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Dear Pen Pal (The Mother-Daughter Book Club Series #3)

Dear Pen Pal (The Mother-Daughter Book Club Series #3)

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by Heather Vogel Frederick

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The third book in the Mother-Daughter Book Club series by Heather Vogel Frederick follows the girls for a new year of humor and friendship.


The third book in the Mother-Daughter Book Club series by Heather Vogel Frederick follows the girls for a new year of humor and friendship.

Editorial Reviews

Children's Literature - Phyllis Kennemer
The four book club girls are experiencing life changes in eighth grade. Jess is attending an exclusive private school, compliments of an anonymous donor; Megan's grandmother moves in with her family; Cassidy's mom is expecting a baby; and Emma is finding her place as editor of the school newspaper. Each of the chapters, based on seasons (beginning with autumn), has a section narrated by one of the girls. Readers who have enjoyed the first two books may feel like they are visiting old friends. Those who read this book first will spend a lot of time trying to figure out who these characters are and which one is doing the talking at any given time. In fact, it takes a while to discern who is in the club and who is not. One of the mothers makes arrangements for the girls to each have a pen pal with a mother-daughter book club in Wyoming. The Concord girls, their moms, and several other people travel to Wyoming in the last chapter (summer). References are made throughout to their current reading selection: Daddy-Long-Legs by Jean Webster. That book has some similarities to Jess's situation, with a young woman attending college, thanks to a mysterious benefactor. As the distinct personalities of the girls and their situations emerge, the various stories come together for a satisfying conclusion. "The Mother-Daughter Club" series. Reviewer: Phyllis Kennemer, Ph.D.
School Library Journal
Gr 5–8—The girls of the mother-daughter book club enter eighth grade with major changes on the horizon. Jess attends boarding school, where she struggles to get along with her roommate. Megan's grandmother comes to stay, causing tension in the Wong household. Cassidy is less than thrilled at the news that her mother and stepfather are expecting a baby. And Emma is balancing her relationship with Stewart Chadwick with her role as editor of the school newspaper. The club is reading Jean Webster's novels this year—including Daddy-Long-Legs—inspired by Jess's move to boarding school—and its members are corresponding with participants in a mother-daughter book club in Wyoming. As in previous books, there are a lot of subplots and characters to keep track of, and this makes it difficult for the author to fully explore the issues and conflicts raised. Problems are tied up a bit too neatly, but readers will continue to recognize personality traits and relate to the situations that the girls experience. Fans of the series should enjoy this latest offering, and will be looking forward to the characters' upcoming move to high school.—Amanda Raklovits, Champaign Public Library, IL

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Simon & Schuster Books For Young Readers
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Mother-Daughter Book Club Series , #3
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5.12(w) x 7.62(h) x 1.20(d)
850L (what's this?)
Age Range:
9 - 12 Years

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Dear Pen Pal

“When you get accustomed to people or places or ways of living, and then have them suddenly snatched away, it does leave an awfully empty, gnawing sort of sensation.”


Dear Miss Delaney . . .

“What’s this?” I ask, picking up the letter that’s lying in the middle of my plate and scooching my chair closer to the table.

“I guess you’ll have to read it and find out, won’t you?” my mother replies. There’s a funny tone in her voice and she’s smiling across the table at my dad. One of those mysterious we know something you don’t kind of smiles.

Frowning, I start to read:

“Dear Miss Delaney,

Congratulations! We’re delighted to inform you that you have been nominated for a Colonial Academy Founder’s Award. Created in honor of Harriett Witherspoon, the illustrious educator and suffragette who established our school, this award for academic excellence is offered each year to an outstanding local eighth-grade girl. It is indeed an honor to be nominated for this scholarship, and we hope you will accept it. Once again, congratulations—we look forward to welcoming you to our school!”

I toss the letter aside and start assembling my burger. “I don’t want to go to Colonial Academy,” I tell my parents matter-of-factly. “Pass the ketchup please, Dylan.”

My little brother removes one sticky paw from the ear of corn he’s busy gnawing and shoves the bottle over to me. I pick it up gingerly, trying to avoid the buttery smears where his fingers touched it. Out of the corner of my eye I see my parents exchange a glance.

“Honey, are you sure you understand?” says my mother. “They’re offering you a full scholarship!”


“Shouldn’t you at least think it over?”

“I did,” I reply, slapping the top of the bun onto my burger. “I don’t want to go.”

My mother glances over at my dad again, her brow puckering with concern.

I sigh. “Look,” I tell them. “I want to stay at Walden Middle School with my friends. I don’t want to go to some dumb boarding school with a bunch of snobby rich kids.”

Dylan and Ryan start to snicker.

“Hush!” My mother frowns at them, then turns her attention to me again. “Sweetheart, they’re not snobby rich kids.” She pauses. “Well, some of them are rich, that’s true, but underneath they’re just normal girls like you.”

My mouth, which is open to take a bite of hamburger, gapes at her instead. “Normal? Mom, gimme a break! Have you been downtown and seen those kids? Some of them have chauffeurs! Their parents are movie stars and politicians and stuff like that.”

“Moooovie stars!” chorus the twins.

“Boys!” my mother scolds again. “Jess, I think you’re exaggerating just a tiny bit, don’t you? There are plenty of wealthy people who are perfectly nice and normal. Just look at the Wongs. You’d never know they were—”

“Bazillionaires?” my dad suggests.

“Michael! I’m trying to make a point here, and you’re not helping.”

“Sorry,” my dad says cheerfully.

“At any rate,” my mother continues, “I think you’re being too hasty about this decision, Jess. It’s an amazing opportunity. Besides, you already spend part of your day away from Walden—I don’t see how going to Colonial Academy would be all that different.”

“True,” says my father. “It’s not like it’s in China—it’s right here in town.”

Great. Now he’s ganging up on me too. How can I make them understand why I don’t want to leave Walden Middle School? Especially after it’s taken me so long to fit in. Sure, they’re right, I’ll be taking math and science classes at Alcott High again this year, but that’s hardly the same as being away from my friends all day every day. What would I do without Emma and Cassidy and Megan? Where would I sit at lunch? And how could I leave Half Moon Farm, the one place on earth I feel completely happy and safe? I like sleeping in my own bed, in my own room. I don’t want to have to sleep in a dormitory, and share a room with some girl I don’t even know.

I set my hamburger down on my plate. My stomach is starting to tie itself in knots. “I just don’t want to go,” I say flatly.

My parents are silent. The only sound in the room is coming from my brothers, who are chomping loudly on their corn. I look out the window and spot a familiar figure on a bike, riding past our farm-stand. It’s Kevin Mullins. He’s been doing this all summer. He’ll ride by, and if he spots me in the front yard he makes a beeline in my direction, telling me he was “just in the neighborhood.” Which is a big lie, because he lives way up on Ripley Hill Road and my house isn’t on the way to anything.

“This really is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity,” my father says. “Surely there must be some nice girls who go to Colonial Academy.”

Nice? I think of the squadrons of students parading around downtown in their designer clothes, bragging to one another about their vacations to places like Nantucket and Palm Beach and Switzerland. The girls from Colonial Academy are like a whole fleet of Becca Chadwicks, only worse. At least Becca never called us “townies.” I shake my head again.

But my mother isn’t taking no for an answer. “Your father’s right,” she says. “You already know some of the students there. Lots of people here in town send their daughters to Colonial once they get to middle school and high school. There’s Nicole Patterson, and that Bartlett boy’s older sister—what’s her name?”

“Lauren,” I mutter.

“That’s the one. And how about Ellery Watson? You used to play with her sometimes back in elementary school.”

I can tell by the looks on their faces that my parents are really excited about this stupid Founder’s Award, but accepting it is absolutely, positively out of the question. Goat Girl at a private school? I would so not fit in.

My mother places her hand on my father’s arm. “Talk to her, Michael,” she urges.

My dad reaches over and tugs on my braid. “At least think it over, okay? Colonial Academy is one of the best schools in the country.”

“How’d they even get my name?” I grumble.

My mother reaches for a manila envelope on the sideboard behind her and pulls out a sheaf of pages. She riffles through them, then plucks one out. “Let’s see here . . . award . . . Witherspoon . . . local eighth-grader. That’s funny—there’s no mention of who nominated you.”

“Don’t you think that’s kind of creepy? It’s like somebody’s been spying on me.”

My father laughs. “It just means that someone observed your academic abilities, honey. Your principal, probably, or maybe one of the guidance counselors. It would be pretty hard not to notice the smartest kid at Walden.”

“I’m not the smartest,” I reply sullenly. “Kevin Mullins is way smarter than I am.” My eyes stray to the window. By the entrance to our driveway, Kevin is still riding around in circles.

“He didn’t get nominated,” says my mother. “Colonial Academy is a girls’ school.”

Which is another really good reason not to go, in my opinion. But I keep that thought to myself, because it’s obvious my parents have their minds made up already.

My mother pulls out another sheet of paper. “They sent us an invitation to tour the academy and its facilities, followed by lunch with the headmistress. New student orientation starts soon, so we’ll have to hop on this if we’re going to make it happen.”

“But I don’t want to make it happen!” I tell her, starting to feel a little desperate. “What about my chores? Who’s going to help look after the goats and the chickens and everything? Half Moon Farm needs me!”

“We’ll work something out,” says my dad. “The boys are going into the third grade—they’re responsible enough to take over the morning milking. You did at their age.”

I shoot my twin brothers a skeptical look. “Responsible” is not the first word that comes to mind when I think of Dylan and Ryan. They may be almost nine, but they act more like they’re six most of the time.

My mother plucks a brochure from the pile of papers she’s holding and slides it across the table to me. “Just look at this place, Jess! State-of-the-art science labs, a professional theater, a fabulous music department—you could take voice lessons again! There’s even an equestrian center.”

I glance down at the brochure. I didn’t know Colonial Academy had horses.

“It would be kind of like getting an early taste of college,” my father coaxes.

“College?” I leap to my feet. “I’m not even fourteen yet! Why are you trying to get rid of me?”

I storm upstairs and fling myself on my bed. Sugar and Spice, our two Shetland sheepdogs, are close on my heels. They pace around my room anxiously, whining. The dogs hate it when I’m upset. But how could I not be? I can’t believe my parents are even seriously considering this. Colonial Academy? No way. I grab the phone off my night table and dial the Hawthornes’ number. I need to talk to my best friend.

Emma picks up on the first ring. “Hey,” she says.

“Hey back.”

“Oh, it’s you. Hi, Jess.”

She sounds a little surprised, and I realize she was probably expecting Stewart Chadwick.

“Something awful happened,” I blurt out, my voice quivering. “I got this letter from Colonial Academy and it turns out I’ve been nominated for some scholarship and my parents want me to go but I don’t want to!”

“Whoa, hold on a sec. Run that by me again?”

I take a deep breath and repeat everything I just told her.

Emma is quiet for a long time. A really long time. So long, in fact, that I start to think maybe she’s hung up on me.

“Are you still there?”

“Yeah,” she replies. “I’m just thinking.”

“What’s there to think about? It’s a horrible idea.”

“I suppose,” she says. “I mean, it would be horrible not to see you at school every day. But it’s not like you’d be going to China or someplace.”

My stomach lurches. Emma is sounding weirdly like my parents. She was the one person I thought I could count on to be on my side. “You mean you think I should go?”

My bedroom door opens a crack and my mother pokes her head in. I frown and point at the phone, but she tiptoes in anyway and places the Colonial Academy brochure at the foot of my bed, then sneaks out. She leaves it open to the picture of the stables. A beautiful chestnut mare stares at me from out of one of the stalls.

“You’ve got to admit it’s an honor to be nominated for something like this,” Emma continues. “Your mom and dad are right about that. I think you should at least go check it out. I mean, think about it—boarding school! That’s pretty cool.”

“Maybe I should call Cassidy and see what she thinks.”

“She’s still at her grandparents’, remember?”

Cassidy’s mother got married a couple of weeks ago and she and Stanley Kinkaid, Cassidy’s new stepfather, are on their honeymoon. Cassidy and her older sister Courtney are staying with their grandparents at their condo in downtown Boston.

“I’ll ask Megan, then.”

“She went with the Chadwicks to Cape Cod.”

It’s Labor Day weekend, and most of the rest of the world is off someplace having a last blast of fun before school starts. Not us, of course. This time of year the Delaneys never budge from Half Moon Farm. Too much work to be done. The Hawthornes don’t go away very often either. They’re on kind of a tight budget, plus Emma’s dad always says he hates fighting holiday traffic and who’d want to be anywhere but beautiful Concord this time of year anyway?

“Boarding school, Jess!” Emma repeats. “That’s so awesome! Maybe I could come visit you sometime.”

Perfect. Now Emma’s sounding excited too. And even a little bit envious.

“Still,” she adds quickly, “I’d really miss you.”

“Don’t worry,” I tell her, shoving the brochure off the bed with my toe. “You won’t have to miss me. There’s no way on earth I’m ever going to Colonial Academy.”

Meet the Author

Heather Vogel Frederick is the award-winning author of the Mother-Daughter Book Club series, Absolutely Truly, the Patience Goodspeed books, the Spy Mice series, and Once Upon a Toad. An avid fan of all things maple, Heather and her husband have recently been transplanted from Portland, Oregon, back to New England, close to where Heather grew up. You can learn more about the author and her books at HeatherVogelFrederick.com.

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Anonymous More than 1 year ago
luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuv these books i was soooo excited to open these up on Christmas morning i can so relate to these books they are perfect i think for every girl ages 10-15 or any age. I love how these girls are so dedicated to do things for their friends i feel as if they real and that i have befriended them. i share the same emotions with them i just can't wait until the 5th book comes out!
TeensReadToo More than 1 year ago
This year, the club talks about Daddy Long-Legs while dealing with their own boarding school drama. Jess moves to the private boarding school in the same town. She's trying to acclimate into her new posh school while the other girls are trying to get used to school without their friend. Plus, their mothers have a new surprise for them. They're going to become pen pals with another mother-daughter book club in the Midwest . At first the girls are apprehensive, but as the year continues the letters flow between girls and connections are made. The third book in this warm series about friendship, family, and reading is packed with evil roommates, first boyfriends, a first kiss, a new sibling, grandmother and mother rivalry, a secret puppy, a prank war, and an unexpected trip. I wonder where high school will bring the daughters and their mothers.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I haven't read this installment, but I read the first two books in the series. My 12-year-old daughter was thrilled to open the book on Christmas morning, and she had finished it within 2 days. She is urging me to read it so we can talk about it. I plan to read the book soon. My daughter loves the characters and identifies with them. The books aren't engrossing for adults, but they're wonderful for adolescent girls.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I have read all 3 books and this is really one of the best.great for a summer read.The girls are in another year of book club and Jess is going to a local boarding school paired up with a snotty senators daughter,in the book the girls learn to get along with Jess at the other school,and Jess getting along to.
Mother-Daughter-Book-Club More than 1 year ago
Emma, Jess, Megan and Cassidy are back for another year of reading in their mother-daughter book club in Heather Vogel Frederick's new book, Dear Pen Pal. Cracking this third book in the mother-daughter book club series is like reconnecting with old friends. The girls are in eighth grade this year, and they've learned a lot about friendship and family relationships. In their ever-evolving lives, as it is with most of us, just when they figure out how to handle one challenge, another pops up. This time the challenges include dealing with a mean-spirited boarding school roommate, changing family dynamics when new family members move in and others move out, and navigating relationships with boys. The girls are reading Daddy Long Legs by Jean Webster, and Frederick once again seamlessly weaves in storylines that somewhat match those of Webster's classic. The girls and moms learn fun facts about Jean Webster as they gather for book club discussions. The book club members also connect with a pen pal club in Gopher Hole, Wyoming, and it's fun to read little snippets about the lives of these new girls and their moms through their letters. I can't wait to see what the whole gang will be up to in the fourth book of the series when the girls start high school. I highly recommend this whole series for members of mother-daughter book clubs with girls who are 9 to 13.
Annika Lundberg More than 1 year ago
This series is an excellent series about friendships, different points of view and just reading! I am reading Anne of Green Gables now (Much Ado About Anne) and it is a good way to start a book club or start thinking about the book...or thinking about it in a different perspective! I am about 3% through this book and it sames good so far!!!!!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I adore heather vogel frederick and have read this book multiple times. great series.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
So romantic. I wish i had their lives. Boyz and friendships. Sigh niccole v
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
This book is great, it is about finding new friends that you might have thought would never be your friends. Also to try new things and venture out. Also even if you think a boy doesn't like you, you never know he might. This is a great novel about friendships and teen drama. Can't wait for the next one
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Great book. I reccommend it highly for ages 10+. Its great, the girls make new friends, and lessons. THIS IS A MUST READ!
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&hearts = & hearts without the space &star = & star without the space Your welcome! &hearts IceFawn
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This isnt my favorite book in the series, but it is still rly good!! Definitly reccomend to all looking for a good, long read!
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Greatest characters
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Started reading in 6th grade and I'm almost done with the series 5 years later
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These books are amazing! If you try to read another book, you will get confused. I tried to find this book at the library, but i didnt. I read the fourth book a little bit and got very confused.
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I a- --mescho- --d a-d lo-e i-!!!!!!!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I'm still going to get this book, but thanks to those certain people who spoiled it for me... love the series anyways. :/
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Love the cloths megan makes
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