robert Myers, ABPP, psychologist and professor of psychology at the Institute of Graduate Clinical Psychology at Widener University

"This book distills the wisdom of a hundred years of psychology to its most essential and practical basics: Understand your past to better control your dating future. Its techniques are clear, sensible, and revealing." — Barry J. Jacobs, Psy.D., author of The Emotional Survival Guide for Caregivers

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Product Details

  • ISBN-13: 9781416564461
  • Publisher: Atria Books/Beyond Words
  • Publication date: 2/19/2008
  • Sold by: SIMON & SCHUSTER
  • Format: eBook
  • Pages: 176
  • Sales rank: 1,311,455
  • File size: 688 KB

Meet the Author

Dr. Paulette Kouffman Sherman is a licensed psychologist and the owner and director of My Dating School in Manhattan (www.mydatingschool.com), where she facilitates classes on dating issues. She pens a monthly dating column, "Dr. Date," in The Improper, a popular New York lifestyle and entertainment magazine, and has been quoted in many publications, including Glamour. Dr. Sherman is a regular speaker at The Learning Annex, has been a dating expert on radio and television, and has coached many private clients on creating successful relationships. She lives in Brooklyn, New York, with her husband.
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Table of Contents

Preface     ix
Acknowledgments     xv
Introduction     xvii
Unconscious Dating
Your Relationship Pattern: Recreating Old Experiences in the Present     3
Unpack Your Dating Baggage: Leaving Your Past Behind You     13
Discover Your Original Blueprint: Making Your First Relationships Conscious     23
Your Defensive Dating Style: Erecting Walls That Define Your Dating Style     31
Your Relationship to "No": Dealing with Rejection     53
Be the Partner You Wish to Attract
You Are Who You Date: Attracting Who and What You Create     69
Fall in Love with You: Love Yourself and Attract Even More Love     81
Commit to Your Life Vision: Building the Ideal So the Ideal Mate Will Follow     89
Conscious Dating
Date While You Are Awake: Setting Clear Intentions to Create What You Want     107
See Clearly: Sizing Up a New Relationship     117
Take Action Now: Transforming Insight into Action     127
Internet Dating: You've Got Mail!     151
Dating Resource Guide: Inspring Recommendations     159
Afterword     167
Glossary     169
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