Table of Contents
Acknowledgments vii
Part I
Who I Am 3
Why I Wrote This Book: The Demise of the Human Family; Women are the New Men 7
A Letter to Women 11
The Origin of Cheating 17
The Culture of Cheating 19
What is Cheating Today? 21
Redefining Cheating and Monogamy 25
What is the New Monogamy? 27
A Cheater's Mind 31
The Different Types of Cheaters 35
No Color Lines 39
The New Cheating-Social Network Cheating 41
Lies Cheaters Tell 45
Five Myths Why Men Cheat 49
Five Myths Women Consider Cheating 50
The Difference Between a Cheater and a Player 51
Great Men Do Cheat 55
Battle of the Sexes 59
Tiger Woods: The Cheating Prophet 63
Why Do Powerful Men Cheat So Badly? 67
Let Them Eat Cake: The Study 73
The Consequences of Cheating 77
Part II
Conversations with a Cheating Man-The Opening 83
Conversation #1-The Gift and the Curse: Why Men Cheat 87
The Re-Education of the Male 93
Conversation #2-Good Guy vs. Bad Boy 97
Conversation #3-The Wrong Day to Cheat 105
Six Virtues of the New Man 115
Conversation #4-Life Imitating Art 121
Conversation #5-Know Your Limitations 129
Learning How Not to Cheat 137
Conversation #6-How I Learned Not to Cheat 141
Conversation Finale-The New Man 147
Getting a Man Upgrade 153
Part III
The Real Destruction of Women 163
How Women Enable Cheating 167
The 30-Day Rule 173
The Nookie Opportunity 177
How to Spot a Cheater 183
Five Signs a Man is Cheating 186
Finding Out if a Man Can Be Faithful 187
How to Keep a Faithful Man Committed 189
How to Become First in a Man's Life 195
Pockets Over Pedigree 199
The Valentine's Day Massacre 205
The Truth About Freaks and Good Girls 213
Pulling a Yoko Ono 217
What Men Really Want in a Woman 223
About the Authors 241
Just the Facts: Q&A 245
Reader's Discussion Guide 247
