Death Be Not Proud: A Memoir

Death Be Not Proud: A Memoir

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by John Gunther
     
 

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Johnny Gunther was only seventeen years old when he died of a brain tumor. During the months of his illness, everyone near him was unforgettably impressed by his level-headed courage, his wit and quiet friendliness, and, above all, his unfaltering patience through times of despair. This deeply moving book is a father's memoir of a brave, intelligent, and spirited boy.

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Johnny Gunther was only seventeen years old when he died of a brain tumor. During the months of his illness, everyone near him was unforgettably impressed by his level-headed courage, his wit and quiet friendliness, and, above all, his unfaltering patience through times of despair. This deeply moving book is a father's memoir of a brave, intelligent, and spirited boy.

Editorial Reviews

New York Times Book Review
If courage is the antidote to pain and griefthe disease and the cure are both in this book...A story of great unselfishness and great heroism.
New York Times
If courage is the antidote to pain and grief, the disease and the cure are both in this book...A story of great unselfishness and great heroism.
New York Herald Times
To read it is to grasp the meaning of a man's power to defy Death's hurt, to be filled with confidence and emptied of despair. It will bring spirit to the weary, new confidence and light to those who walk in shadow.
Walter Duranty
To read it is to grasp the meaning of a man's power to defy Death's hurt, to be filled with confidence and emptied of despair. It will bring spirit to the weary, new confidence and light to those who walk in shadow.
The New York Herald Tribune
New Yorker
A heartbreaking tale, beautifully written.
The New York Times
If courage is the antidote to pain and grief, the disease and the cure are both in this book...A story of great unselfishness and great heroism.
The New Yorker
A heartbreaking tale, beautifully written.

Product Details

ISBN-13:
9780812415438
Publisher:
Perfection Learning Prebound
Publication date:
07/01/1977
Pages:
205
Product dimensions:
5.10(w) x 7.80(h) x 0.70(d)

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Death Be Not Proud


By John Gunther

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Copyright © 1999 John Gunther
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Chapter One

Johnny came home for the Christmas holiday in 1945, and he looked fit and fine. He was lengthening out physically and otherwise, as children do all of a sudden, responding as it were to the release of some hidden inner spring. We saw a lot of each other, and just before getting on the train to return to school in January, he exclaimed, "Pop, that was the best ten days I ever had!" He didn't often confess personal emotions so freely, and I was pleased. Then in March, 1946, he came down again for the long spring holiday. Frances and I took him to several Broadway shows, including Show Boat and Antigone—he liked Antigone best; he went to lectures on atomic physics; Frances took him to the public dinner given by the City of New York to Winston Churchill—it was the first, and last, time he ever wore a dinner jacket, borrowed from his uncle; he won the critical game in a chess match against another school (he was captain now of the Deerfield chess team); he monkeyed with his chemicals and read the manuscript of the early chapters of Inside U.S.A. which was just then getting under way. I thought he seemed tired, but I did not take this seriously, believing it to be the normal reaction from a regime as vigorous as that of Deerfield, together with the strains ofadolescence. He had his usual check with Traeger, our family physician, who pronounced him perfectly all right. Also he had a check with an eye doctor. This was important. Johnny had suffered some eye strain the summer before and was taking exercises to strengthen his visual acuity. The eye doctor found nothing wrong; in fact, the eyes had improved to a considerable degree. The day after the examination by Traeger, Johnny complained suddenly of a slight stiff neck. If this had happened before Traeger saw him, I would have been more concerned, but since he had just been given a clean bill of health, we did not take anything so minor as a stiff neck seriously. Indeed, it disappeared after a day, and Johnny went back to school, sighing a little that the holiday was over but happy and full of energy and anticipation.

Deerfield had an infantile paralysis case that spring, and, as is the custom of the school with its strict standards, all parents were notified at once. Then in the third week of April I had a wire from the school doctor, Johnson, saying that Johnny was in the infirmary but, though he had a stiff neck, there was no indication of polio and we were not to worry. Nothing at all alarming was indicated. Boys get stiff necks and Charley horses all the time. In fact, Dr. Johnson said, he was informing us of Johnny's complaint only because, knowing of the polio scare and hearing that he was in the infirmary, we might think that he did have polio, which he didn't. I called Johnny up, and we talked briefly. He was lonely and fretful at missing a week of class work, but otherwise nothing seemed to be amiss. He was going into the nearby town the next day to have a basal metabolism test, and Dr. Johnson asked me to find out from Traeger when he had last had a basal, and what it was. I reported all this to Frances, and thought little more of it. Later we found that Johnny might not have gone to the infirmary at all, since he would never admit it when he was ill and never complained, except that one of his classmates, observing his stiff neck, insisted on his seeing the doctor. Then, wisely, Dr. Johnson held him for observation. Had this not happened, he might have died then and there.

At about three in the afternoon on Thursday, April 25, the telephone rang in our New York apartment. Just at that moment I had finished the California chapters of my book, and I had intended calling Johnny that night to tell him.

Without hesitation or warning Dr. Johnson said, "We've had a doctor in from Springfield to see your son—Dr. Hahn, a neurologist. Here he is."

Dr. Hahn said, "I think your child has a brain tumor."

I was too stunned to make sense. "But that's very serious, isn't it?" I exclaimed.

Dr. Hahn said, "I should say it is serious!" He went on, in a voice so emphatic that it was almost strident, "His disks are completely choked."

"His what?"

"Ask any doctor in the world what that means—choked disks!" he shouted.

He proceeded to describe other symptoms, and implored me with the utmost urgency to get in touch at once with Dr. Tracy Putnam, the best man for this kind of thing anywhere within range; in fact, even before talking to me, he and Johnson on their own responsibility had put in a call for Putnam. The next half hour passed in a grinding crisscross of calls. I talked to Traeger, I called Deerfield back, I got in touch with Frances who was out in Madison, I reached Putnam, I consulted Traeger once more, and by half-past four I was at 168th Street, waiting in Putnam's office. We picked Frances up in New Haven and, driving hard through greasy rain on an ugly, gritty night, with the windshield smeared all the time by fog and thick penetrating mist, reached Deerfield at about ten. Putnam said little as we drove, with our hearts dropping out of us. Five minutes after I got there I knew Johnny was going to die.

I cannot explain this except by saying that I saw it on the faces of the three doctors, particularly Hahn's. I never met this good doctor again, but I will never forget the way he kept his face averted while he talked, then another glimpse of his blank averted face as he said goodbye, dark with all that he was sparing us, all that he knew would happen to Johnny, and that I didn't know and Frances didn't know and that neither of us should know for as long as possible.





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What a tribute to the fortitude, the beauty and the invincibility of the human spirit!

Meet the Author

John Gunther (1901-1970) was one of the best known and most admired journalists of his day. The author of the immensely popular Inside books—a series of profiles of major world powers, beginning with Inside Europe, published in 1936—he was born on the north side of Chicago and died on May 29, 1970.

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Death Be Not Proud (Turtleback School & Library Binding Edition) 4.3 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 69 reviews.
AlanaH6 More than 1 year ago
When you think about death, what comes to mind? Death drags along so many images and feelings; it's difficult to pin on just one. Some people think of sadness, tears, heart-break, and grief- lots of grief. This is definitely not the case for Johnny Gunther in Death Be Not Proud. Before I was even half way through the book, the resilience of young Johnny already amazed me. When vulnerably exposed to the face of death, he somehow manages to keep a positive perspective on life. "Almost always when I called him early in the morning to ask how he was feeling, he would answer, no matter how feeble his voice was, 'Simply marvelous!'" (39). This book is meant for anyone- young, old or somewhere in between- who could use a bit of hope in their lives because Gunther portrays that element very well throughout his story. He expands on the tiniest details and re-lives those glorious moments for readers, "What a blessed day it was when, with great shouts of glee, Johnny was allowed a real shampoo!" (81). Why on earth would anyone get excited about using this every-day toiletry? Johnny knew the answer to that question which displays to audiences his full grasp on life and longing to enjoy every aspect of it. Occasionally, parts seemed dull and maybe even repetitive. The common scene of doctor, after doctor, after doctor is recurrent but I cannot argue with that fact mostly because much of Johnny's final months were doing just that! Some might argue that Gunther's closeness to this case might fog the view on his son's death. But I am convinced that his close proximity to each event taken place made it possible to produce such a well-descripted, emotion-packed piece of work. I highly recommend this memoir to anyone looking for a new perspective on life or just wants a touching read.
dustinwagnerp1 More than 1 year ago
This book was inspiring because Johnny Gunther Jr. was a young boy who was diagnosed with brain cancer when he was in his teens. Since this is the year 1943 the doctors don't know very many things about the certain type of cancer that he had. Although he had half of his brain removed he could still move around and do stuff one of the most amazing things that he did was when he had to finish 43 labs in one week he did because he worked hard in it and if he hadn't have died in the summer then he would have been enrolled in Harvard in the fall. This book really motivated me telling me that anybody can do anything as long as they believe in themselves that they can do it then they can do it. This is shown in when the doctors say that he only has a year to live and he fights with the cancer super hard and he winds up living an extra three months. I would recommend this book to anyone who wants to get inspired.
Social_Heel More than 1 year ago
Death Be Not Proud resonates with me on many different levels. Without going into personal matters, as a teenager, this book quickly became my favorite. It's the personal recount of a father, John Gunther, struggling with his terminally ill son, Johnny, inflicted with a brain tumor. It's about the unstoppable nature parents posses to save their child, regardless of how silly or inconceivable the strategy might seem. Diets to starve the tumor. Gas to shrink it. It's about searching for answers that no one has. Through this entire ordeal, Johnny, has an unwavering passion for life. While his body suffers the effects of the procedures and the tumor, his mind does not. That is something special I keep referring back to. For Johnny, with an IQ off the charts, letters to Albert Einstein at 16 or 17 years old, and taking on course loads that had never been entertained at his school, his mind was one of his greatest gifts. As his father points out, it's ironic that the best feature of Johnny was the one that was being attacked. Of course, identifying something as best is all relative. I would suggest his heart was his best feature. I applaud Gunther for writing this tribute to Johnny. With this book, Johnny's memory can now last in the minds of millions, not just the few that had the privilege to actually know this special young man.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I literally just finished reading this memoir at three in the morning. Not only the style with which Gunther writes but also the story behind it all and Johnny's experience itself, combine to make this memoir truly life changing. No more can be said about this book that I would recommend to anyone who asks.
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Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Death Be Not Proud was a very emotional novel, that really draws the reader in with its heartbreaking plot. The story is about the author¿s son, who died at the age of 17 after a fourteen month illness caused by a brain tumor. This novel really changes your view on life, and how much we take for granted things dear to us. The struggle for life or death and the determination this little boy has is awe inspiring and could possibly benefit how you live your life tomorrow and for the rest of you life.
Anonymous 7 months ago
Well written. Very touching. Johnnie sounds like he was a remarkable young man. Mr. Gunther let us experience those last months of his son's life and it made me sad to know a boy with such spirit died so young.
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I wish Johny didn't have to die!!!!!!!!!!!! He was such a good person and he wanted to live more than anything. It scares me knowing it could happen to anyone. I noticed that there was nothing written about the parents' feelings. In the end it says they had a daughter who died before she turned 1, which means they lost both their children:(
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